The_Reginator
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im in favor for long homilies actually
I like long Masses with lots of chant and silences.
But hearing someone talk on a Sunday morning makes me, umm, shall we say, very relaxed.
im in favor for long homilies actually
I am quite the opposite. The Ordinary Form of the Mass is far too short for me.Why is the mass so long?
i found this site when I googled “45 minute mass.” It started roughly 4 years ago when we were attending mass based on our sons’ schedules. After one such mass, my wife said, “you know, next time conor [our older son, now 25] is home, we ought to go to mass here, because at least the homily won’t alienate him.”
I thought about it and decided to start attending that parish because they always had good homilies. Eventually I joined the parish. It was some time after that that I noticed their Sunday masses generally ran 40-45 minutes. I even started running into people I knew from other parishes, who came there because the mass wasn’t “a big production” and was over in 45 minutes.
That’s when my problem started. I realized that the parish, headed by an irish priest, had cut out a lot of stuff that makes the mass longer. (in my previous parishes, masses ran close to an hour.)
Then that priest retired, and sure enough, his replacement started lengthening the mass. I started thinking more about the length of the mass, and it started to bug me that these guys (the priests) were wasting my time by lengthening the mass.
(keep in mind two things: 1) this parish was farther away than the closest parish, and I didn’t mind spending more time driving to and from the new parish; 2) I’m fairly spiritual in that I spend 30-45 minutes in private prayer per day, and in addition say the rosary with my wife the four days of the week she doesn’t work.)
So I started looking for another parish. It’s not easy to find a meaningful 45 minute mass. I just don’t like my time wasted, and I don’t like the fact that it appears that the mass has been lengthened for no other reason than to make it longer. Like longer = better.
I’ve a sneaking suspicion that somewhere along the line, someone said, hey the protestants go to church for two hours (or whatever it is), we better make ours longer.
My wife suggested I give up for lent obsessing about this, and I did. Yesterday it really bugged me, so here I am….i live in south jersey.
I’ve checked out all the parishes nearby, and they all run close to an hour.
Thanks for letting me rant a bit. I’m just wondering if I am alone in the way I think.
Nicely put. I couldn’t agree more. I especially like the point made about the clipboard and pencil, as that’s the way many of us were trained to absorb information.True, but when the homilist is good, I can happily listen to a very long homily. It does take a homilist who organizes his thoughts, well, though. It is really frustrating to lose track of all the points made, because the organization wasn’t there. (Nobody has a clipboard and pencil, dear Fathers and Deacons! You have to lay the foundation well, if it is going to be a long one.)
Again, though, just the fact that one is giving a homily or presiding at Mass doesn’t give one carte blanche to ramble or dawdle around without any purpose. Being deliberate, taking time for solemnity, fine. Use the time well, take two hours, be my guest. But please, don’t squander time and tell people they lack piety and generosity of heart when they lose their patience. It is you they don’t have all day for, not the Lord. Five minutes of babbling without saying anything substantial or meaningful, let alone instructive or edifying, is five minutes too long, and I don’t care if Mass only takes 20 minutes. Every moment at Mass should be, as far as possible, filled with excellence and treated like gold.
(I didn’t mean you personally, Father!!)
I guess so. I also like the songs - mainly because I can participate, and especially in singing, I felt so close to the Lord that there are times I felt so moved I cried out of joy.You’d be in a distinct minority on that one…lol
I’d actually seen people whipping out little notebooks and pen during mass though; and I tried it too, but it tend to break my concentration rather than focusing on it.(Nobody has a clipboard and pencil, dear Fathers and Deacons! You have to lay the foundation well, if it is going to be a long one.)
I don’t usually notice the time during mass =)
I like long Masses with lots of chant and silences.
But hearing someone talk on a Sunday morning makes me, umm, shall we say, very relaxed.
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Here’s what I think is going on. A lot of priests want LOTS of people to be able to attend daily Mass or even Sunday Mass to be able to receive Our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament and the graces that come with Mass attendance. But in order to accomodate the needs of working people (including people who work at home, e.g., mothers of young children), these priests try to keep the Mass short and pithy without eliminating any requirements.Maybe in New England, but here in upstate NY, even the earliest Mass of the day, 6:30am at the Cathedral takes 25 minutes, minimum. I attend daily Mass at least 3-4 times a week (at different times and at different parishes, depending on my schedule) and have never been to one that lasts any less.
Out of curiosity, do the 15 minute Masses have a homily?
No disrespect, Tony, but once more, I do not think I am here for “show” either, neither does our choir director, who does his best to choose only the best music, both congregational hymns and choral anthems for the house of God. There is a chance for all to sing, yes. There is also a chance to listen to the word of God as sung by somebody else. I’m sure you do a good job of cantoring, no doubt. However, there is more than one way to skin a cat, so to speak. I take a great amount of offense at your last statement, that choirs and choral music is all about “show”.I humbly disagree . and disclaimer here: I am a cantor. At those appointed times when the congregation is to participate, if their participation is pre-empted because a music director felt it more important to entertain than provide the opportunity for participation by all, then it is window dressing. As cantor, I am particularly sensitive to making sure that what I do in leading the people in music is truly that – a chance for all to join in. Its not my show. I am their servant to lead them.
The time for participation by the congregation is not when the celebrant delivers his homily, therefore the role of attentive spectator is what is expected.
God bless
Tony
It’s also the way many of us learned to deliver information. That’s fine in the right place, but the current skill sets employed for oral rhetoric, both expressive and receptive, sometimes leaves settings like the homily out in the cold. We are used to either extremely short advertising sound bites or rather long academic expositions visually supported by PowerPoint slides. Each has its place, but neither fits the Mass.Nicely put. I couldn’t agree more. I especially like the point made about the clipboard and pencil, as that’s the way many of us were trained to absorb information.
I’ve found that listening as though I would have to relate the homily back to a third person, and in the presence of the homilist, really helps keep my mind from wandering off. Otherwise, he’ll make some interesting point early on, my mind will be after that one like a dog on a rabbit, and I’ll miss the rest of what he has to say. The practice has made me appreciate well-constructed homilies, though!I’d actually seen people whipping out little notebooks and pen during mass though; and I tried it too, but it tend to break my concentration rather than focusing on it.
Exactly. For those who claim to believe in Christ as our Savior, I cannot fathom why one would not desire to spend time with Him. Many have stated that, before receiving the grace of belief in Christ’s presence in the Eucharist, they also thought mass to be too long and/or boring. Mass is never too long or boring. It is we who are too impatient or uninvolved.God gives you 168 hours every week. You probably give your employer 40 of them. Some are probably spent watching TV or sports, or just snoozing on the sofa. Is it really so much to give one hour back to Him?
You are just infected with that ol’ Jersey impatience! Please consider the very reason that you attend mass in the first place. As to your busy schedule, fuggetaboutit for an hour, will ya?Thanks for letting me rant a bit. I’m just wondering if I am alone in the way I think.
Seriously? I was under the impression that we had to have at least four.I was peeved this year because the Easter Vigil was shortened; they had only 2 readings from the Old Testament.
You must have 3 OT, plus the Epistle plus the Gospel.Seriously? I was under the impression that we had to have at least four.
I’d love to go to one where they have all seven. That would be glorious.![]()