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I’m lucky enought to have parents who do this, there’s a half-dozen or so missionary families I know that exemplify it very well, and I can think of three older women in the church I grew up in (one is dying right now) and a couple of the older men (one of them died a few years ago). Aside from my parents and a few of the msisionaries, there’s one family at the church I’m currently attending that’s pretty exceptional in this way, and there’s about a half-dozen people around my own age that I had the pleasure of getting to know very well through regular small-group discipleship over the course of two years. Four of them are in India planting churches. Two of them really gave up a lot in order to serve God like that. And there’s another two people a little younger than me, but I didn’t get to know them quite as well.I don’t post very often, but I’ve been thinking about this for a long time and I decided to ask the question. I’m posting it here because I’d like non-Catholic opinions too.
Christianity treats the OT commandments like law, not just goals to strive for, but law. If someone violates one of them, it’s a sin, often mortal, and the person is hellbound. It’s pretty much one strike and you’re out.
Well, Christ gave us a couple of commandments too, the second of which is to love your neighbor as yourself. And He made it very clear that your neighbor is everyone.
How many people do you know who actually love everyone as much as they love themselves, or even as much as they love their own children? I’m not talking about platitudes like “I love everyone because they’re all created in the image of God” or “I pray for everyone” or “Love the sinner, hate the sin.” I’m talking about actually loving them: investing as much time, energy, and money toward their betterment as one invests toward one’s own betterment… not just ignoring them.
I don’t know any such people. I don’t think there’s more than a handful of such people in the whole world. Thus, almost the entire human race is in a constant state of violation of Christ’s second commandment. But the Church doesn’t even consider it a sin, especially not a mortal sin.
Instead the Church seems to consider the commandment simply as a goal… something to strive for. Christ didn’t say it was just something to strive for; He said it was a commandment.
I’m sorry that you don’t know any such people. I’m sure there’s quite a few of them on these forums. As to a response, though, mine comes from a non-Catholic perspective that has pretty heavy Calvinist leanings.So, apparently, we have “commandments” and we have “commandments.” Why aren’t Christ’s commandments treated like “real” commandments Why the inconsistency? I have my own opinion, but I’d like to hear others’ first.
The 10 Commandments are the kinds of things that can, to a certain extent and at least for a period of time, be kept. That is, people- apart from divine assistance- can sort of keep them, however imperfectly. Anyone can do it. I mean, no one can keep them perfectly, we all know that. But anyone can pick out any one of them and succeed in keeping it for at least a short period of time, and most people (without divine intervention or assistance) can keep most of the commandments most of the time.
I think Jesus’ commandments are fundamentally different, and the doctrine of total depravity/total inability comes into play here. This is not to say that every man is as bad as he can be- after all, I did just tell you about how most people can keep most of the commandments most of the time. But I am saying there’s certain things that people are incapable of doing unless and until God (more specifically, the Holy Spirit) indwells you and, among other things, transforms you into the kind of person who, with God’s assistance, can keep the aformentioned commandments of Jesus.
Unless and until this happens, no one is born with the capacity to keep them at all- not even for a few minutes. In order to do it, you require the indwelling presence of God within you (which is obtained by grace) and His constant assistance (which is also offered by grace).
Everyone who attends church is capable of keeping the 10 commandments to a certain extent, however lame that extent may be. But the only people who are capable of keeping Jesus’ love-related commandments are the ones who are indwelt by God and constantly being enabled by Him to do these things.
This is true of so few people that it’s not really worth it for church leadership to create a set of rules that enforce it in some way, especially not when so many people in the church are incapable of doing it.
I think that might be why you see what you see.