I’d like to comment on something said in another thread as well:
Paul, and LW have both indicated something that I have seen over and over. When confronted with things about mormonism, they ended up studying their way out.
For me, I’d say that I somehow studied my way into the LDS Church, and studied my way out.
What I mean by that is that, as I mentioned before, I was somewhat convinced by LDS apologetics, at least on its surface, that Joseph Smith and/or his associates couldn’t have made it all up. Things such as pre-mortal existence, deification, Divine Council, eternal marriage, subordination of the Son to the Father, esoteric rites/mysteries, etc. all are found in some fashion anciently, so after reading the works of FARMS/MI and FAIR, I concluded that Joseph Smith either had a very large library, or he was inspired. I think that many LDS that read apologetic works frequently think along those lines as well.
After awhile, I found that LDS apologetics, while certainly answering various criticisms that are unwarranted and unsustainable (for example, I was never convinced by the “adieu” argument against the Book of Mormon, and don’t think it is relevant), doesn’t provide a coherent picture of the ancient Christianity that they are claiming Joseph Smith restored. As I’ve mentioned elsewhere, LDS apologists will pull from over here and over there, here a little, there a little, in the attempt to prove that “the ancient/primitive Church” believed such and such. Instead, the LDS apologists simply are unable to point to an actual, cohesive, organized “ancient/primitive Church” that actually believed said doctrine. There really is no Church of Jesus Christ of Former-day Saints.
I also found, as we saw in the Cumorah thread as an example, that many times, LDS apologetics creates a dichotomy between what LDS prophets and apostles have said and taught, including in General Conferences, and what the actual evidences show. When the actual evidences demonstrate that they were wrong about something, or if something doesn’t fit with the way they would like to present the Church, then we are to take the apologist argument over what the latter day prophets and apostles have stated. An example of that is with where Cumorah is. Another example is with the priesthood restriction on blacks until 1978. LDS will frequently state that we don’t know who, what, where, when, why as to the priesthood restriction. It is not known how it originated. But what we should focus on, and what we do know, is that it’s over. The problem I see with that is that the First Presidency in 1949 said in a letter:
"The attitude of the Church with reference to the Negroes remains as it has always stood. It is not a matter of the declaration of a policy but of direct commandment from the Lord, on which is founded the doctrine of the Church from the days of its organization, to the effect that Negroes may become members of the Church but that they are not entitled to the Priesthood at the present time. The prophets of the Lord have made several statements as to the operation of the principle. President Brigham Young said: “Why are so many of the inhabitants of the earth cursed with a skin of blackness? It comes in consequence of their fathers rejecting the power of the holy priesthood, and the law of God. They will go down to death. And when all the rest of the children have received their blessings in the holy priesthood, then that curse will be removed from the seed of Cain, and they will then come up and possess the priesthood, and receive all the blessings which we now are entitled to.”
President Wilford Woodruff made the following statement: “The day will come when all that race will be redeemed and possess all the blessings which we now have.”
The position of the Church regarding the Negro may be understood when another doctrine of the Church is kept in mind, namely, that the conduct of spirits in the premortal existence has some determining effect upon the conditions and circumstances under which these spirits take on mortality and that while the details of this principle have not been made known, the mortality is a privilege that is given to those who maintain their first estate; and that the worth of the privilege is so great that spirits are willing to come to earth and take on bodies no matter what the handicap may be as to the kind of bodies they are to secure; and that among the handicaps, failure of the right to enjoy in mortality the blessings of the priesthood is a handicap which spirits are willing to assume in order that they might come to earth. Under this principle there is no injustice whatsoever involved in this deprivation as to the holding of the priesthood by the Negroes." ***
So it seems that the First Presidency understood the priesthood restriction quite differently than apologists would have us believe, as well as the Church today. Because the LDS Church does not specifically define and state many things, the apologists are frequently left to opine and define where the Church doesn’t (though it is always amusing when the FAIR wiki will give explanations on various difficulties, then end with “The Church offers no opinion”).