Saxum, if it makes you feel any better, my husband and I, both born and raised in Evangelical Protestant churches (my husband Pentecostal, and me Baptist), found the Ordinary Form of the Mass utterly foreign to everything that we had grown up with, and extremely old-fashioned and staid and quiet and mysterious and very confusing.
Other than one Catholic wedding (done in the Extraordinary Form back in the early 1980s), we had never attended a Mass before. We started going to Mass in 2002 after a major falling-out with our church that drove us away from involvement with Protestant churches forever. It took us over a year to realize that we really needed to obey God’s teaching in Hebrews about not neglecting to associate with believers. We decided to attend the Catholic church down the street from us because it was the closest Christian church to our house.
We had no idea that there are 2 forms of the Latin Rite (Ordinary and Extraordinary). We knew little to nothing about Catholic history, and didn’t know that for centuries, the Mass had been done in Latin (we thought that was just for weddings.) We assumed that the Mass we were sitting at was the same Mass that the Catholic Church had always done, and thought it was really cool that we were doing the same things that our ancestors had done centuries earlier!
And yes, we found it completely, totally, absolutely different than ANY of the Protestant churches we had been part of. NOTHING other than the Lord’s Prayer (the Our Father) was familiar to us, and also the Bible readings (we had our own Protestant Bibles with us and compared the readings to what our Bibles said, and we were surprised that they were the same readings!)
We didn’t know any of the hymns (Haugan, Haas, etc.), but we liked them because they were pretty and had good words. (Keep in mind that we were coming out of churches with big P and W bands and music, so of course Haugan songs sounded pretty to us.)
We didn’t know any of the prayers or recitations. We shook hands during Sign of Peace, but we thought it seemed extremely restrained and very short. And everythin throughout the Mass was so quiet compared to what we were used to in the Protestant churches.
And the sermon was sooooo short! We were used to at least 45 minutes for a sermon!
So to us, the Mass did not seem at all “Protestant.” It was very different. I can assure you that if the goal of the Vatican 2 reformers was to make the Mass more “comfortable” for Protestants. they failed big-time.
Since then, we’ve learned all about the Mass, and we realize that mainline Protestants would be a lot more familiar with a lot of the Ordinary Form rubrics. But not Evangelical Protestants, which make up the vast majority of Protestants in the U.S. To them, the Mass is really different.
I hope this makes you feel a little better about the Ordinary Form.
