Why has the church not contacted me?

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I am interested in joing the church, and getting information about RCIA and the procedure. I have called the church and emailed and have had no response. Is this just not the time for inquiry on new membership? Or are they just not looking for new members?
 
Many Priests are very overworked theses days. I would stop by the rectory and make an appointment to speak with the Pastor. Or, you could pick up a bulletin and see if there is a contact # for RCIA.

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Someone is dropping the ball. Is there another parish in the area? If so, try until you get someone.
 
I am interested in joing the church, and getting information about RCIA and the procedure. I have called the church and emailed and have had no response. Is this just not the time for inquiry on new membership? Or are they just not looking for new members?
From my point of view the best thing t do is to talk to the priest after Mass. I think that it is better to do things in person, depending on the parish it could be easy to get dropped in the chaos. The Church always looks for converts, just do not rely too much on electronic forms of communication, most of the sacramental activities are based on a personal interaction.
 
I am interested in joing the church, and getting information about RCIA and the procedure. I have called the church and emailed and have had no response. Is this just not the time for inquiry on new membership? Or are they just not looking for new members?
When I was involved with RCIA we posted a contact number in the Parish bulletin. I believe that is what most parishes do. You could also speak with the Pastor or even with the secretary at the Rectory. Either could put you in touch with who you need to speak with to get started.
 
I’m sorry they didn’t get right back to you, for whatever reason. I hope you’ll keep trying. If you don’t have a bulletin, the contact number for RCIA might be on the parish’s web site.

This won’t be the first obstacle that comes into your path to joining the Church. Whatever happens, ask God to be with you and to help you persevere, so that your difficulties will be a source of grace, rather than temptation.

God be with you!
 
I am interested in joing the church, and getting information about RCIA and the procedure. I have called the church and emailed and have had no response. Is this just not the time for inquiry on new membership? Or are they just not looking for new members?
I’m sorry that you were not welcomed immediately when you made your request. Perhaps you should think about looking to another parish. If they haven’t responded to you, they might not have the best RCIA program.

RCIA normally begins in the Fall, and ends around now. The Sacraments are normally given at the Easter Vigil. However, if you are already a Baptized Christian, the process can be shortened.

God bless,

Fr. Boyd
 
This won’t be the first obstacle that comes into your path to joining the Church. Whatever happens, ask God to be with you and to help you persevere, so that your difficulties will be a source of grace, rather than temptation.
Easter Joy is absolutely correct. This may be more a matter of the Devil throwing up roadblocks than it is of the parrish not being interested.

As a point of interest, most RCIA programs start up around September and lead up to Baptism/Confirmation at Easter Vigil. It may be that they put your name on their list and will contact you with dates and times later in the summer.
 
Try another church. Most church’s have at the bottom of the bullitin about new members. Don’t give up.
 
I am interested in joing the church, and getting information about RCIA and the procedure. I have called the church and emailed and have had no response. Is this just not the time for inquiry on new membership? Or are they just not looking for new members?
What parish in which area have you tried contacting?
 
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RCIA normally begins in the Fall, and ends around now. The Sacraments are normally given at the Easter Vigil.
not necessarily, RCIA should really be a year round process, especially if at least some of the teaching, prayer and reflection flows from the Sunday scripture readings. In any case, the period of preparation for an unbaptized person who has, after a period of inquiry, decided to progress toward baptism and the other sacraments should be not less than one calendar year, beginning right now, in the Easter season. So you are right on target, but maybe the parish you are contacting is not. Keep trying. and welcome home, even though you are still on the road you are going in the right direction.

in the meantime, come on here, evangelization forum is a good place to ask questions about this whole process. and yes it is true if you are already baptized, the preparation need not necessarily take as long. actually, as they say, it takes as long as it takes, everybody does not move at the same speed.
 
I am interested in joing the church, and getting information about RCIA and the procedure. I have called the church and emailed and have had no response. Is this just not the time for inquiry on new membership? Or are they just not looking for new members?
I would just keep trying. You should try going to Mass and meeting the priest. That way you know if you even like him.
 
Kind of a side note, but I have an appointment with a Priest tomorrow in regards to getting in the RCIA program. 👍
 
I just want to add my voice to the others encouraging you to keep trying, either at this church or another. I am in the process of conversion and was quite intimidated about making that first call. I got a fairly good reception, but I can just imagine what it would have been like if I got no response. Coming from the Protestant Church, it is a new experience because everything seems so much more formal and a little bit difficult. It’s not just a matter of “showing up” as it can be with the Protestants.

But this formality and the taking of everything more seriously is one of the reasons why I am converting in the first place! My observation is that the larger churches seem to have an easier process of contacting someone, whereas the smaller churches might be slightly overwhelmed and not have processes in place. You might want to see if there is a larger church in your area where you can attend a Mass, sit in the back, and get a bulletin. Some churches have their bulletin online.
 
I am interested in joing the church, and getting information about RCIA and the procedure. I have called the church and emailed and have had no response. Is this just not the time for inquiry on new membership? Or are they just not looking for new members?
Many priests are very busy right now with children’s Sacramental Preparation programs; it’s possible that your messages have gotten lost in the shuffle.

Keep trying - remember the persistent widow. 🙂
 
I want to thank all of you for your kind words. I have contacted the RCIA education person by phone and email. I feel frustrated as I am very excited to begin this journey. The best part is my wife a "sometimes practicing catholic"is going to go back to church as well.
 
I want to thank all of you for your kind words. I have contacted the RCIA education person by phone and email. I feel frustrated as I am very excited to begin this journey. The best part is my wife a "sometimes practicing catholic"is going to go back to church as well.
It’s odd that they wouldn’t call you back, even if only to let you know when the classes are starting. :confused:
 
Is this just not the time for inquiry on new membership? Or are they just not looking for new members?
It could be either or both. It seems common in my area too.

RCIA is optional.

You can enter the Church via private meetings/lessons with a priest also. 👍
 
It could be either or both. It seems common in my area too.

RCIA is optional.

You can enter the Church via private meetings/lessons with a priest also. 👍
The “option” in “optional” is the priest’s option, of course - not the individual’s option.

The priest may choose to instruct you privately, or he can choose to send you to RCIA classes. You, of course, will do whatever the priest instructs you to do. 😉
 
I am interested in joing the church, and getting information about RCIA and the procedure. I have called the church and emailed and have had no response. Is this just not the time for inquiry on new membership? Or are they just not looking for new members?
Inquiry should be year round. There should not be a wait "until fall for someone seeking information now in April! Stop by the church office and explain that you have called and Emailed with no response. If you still cannot get any information simply call the diocese.
 
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