I don’t think ‘we’ can, but I’m also not sure that that’s what the OP is looking for. The opening post asks questions and doesn’t even bring up the Jesuits (that came later). I don’t think they’re even bad questions, really. Maybe upsetting the apple cart a bit in the way that they’re phrased, or how they don’t conform to the commonly taught history coming from the RCC, but…well, every communion has some of that. If the OPs questions are malformed, it’s probably a better idea to explain why that is rather than trying to absolve a different group that are not necessarily the main issue here.
Not being Maronite myself, I can’t really comment on this beyond saying that it is all a matter of perspective. Rome may have improved its relations with its Eastern compatriots (I don’t know), but…well, this kind of reminds me of something I recently saw elsewhere on the internet:
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It’s not that Rome or the Jesuits are inherently bad or anything, but that saying that “they’ve done a lot of good work in the world” or “they’ve made a lot of progress towards better relations” or anything else doesn’t fix the situation the Maronites are in. That’s not an attack on Rome or a call for schism or anything. That’s just the situation as some Maronites see it, and as a non-Maronite I would rather try to understand where they’re coming from than to assume that they are encouraging schism or being unfair or whatever. If you haven’t been through what they have (and you haven’t; and neither have I), it’s probably better to hear them out than to assume their motivations are this or that. Maybe they just want their church to be how it used to be and looking for ways to reclaim that?