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Be careful here. We really need to read the whole article rather than picking out the part that supports the way we want to live. The same article (which I’ll cite, since you didn’t: post-gazette.com/pg/06319/738380-84.stm ) says:I don’t know why people don’t pay better attention to our bishops. Simply google “US Bishops tackle contraception and communion” and you will find something like 15,000 articles, most dealing with the US Conference of Catholic Bishops in Nov 2006 in Baltimore at which the bishops voted 148-75 that using contraceptives was no reason for catholics to refrain from receiving communion.
Note that there is no debate among the bishops that contraception is objectively wrong, but rather debate over whether that issue should be singled out as a reason not to receive communion:On another sexual issue, the bishops voted 220-11 without debate to approve a brochure for engaged couples that explains church teaching against artificial contraception and urges them to use natural family planning based on the woman’s fertility cycle. But contraception figured heavily into a debate over a document on reception of communion, with the bishops rejecting an effort to name contraception as a reason to refrain from receiving communion.
Bishop Arthur Serratelli of Paterson, N.J., said that the drafters did not include contraception because it was not intended to be a comprehensive list of sins and there was a concern that this “particularly difficult pastoral problem” would distract from everything else in the document. Bishop Salvatore Cordileone, auxiliary of San Diego, argued that not mentioning it would draw even more attention.
It would seem that there is something to what Bishop Cordileone is saying, since you seem to believe this is not grave matter.“If we are silent on this issue, perhaps people won’t go so far as to say we are winking at it, but at least we would easily create the misperception that this is not an issue involving grave matter.” “Grave matter,” along with informed reflection and willful intent, constitutes mortal sin.
“Everyone does it” doesn’t make it right. You may be in a state of grace and receiving communion, but that would only be due to ignorance on the topic and Church teaching. The Magesterium teaches that contraception objectively evil.The bishops’ report indicated that 96% of catholics use the same birth control methods as the rest of the population. Only 4% use the so called natural method. Those of us using the usual contraceptives are in the state of grace and are receiving communion. This has been true for many catholics ever since the mid '60’s when the Vatican II Bishops Study Committee voted 57 to 3 that there was no doctrinal or theological reason not to lift the ban on contraception. The pope did not agree but it was too late. The majority of catholics went with the bishops.
Again, “Everyone does it” doesn’t make it right. And no one is saying you have to have a as many kids as possible…just that the marital act must remain open to life. I would recommend Patrick Coffin’s book “Sex Au Natural - what it is and why it is good for your marriage.”It’s time to stop this silliness of thinking there is something wrong with birth control. Hasn’t anyone noticed that catholic families are pretty much the same size as those of the rest of the population?