it’s my belief that Islam is a hate group, not a religion
If that is your belief, it is unlikely that anybody is going to change your mind any time soon.
Needless to say, there are bad people who are Muslims. There are also some very unpleasant cultures where Islam is the main religion. You will not get any argument from me on either of those counts. But I don’t think that people do bad things because they are Muslims or that bad cultures evolve because of Islam.
On an individual level, there are also a lot of bad people who are Christians. There are even more bad people who are Christians if you include people who are Christian merely in the sense that they come from a Christian cultural background (just as many of the bad Muslims are Muslims only in the sense that Islam is their cultural background).
There are also Christian countries where bad things happen and where these things are to a large extent a part of the local culture. For example, Jamaica is a country where violence, criminality, misogyny, and a hatred of homosexuals is normalised. In Russia, the world’s largest Eastern Orthodox Christian country, violence against women and children is similarly normalised. If you look at this
table of countries by intentional homicide rate, you will see that the top 33 countries are countries where Christianity is the main religion. As for honour killings, yes, they do commonly occur among Muslims, but they are sadly also widespread among Hindus and Sikhs in India and Nepal. In the Middle East, honour killings are also reported among the Christian minority as well as among Muslims.
Unfortunately, “Christian” values are often simply western values, and “non-Christian” values are often simply non-western values. Compare Poland and the Czech Republic, for example. Poland is one of the most strongly Christian countries in Europe, while the Czech Republic is one of the least religious countries in Europe. Yet their values are broadly similar. On the other hand, I know Iraqi Christians, and I can tell you that their attitudes towards women are not hugely dissimilar to the attitudes of Iraqi Muslims. When I have been to Israel/Palestine, I have found that the attitudes of Christian Arabs are overall not very tolerable to a western woman. On the other hand, I have met people from the Ismaili Muslim community in London, which is extremely western in outlook, and their attitudes are basically the same as you would find among British Christians (unsurprising, as Aga Khan IV is of three quarters European ancestry).