Why is the US Catholic church so obsessed with the gay issue?

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But none of this changes what is wrong.
True. Assuming that you consider contraception and SSM to be wrong, then two wrongs do not make a right. But most people who are complaining about SSM are not guilty of some minor infraction of church rules. Contraception is a mortal sin. It should preclude you from taking the sacrament. And we are talking about the majority of Catholics here.
 
Reminds me of the time when Jesus ate with the tax collectors!

…Or wait…

Not really. The spectrum of “scandal” is not black and white, either/or.
Scandel is defined by the conventions of a culture. Two men holding hands in another culture doesn’t hint to homosexuality in any way, for example.

Christi pax.

Lucretius
 
The reasons are probably many–not the least of which is that they think they are helping kids avoid the old lies about traditional relationships being right and normal.

G.K. Chesterton said something like, People becoming aware of sex realize two things: first that it is wonderful, second, that it is dangerous.

Parents of young kids have a healthy awareness that sexuality is both of those things. The culture just thinks it is great fun.
The fact that our culture wants to undermine what parents want to teach their children, should be widely known by every Catholic parent. If we were more acutely aware, we’d be even more “obsessed with the gay issue.”
That is correct. I heard the following from a 17 year old who was about to turn 18 to his raised Catholic, and sent him to Catholic school, parents. “When I turn 18, I don’t gotta listen to you no more!”

That is the problem. Turning 18 does not automatically confer wisdom or “Now I get to do what I want to do and you can’t stop me!” I knew this young man since he was 6 years old.

It’s awareness first followed by appropriate action. If you don’t raise your kids, someone else will, like the media.

Having real relationships is right and normal, NOT hopping into bed because sex is all that really matters.

Ed
 
That implies that any celibate person leads a sad and lonely life which is silly.

Plus, I think the core issue there is that people today often think “love” basically only means “eros”
I said for many people.

Plus, I would agree that people who feel called to celibacy would not find themselves in this situation as much as those who do not sense such a calling, like the great many homosexual persons.
 
Scandel is defined by the conventions of a culture. Two men holding hands in another culture doesn’t hint to homosexuality in any way, for example.

Christi pax.

Lucretius
I think that emphasizes my point.

I do not see how an openly gay person, married or in a relationship, should be excluded from public church involvement or leadership – even if the various people around them understand homosexuality to be immoral. None of us in this life will be perfect, but we should embrace people where they are that. If a gay couple wants to come to church and be involved, that should be a moment of celebration for those who hold that homosexuality is immoral.
 
I think that emphasizes my point.

I do not see how an openly gay person, married or in a relationship, should be excluded from public church involvement or leadership – even if the various people around them understand homosexuality to be immoral. None of us in this life will be perfect, but we should embrace people where they are that. If a gay couple wants to come to church and be involved, that should be a moment of celebration for those who hold that homosexuality is immoral.
Not only are openly gay people in a relationship not allowed to serve in a leadership role, they can’t even participate in the Eucharist. In that respect, they are treated like Catholics who have been divorced and remarried without an annulment.
 
True. Assuming that you consider contraception and SSM to be wrong, then two wrongs do not make a right. But most people who are complaining about SSM are not guilty of some minor infraction of church rules. Contraception is a mortal sin. It should preclude you from taking the sacrament. And we are talking about the majority of Catholics here.
And one wrong does not prevent the naming of another.
 
I think that emphasizes my point.

I do not see how an openly gay person, married or in a relationship, should be excluded from public church involvement or leadership – even if the various people around them understand homosexuality to be immoral. None of us in this life will be perfect, but we should embrace people where they are that. If a gay couple wants to come to church and be involved, that should be a moment of celebration for those who hold that homosexuality is immoral.
Be involved? Sure.

Be in a leadership position? No way. No more than any other person that can’t receive the Eucharist due to any other ongoing mortal sin.
 
Be involved? Sure.

Be in a leadership position? No way. No more than any other person that can’t receive the Eucharist due to any other ongoing mortal sin.
Using the mortal sin card is just a way of restating that “homosexuality is immoral” because no human can know whether or not his brother or sister in a state of mortal sin; perhaps the action can be observed as “grave” based on traditional teachings and standards. But no one is apt to know whether someone is without grace in his or her soul.
 
No more than any other person that can’t receive the Eucharist due to any other ongoing mortal sin.
Coming from a church (ELCA) that practices open communion where everyone who believes that Jesus Christ is truly present in the bread and wine is welcome to participate, the fact that the Catholic Church restricts who can participate is one reason I could never be a Catholic. 🤷
 
I said for many people.

Plus, I would agree that people who feel called to celibacy would not find themselves in this situation as much as those who do not sense such a calling, like the great many homosexual persons.
But if a person feels called to sexual acts with a person of the same sex, shouldn’t reason require them to think deeply about the source of the call and the wisdom of the act?
 
Coming from a church (ELCA) that practices open communion where everyone who believes that Jesus Christ is truly present in the bread and wine is welcome to participate, the fact that the Catholic Church restricts who can participate is one reason I could never be a Catholic. 🤷
While there is some NT basis for being properly prepared to receive the Eucharist, based on Paul’s words and the fact that Christians receive Jesus, I think the CC goes too far by restricting the Eucharist from groups of people. Perhaps we should go back to the Didache, which tells of the faithful confessing their sins before communion. Each of us needs to be properly disposed, but this legalistic outlook on mortal sin in Catholic theology is a problem, I think.
 
That is correct. I heard the following from a 17 year old "When I turn 18, I don’t gotta listen to you no more!
I hope they did sex education in his school. Because it doesn’t sound like they did anything associated with English grammar.
 
But if a person feels called to sexual acts with a person of the same sex, shouldn’t reason require them to think deeply about the source of the call and the wisdom of the act?
I wouldn’t so much emphasize a calling to sexual acts. I know that that is the sticky issue at hand. But as Scripture says, it is not good for man to be alone. Celibacy is for those can take it; Paul recommends it and it a noble state in life, but it is a calling nonetheless.
 
I wouldn’t so much emphasize a calling to sexual acts. I know that that is the sticky issue at hand. But as Scripture says, it is not good for man to be alone. Celibacy is for those can take it; Paul recommends it and it a noble state in life, but it is a calling nonetheless.
And for those not finding a spouse? Is chastity for them too?
 
Perhaps we should go back to the Didache, which tells of the faithful confessing their sins before communion. Each of us needs to be properly disposed, but this legalistic outlook on mortal sin in Catholic theology is a problem, I think.
We always have communal confession and absolution in our church services in the ELCA where, before we receive communion, we all say:
Most merciful God,
we confess that we are captive to sin
and cannot free ourselves.
We have sinned against you in thought, word, and deed,
by what we have done
and by what we have left undone.
We have not loved you with our whole heart;
we have not loved our neighbors as ourselves.
For the sake of your Son, Jesus Christ,
have mercy on us.
Forgive us, renew us, and lead us,
so that we may delight in your will
and walk in your ways,
to the glory of your holy name.
Amen.
Our pastor then does the sign of the cross and gives us absolution by saying:
As a called and ordained minister of the Church of Christ, and by his authority, I therefore declare to you the entire forgiveness of all your sins, in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
 
We always have communal confession and absolution in our church services in the ELCA where, before we receive communion, we all say:

Our pastor then does the sign of the cross and gives us absolution by saying:
Wow I did not know any Lutheran church did that, or considered the minister as being able to do that… I thought absolution was a uniquely Catholic/Orthodox (and Anglican?) practice. But neat! There is also a public confession similar to that in the Mass, as you probably know, but the priest’s absolution is not so explicit at that time.
 
While there is some NT basis for being properly prepared to receive the Eucharist, based on Paul’s words and the fact that Christians receive Jesus, I think the CC goes too far by restricting the Eucharist from groups of people. Perhaps we should go back to the Didache, which tells of the faithful confessing their sins before communion. Each of us needs to be properly disposed, but this legalistic outlook on mortal sin in Catholic theology is a problem, I think.
The Church asks those who have sinned seriously to exclude themselves. They are able to re-admit themselves through confession. You speak as though this is some kind of unjust discrimination.
 
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