It is, I’m sorry to say. It is religious folks, not gay people, who are being selfish. It is not selfish to want to be left alone, and not be told that their personal business, which harms nobody, legally prevents them from enjoying the same freedoms as their neighbors.
It is profoundly selfish, however, to presume to stand as spokepersons for God, the Creator of the Universe, and insist that complete strangers are nothing but poorly calibrated clockwork, and assert their right to stand as arbiters of how everyone else should live.
You are, in no way, entitled to have your opinions respected by the homosexual community. In turn, they are no more entitled to respect from you. What they are entitled to, given that the State has no demonstrated interest in prohibiting it, is the equal protection guaranteed by the 14th Amendment. Your problem is that you think you have legitimate right to deny them this (or expect your government to deny it for you) based on your presumed authority as religious people. Aside from the fact that there exists no compelling evidence that this authority is worth the Bible it’s printed on, the government explicitly denies that you have such authority.
I’m sorry, but this is quite amusing. You accuse gay people, who want the same rights as straight people, of being self-obsessed and narcissistic, while patting yourself on the back for spending a few minutes every week praying - that is, asking an invisible man who might not even be there - praying that he will relieve the suffering of CHRISTIANS in other parts of the world. Not Muslims. Nor Buddhists. Not the functionally a-religious - who might want a relationship with some God, if only they didn’t have to focus so much on finding food and not being murdered by drug-addled soldiers. None of these people who, incidentally, are destined for an eternity in Hell if they don’t manage to get their theological act together. Just the Christians.
I don’t know how many gay people actually pray for those living lives more unfortunate than their own. My guess is that few do. Part of the reason could be that if they’re going to commit to helping people, they have more practical ideas for accomplishing this than kneeling at one’s bedside and asking God to do all the heavy lifting.