Why the hostility toward Mary?

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The “First Lady” has no lawful position. She is just some lucky politician’s wife. We may respect her as a person, but she has no special brief, aside from what she is given by a mostly fawning media. Apples and oranges, “first lady”- Mother of God…no comparison.
Of course there is no comparison,why would anyone compare a diamond with a fake one?

I simply was asking the individual,if he feels the same about the First Lady’s status? Has nothing to do with her having any legal or political weight.
 
To the OP

I’ve seen a lot of protestant and other non-catholics with a certain disdain for Catholic practices concerning Mary, but never for the actual person. That almost seems blasphemous, or if not blasphemous slightly slanderous maybe? Something tells me this person was the victim of an overzealous Marian devotee.
Perhaps. That does seem like a plausible explanation.

Nevertheless, the OP’s experience does demonstrate that there’s at least one non-Catholic Christian with a contempt for the person of Mary.
 
Oh, now THAT is begging the question BIG time…cat amongst the pidgeons, lit match in the fireworks factory, declaring that the Catholic church is the definer of all things Christian in the non-Catholic religions forum begging–kinda like a Democrat wandering into a Tea Party and declaring that everybody there has to vote for Harry Reid, question begging.
Last I checked, this is still a Catholic forum, right? Truth cannot take a holiday simply because we are speaking in mixed company.

Clearly, you reject the definition. There is one, original and true definition of Christ and His teaching. That is the standard for all time, and all others must be compared to it. Answer me this: How many organizations, with vastly and sometimes diametrically opposing beliefs, get to define what Christ is? The correct answer, and the only one which serves the truth, is: one.
 
There are Christians that I met who practically do not want to have anything to do with her.
Indeed. In fact, those non-Catholic Christians, who (rightly) venerate the Scriptures will actually contravene the Scriptures if it means acknowledging the Catholic position. That is, they refuse to honor [BIBLEDRB]Luke 1:48[/BIBLEDRB] and call Mary the “Blessed Mother”. That’s too Catholic, even if it’s straight out of the Bible.

Their contempt for Catholicism supercedes their love of Scripture. :sad_yes:
 
Of course there is no comparison,why would anyone compare a diamond with a fake one?
I simply was asking the individual,if he feels the same about the First Lady’s status? Has nothing to do with her having any legal or political weight.
Got it. But for some, the “first lady” merits dulia.
 
I simpathize with you. It must be difficult to be at odds with so many of your siblings.

You never answered these questions:
Do you believe they are deliberately lying? It can’t possibly be a misconception?

Can I ask why you think so many of your siblings would lie like this? Do they have a pattern of lying about other things or do they confine their lies to the RC?

It’s just such an unusual situation.
**Yes, I believe they deliberately lie in some cases. In others they bend the truth and still in other cases they hide their head in the sand by ignoring the truth.

**They, like ALL Protestants have to do ONE or ALL of these things in order to accept what they have come to believe as the truth. The alternative is unthinkable because they would have to become Catholic. **

I am not saying this as an insult or to ruffle feathers. I am saying it because most of the Protestants I know personally, truly love the lord and some of them used to be Catholic. I have to believe that some of them are simply ignorant of the truth.**

My sister’s husband (the pastor) told me that he though I was being insulting and that I had made snide comments to my sister when I responded with my treatise on Mary because I used the word “ignorance”. I explained to him that I was not being insulting - that it was wishful thinking. I told him that I HOPED her charges and attacks were based on ignorance because some of them were downright heretical (the ones about the nature of Christ).
 
Oh, now THAT is begging the question BIG time…cat amongst the pidgeons, lit match in the fireworks factory, declaring that the Catholic church is the definer of all things Christian in the non-Catholic religions

forum begging–kinda like a Democrat wandering into a Tea Party and declaring that everybody there has to vote for Harry Reid, question begging.

As to whether Mary is/was lead by the Holy Spirit, I don’t know many, if any, Christians who would disagree with that one. However, as to your first claims regarding the definitions of heresy and Christianity, I think your version of Occam’s razor needs sharpening.
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				*Originally Posted by **po18guy*** 					[forums.catholic-questions.org/images/buttons_khaki/viewpost.gif](http://forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?p=7113824#post7113824) 				
			**By definition, "heresy" is a teaching that does not agree with Catholic teaching. So, no Catholic doctrine can ever be heresy for two reasons: The Catholic Church is the definer of all things Christian**
He’s right, you know.
Jesus Christ endowed the Catholic Church with all Truth and with the means to guard and to promulgate that Truth to all the world until the end of time. He made no mention of protestantism and certainly no mention of mormonism. He is the founder, therefore His agent (The Holy Father) is His arbitrator of all things Christian. Neither protestantism nor mormonism has any such brief.
po18guy’s razor is sufficiently sharp to shave both protestantism and mormonism.
 
You missed MY point here, which is that resistance to Marian doctrine is not just intellectual (reason), but also has emotional roots in their previous style of worship. I was not commenting on their “level of intelligence”. I was going for the first definition of the word “intellect”:

the power or faculty of the mind by which one knows or understands, as distinguished from that by which one feels and that by which one wills; the understanding; the faculty of thinking and acquiring knowledge.

Yes, I actually got you the first time. You were commenting on their laziness, not their mental abilities.
I read your description of how you educated yourself on doctrine in response to your sister, but I would guess (I don’t want to put words in your mouth 🙂 ) your love and appreciation of Mary did not start there. Did I read you wrong or did you not grow up in a Catholic famliy? Were you not exposed to images, statues, rosaries, May Crownings from an early age? If not, please don’t take things personally.

My point is that the native protestant doesn’t have these things in his/her past. These things are out of their experience, and while you can debate the truth of it, you also need to consider the emotional aspects that go along with it.

And I am simply asking you to consider whether this debate style of yours really wins arguments about Mary or not? 🤷 I don’t disagree with your positions, but I think, particularly in the case of the native-protestant, you really don’t understand that person’s situation and what is likely to get them to see the truth about Mary, assuming that is your goal in debating these points.

At any rate, good luck. Happy debating.
I rarely start threads. My goal is to defend the truth - with the facts.
I will NOT allow anybody to misrepresent the Church’s positions on anything - whether it be on this board or in my private life. I did that for too many years and I am ashamed of my prior silence.

If a non-Catholic tells me that they don’t believe a Catholic teaching - I will share with them my reasons for believing it and leave it at that.

However - when I hear or read somebody attacking the Church and making false charges - I will let them tell them why they’re wrong. My advice to anti-Catholics:
DON’T misrepresent the Church in front of me or you will get an earful.

**In other words - if you don’t want to hear me - don’t don’**t go there. I have very little patience for anti-Catholics because, in the end - their liars.

**As for my Marian devotion - I was exposed to statues and rosaries and other sacramentals and devotional tools when I was younger - and I came to reject them - thanks to my sister and her anti-Catholic materials. **
When I finally decided to stand up to her and defend the truth- I re-learned everything I had un-learned.
 
Perhaps. That does seem like a plausible explanation.

Nevertheless, the OP’s experience does demonstrate that there’s at least one non-Catholic Christian with a contempt for the person of Mary.
Exactly. A point I was trying to make but resisted by another poster.

Come to think about it, just how many cases of this happened as told by unfortunate Catholics, many of whom who would just keep silent not wanting to argue and defending themselves. At times those Christians can be very mean - the attack and sneer came even without provocation.
 
**Yes, I believe they deliberately lie in *some ***cases. In others they bend the truth and still in other cases they hide their head in the sand by ignoring the truth.

**They, like ALL **Protestants have to do ONE or ALL of these things in order to accept what they have come to believe as the truth. The alternative is unthinkable because they would have to become Catholic.

**I am not saying this as an insult or to ruffle feathers. I am saying it because most of the Protestants I know personally, truly love the lord and some of them used to be Catholic. I have to believe that some of them are simply ignorant of the truth.

My sister’s husband (the pastor) told me that he though I was being insulting and that I had made snide comments to my sister when I responded with my treatise on Mary because I used the word “ignorance”. I explained to him that I was not being insulting - that it was wishful thinking. I told him that I HOPED her charges and attacks were based on ignorance because some of them were downright heretical (the ones about the nature of Christ).
About the nature of christ? What religion is she? Apparently she isn’t even Christian. There are certain doctrines you must believe to be Christian. I’ve known people who don’t even believe that God is a real Being, but rather “a picture word we use to describe our existance” who call themselves Christian, but they are not. You are not Christian if you don’t follow nor believe the teachings of Christ or believe that there is a God at all!!! You simply can’t be Christian and deny Jesus at the same time.

What religion does she follow?
 
Yes, I believe they deliberately lie in some cases. …bend the truth or ignore [it]
They, like ALL Protestants have to do ONE or ALL of these things in order to accept what they have come to believe as the truth. …
I am not saying this as an insult
Of course you’re not. 🙂 And there is absolutely no excuse for those Protestants to be offended by what the RC teaches nor what their members state as fact about all non-catholics.

Well, it’s past my bedtime. May you all rest well tonight or have a great day, depending upon what time it is where each of you is at right now. 🙂
 
The other day I was chatting with another mom from my son’s preschool. The topic of church came up, as she was telling me that her church (an independent church) was sponsoring the Community Day that weekend. When I mentioned that I’m Catholic, she kind of sneered. She said that she"had a lot of friends that were Catholic growing up and went along to (CCD?) with them. They were doing the “Mary Thing”. When I asked her what she meant, she said “the sacrements”. I couldn’t help but notice the vemom with which she said “Mary”. I’ve only been Catholic for a few months, but this isn’t the first time I have experienced a hostility toward Mary from some non-Catholics. I was raised Methodist and we basically thought about Mary at Christmas. But never anything negative.

I’d like to hear from Catholics and non-Catholics. Is this something that is common? I don’t understand having contempt for Jesus’s mother, even if your particular faith tradition does not venerate her as Catholics do.

On a related note, why does the word “Roman” in Roman Catholic sometimes sound like a slur when used by non-Catholic Christians? I’m not trying to lump all non-Catholics together, I’m just trying to understand the negativity in some and how I can educate (if they are open) to what Catholics really believe as opposed to what they have been told we believe. I’m sorry this is so long. I really need some insight here.

Thank you,
Sharen
It has been drilled into many Protestants from a very young age that we “worship” Mary the same way we worship Our Lord. The funny thing is, if most Protestants read the writings of their founders, they would find they had a strong devotion to Our Lady. (John Wesley not included there)

Obviously this woman is not very well informed. She equates “The Mary Thing” with “The Sacraments.” Two things most “non-denominational” Protestants have been taught to hate. Though Catholic from birth, I went to a school affiliated with the Reformed Presbyterian Church. I eventually learned I wasn’t going to get anywhere by arguing it out. Everyone can twist scripture to their own advantage. I am happy in the knowledge that I am part of the Church founded by Our Lord Jesus Christ that maintained the standards of Christian orthodoxy for 2000 years. Suddenly, after 1500 years, people decided to break with that chain and reinterpret Holy Scripture for themselves.

They are missing out on the fullness of Faith, which is something you have found and should take great pleasure in. Don’t let a sneer or two take that joy away from you. Pray to Our Blessed Lady for this woman. 😉
 
By definition, “heresy” is a teaching that does not agree with Catholic teaching. So, no Catholic doctrine can ever be heresy for two reasons: The Catholic Church is the definer of all things Christian. 2. She is lead by the Holy Spirit.

Sounds simple, I know. Occam’s razor.
By Catholic definition, yes. But since I’m talking Protestants using the word, obviously I don’t intend that definition. 😛
 
By Catholic definition, yes. But since I’m talking Protestants using the word, obviously I don’t intend that definition. 😛
In spite of opinions to the contrary, it is the definition. One first has to conform to revealed truth, then deviate from that truth to be classed as a heretic. Before a non-Catholic can use the term “heresy” with any credulity, there must be an objectively stated and universal protestant truth to be both adhered to and deviated from. I know of no such thing. Simple difference of opinion and the lack of cohesive doctrine is what drives the (non)denomination-building machine of our age.
 
About the nature of christ? What religion is she? Apparently she isn’t even Christian. There are certain doctrines you must believe to be Christian. I’ve known people who don’t even believe that God is a real Being, but rather “a picture word we use to describe our existance” who call themselves Christian, but they are not. You are not Christian if you don’t follow nor believe the teachings of Christ or believe that there is a God at all!!! You simply can’t be Christian and deny Jesus at the same time.

What religion does she follow?
Oh no - they’re Evangelical Christians - Calvinists, in fact. They follow the teachings of John MacArthur, one of the most respected (albeit anti-Catholic) Calvinists in the country, along with R.C. Sproul.

**Where they fly off the deep end is where they claim to believe in the Hypostatic Union of Christ, yet deny that Mary carried the Christ’s Hypostatic Union (100% God and 100% man). They believe that she only carried his human nature. **
That is heresy.
 
However - when I hear or read somebody attacking the Church and making false charges - I will let them tell them why they’re wrong. My advice to anti-Catholics:
DON’T misrepresent the Church in front of me or you will get an earful.
Kudos to you for that, elvisman! One gets the impression that St. Paul also “gave an earful” to those who made false claims about the faith. He was not one to suffer fools glady, I’d warrant! 😃

We need fierce defenders of the faith against such misrepresentations.

My nature seems to be like yours–we are lions–hear us roar! 😃

However, often this fierce Pauline modus operandi can be an obstacle to effective evangelization.

In contrast to this Pauline m.o. I find that the Marian posture of gentleness and reverence in dialogue achieves much more in the way of spreading the Truth.

Unfortunately, I have not been blessed with this natural tendency to gentleness (ask my children and DH! :sad_yes:) so it’s more difficult to accomplish!

This is one thing I’m going to take up with my Lord when we meet face to face! Why, oh why, did you make it easier for some folks to be Marian? It’s just not fair! 😛
 
.There are certain doctrines you must believe to be Christian.
What doctrines are these, Ginger? And how do you know?

Could you please provide Scripture references for both? That is:

  1. *]Scriptural references to these essential doctrines
    *]Scriptural references which let us know that these are the “essential” doctrines.
 
With all due respect, if you truly understood the Catholic Church and Her doctrines, you would not be a ‘former’.
QUOTE=JustaServant;7112617]With all due respect, if you truly understood the Catholic Church and Her doctrines, you would not be a ‘former’.

I do “truly” understand her teachings and believe they are misguided.

And I have researched the history, thoroughly - Mostly but not limited to Catholic sources, which of course present history from a Catholic perspective. I actually read entire translations of original documents as opposed to excerpts provided by Catholics.

Wow! What a difference it make to read a complete quote rather than a little snippet here and there.

For intance, I was told Martin Luther removed books from the Bible. When I researched this subject I discovered Luther presented the exact same Bible as Jerome had translated - the Latin Vulgate.

The following is just to show you I am not “lazy” as some have claimed, but do my homework to learn the facts:
Jerome appended the deuteros and wrote this comment within the pages of the Latin Vugate:
“As the Church reads the books of Judith and Tobit and Maccabees but does not receive them among the canonical Scriptures, so also it reads Wisdom and Ecclesiasticus for the edification of the people, not for the authoritative confirmation of doctrine.” Jerome(340-420) - Jerome’s preface to the books of Solomon."

The RC does not allow translators, publishers nor even scholars to write commentaries within the pages of the Bible that disagree with Catholic teaching. Yet, Jerome was allowed to write comments, not just on history or interpretation of the seven books, but outright deny their inspiration and append them apart from the universally accepted Scriptures.

Luther’s translation was identical to Jerome’s. He even appended the exact same books, the deuteros (apocrypha to Protestants) writing a similar comment to Jerome’s concerning them not be inspired texts.

The Latin Vulgate was considered (I am told by Catholics,) the authentic Bible of the Catholic Church for 1600 years and was canonized following the reformation

drbo.org/intro.htm “Pope Damasus assembled the first list of books of the Bible at the Roman Council in 382 A.D. He commissioned St. Jerome to translate the original Greek and Hebrew texts into Latin, which became known as the Latin Vulgate Bible and was declared by the Church to be the only authentic and official version, in 1546.”

However, the version used by Catholic since 1546 is not the same as the one originally written by Jerome.

Question 4 of the Captia dubitationum concerns the canon of Scripture.

According to Catholic scholar Gary G. Michuta, Trent adopted a different from that contained in Jerome’s original Vulgate. Michuta was disputing the Protestant claim that Trent adopted a different version then Hippo and Carthage concerning Esdras, but in claiming Trent and Hippo were identical admits Trent and the Vulgate were very different.

“On March 29, 1546 the Council Fathers took up the fourth of fourteen questions (Capita Dubitationum) on Scripture and Tradition. At issue was whether those books that were not included in the official list, but were included in the Latin Vulgate (e.g. The Book of Esdras, Fourth Ezra, and Third Maccabees), should be rejected by a Conciliar decree, or be passed over in silence. Only three Fathers voted for an explicit rejection. Forty-two voted that the status of these books should be passed over in silence.”

There’s a whole lot more to it than what is above, but I think this demonstrates I make exceptional efforts toward discovering the actual facts and truth concerning my faith.

I have done the same concerning the Marian doctrines. **Most of which I neither deny nor accept. I simply am not bound to promote something that cannot be proven one way or the other. If there is no harm in believing something that does not distort proven truth - the Holy Scriptures - I think it is fine to believe it until it is proven false. However, I think it is wrong to promote something as fact when it is nothing more than specultation. **

Examples:

I have no problem with Catholics believing Mary had no children and Jesus. It doesn’t change a thing about the nature of Christ nor his mission on Earth.

I have no problem with Catholics believing Mary never committed a sin during her lifetime.
The Bible clearly states “even those who have not committed a personal sin are still in need of a savior”

What I object to is being told I will burn in hell if I don’t believe things that are contrary to Scripture. I object to being told I will burn in hell for leaving the Catholic Church…

Which, by the way, I didn’t leave because I was mad at someone or something, not was I seduced away by some Protestant doctrine. I left as a young child and did not go to any Protestant church. I continued my catechism instruction and I was in my twenties before I stopped attending Mass, but still did not associate with Protestants and read only my Catholic Bible until I 37. That was the first time I ever saw a Protestant Bible. It was also the first time I ever heard the name Martin Luther.

Ginger
 
I do “truly” understand her teachings and believe they are misguided.
Forgive my skepticism, Ginger, but I doubt that you do.

One question I ask often of ex-Catholics is this: (I ask that you answer from your own knowledge and not by doing any current research)

Where is Scripture in the Mass (besides the obvious Liturgy of the Word, of course!)? Where is the Mass in Scripture?
 
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