- One must factor in that no priest is obliged to do the extraordinary. Actually parish priests ARE to provide for the requests of a group (which can be as few as two people). If they are unable to do so because of lack of knowledge they are to request help from the Bishop who should provide for them. If that does not happen they are to write Rome who will send a Priest. This is all spelled out in SP and UE. Just because a priest knows how to celebrate the EF, he is not bound to celebrate it. While true, it is not in keeping the “mens” of the Holy Father according to UE, which we should assume all Priests wish to honor. Some priests have a knee-jerk reaction to the notion that they must celebrate it, because they know it. I know some young priests who, typical of the young, have locked in their brakes and have said that they will never celebrate the EF. When asked why not? Their answer is simple. They will not be told what to do by the laity. The laity has to learn to request, beg, negotiate, bargain, you name it. But if you demand, some people are going to shut down.
- Then there is the issue of relationships. Many of the laity in our area are SSPX supporters. The Holy Father (Benedict) said that request from laymen who belong to these groups should not be given the EF. This is NOT what the Holy Father said. The intent was that people are not attached to these societies with an intent to avoid Rome. Being a member of the SSPX is ONLY possible for the Priests and Bishops of the SSPX. laity are not formal members. It is only those that reject Rome that are being addressed by the Holy Father. This was in the letter that followed SP. You can find it for yourself. Superiors of religious priests are hesitant to lend their priests to groups that are sympathetic to groups whose relationship with the Church is in a state of flux. Religious superiors and priests don’t want to appear as if we’re supportive of such groups, while we very much care about the laymen. But until the laymen pull way way back from those groups, there is a hesitation. We don’t want to be guilty by association. This is a serious mistake if this is the thinking of religious Priests. It hardens the hearts of those who attend the SPPX Masses because the EF is not available elsewhere. A better response, one used in our parish, is to welcome ALL those who seek the EF. The good example our Priest shows to all of those who attend the EF has helped many people who are “attached to the SSPX” to actually routinely come to the parish EF AND to seek the sacraments from the local Bishop and Priest. Weddings, Confirmations, etc. The welcoming attitude of the secular or religious Priest towards all those who desire the EF is what will win souls for heaven. Pitting the EF against the OF would be no different that pitting the Spanish OF Mass against the English, etc.
- There is also the question of cleaning up the nonsense that has taken place in the OF. Having the EF is fine, but that does not resolve the nonsense in the OF. Pastors, bishops and religious superiors want to do this as well. They want to encourage priests and laity alike to get it right.
These and many other points have to be considered when making requests for the TLM. My suggestion has always been to offer assistance with the OF and the OF community. Don’t make your request sound as if you’re above the mainstream Catholic. First of all, we’re not.
The same attitude has to be adopted by the Traditionalist layman who aspires for an EF mass at his parish. He has to see himself as part of the local Church, not above or to the side. In those parishes where the EF is celebrated, it has succeeded, because the people who attend the EF limit themselves to that. E
verything else they do with the parish community and they follow the mainstream in all other matters. They have the same CCD classes, the same marriage preparation classes. They do not use the older books for Baptisms. They go through the same baptismal and confirmation rite with everyone else. Actually SP says that ALL sacraments are to be made available to those who seek them. ** I would disagree that requesting Baptism AND confirmation according to the Roman Ritual and the Pontificale Romanum are somehow setting people apart in a parish. In many, including my own, many people are enriched by the older form of the sacraments and want them for their own children. This pitting of traditional against modern is exactly what we do NOT want. Both can easily co-exist in a Parish.** Weddings are different, because weddings are not done in groups. You have flexibility there. If the priest or deacon knows the older marriage rite, you can ask for it.
There is resistance in the mainstream, but there has to be some flexibility among those who want to see the EF in a parish. I think it’s very important to be an active member of a parish. When a person does not actively participate in a parish and then asks for the EF, it comes off the wrong way. It comes off as “holier than thou”. I don’t think that’s the impression that we want to give.