I agree. @Vonsalza, people don’t turn into rapists because of celibacy.
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Insomuch as one could distinguish between rape and more vague sexual assault, you’re most certainly right.
But again, as men in prison will often resort to homosexual behavior, it seems a substantial portion of priests are attempting to coerce young boys into assisting them into sexual gratification. Given the historically male dominated roles of the Church and the natural inclination to perpetuate that, they’re around little boys more often than they’re around little girls.
It’s just who’s available and can be coerced.
Moreover, the evidence is everywhere. And I think we can be reasonably certain that the culling of wayward priests probably isn’t over.
There are plenty of ways for a priest who is desperate for sex to get it…
It isn’t just about sex itself. It’s about a sexual relationship. Intimacy. And we see this with the scandals where so many of these priests would show their victims some “reciprocation” in the form of gifts.
And besides, the idea that priests should be able to marry just to “blow of steam” seems as though you’re suggesting the priests should just use those women for their sexual pleasure. That’s not what marriage is about.
Of course not.
-But it’s part of it. So much so that the Catholic Church won’t let someone marry if they can’t consummate.
The problem looks systemic, given the lack of geographic isolation. As such, maybe you should consider that the cause of the problem is also systemic. These guys didn’t all go to the same seminary, after all.
The problem is celibate priesthood where there is no place for sexual release and these poor men are trying to approximate personal intimacy with something that they can’t touch nor be physically touched by.