Newsflash:
Your PARENTS are the primary educators of their child in the faith. If your parents did not teach you, take your complaints to THEM.
You’re right. I’ve often wished that my parents (my father at least, my mother is Lutheran) had taught me more themselves. My parents never talked to me about sex, relationships or chastity either, other things I had to learn on my own. I think that for a child to have to learn about sex and relationships on their own (forget sex ed in public schools, all they tell you is to use a condom) is very dangerous. The child’s opinion of sex and relationships will be very much influenced by their peers if not their parents, and if their peers have questionable morals, there is obvious danger. The same goes for the faith as a whole.
Yes, and the students I have taught for 3 years have now attempted to tell the teacher that they have this year (my husband) that they “never learned” X, Y, or Z.
They are (a) purposely lieing or (b) really that stupid. Because the topics they are attempting to feign ignorance of were topics we drilled on for three years. And, yes, they were from the Catechism.
Do you teach the students about why things like abortion, gay marriage, and masturbation are wrong? If you do, that’s wonderful. My experiences could be limited to the parish that I attended. If not, then you see my point. At parishes where these things are not taught, it will be up to the individual to form a conscience. I have already explained the obvious danger in this.
I suspect you have a skewed memory of what was taught in your catechism classes, as well.
I suppose I can’t prove anything to you unless you were to quiz me on my CCD curriculum. All I will ask in response to your comment is this: Does it not mean anything to you that I care enough to complain about this? I could have been any other student, going to CCD and getting confirmed because my parents wanted me to, not paying attention to what was being taught, and not caring enough to continue my faith formation. I cared enough about my faith to realize that I had not been taught nearly enough about my faith to be able to defend it against naysayers. If I had been taught enough, I wouldn’t have started this thread.
Those topics are more appropriate for upper high school-- and you seem to have stopped your religious education at age 15.
You’re right. A continuation of Catechism classes that would teach upper-high school aged teens would be a wonderful tool to educate those people about modern applications of our faith. However, my parish did not, and does not have this, and I suspect this may very well be the case at plenty of other parishes as well.
The parish religious education program is a supplement to, not a replacement of, the formation you should have received from your parents.
Again, you are right. However, if my parents did not teach me these things sufficiently, should that doom me to remain oblivious to Church teaching?
Ah, now you are catching on. It is YOUR responsibility.
Is it not a community’s responsibility to educate its children? The children can’t be expected to educate themselves. I educated myself, but if more had been taught in CCD or in a young adult faith formation class, there would be even more educated folks like me.
It saddens me that people think it is someone else’s responsibility other than their own and their parents.
The parents definitely need to be proactive in finding a good education for the child, if not teaching the child themselves. However, if the Church wants its teachings to be known and understood, and wants to spread its message, why would some parishes not make more effort to teach? Those parents who may not be able to answer every question their child has should be able to trust that the parish will be able to answer the questions for them.
Oh, yes, I’m sure you would have been there with bells on had someone told you that you could attend.
I don’t appreciate your sarcasm. This is a true concern of mine, as I have experienced its effects first hand.
Great, then volunteer to teach it and start a program.
I would absolutely love to do that. I may very well do that sometime after I get out of college.