It’s funny, but for all the times I’ve heard the online stories of traditional RC’s coming into EC churches and offending people, I’ve seldom seen the one’s where it was OICWR crowd offending the cradle EC’s (and I know it happens) with disparaging comments about the church’s ethnic flavor being too strong. Sometimes you just have to ask the question, if ethnic parishes are such a bad thing, how can you explain the success of the very ethnic Greek Orthodox churches, who often put on bigger and better festivals-carnivals than the much larger nearby RC parish.
That is a truly magnificent and excellent point, sir!
Our Coptic people have a great Coptic festival which attracts one and all. Our Greektown with its overt Orthodox Christian character brings in all kinds of people as well.
You raise another point that is not often even brought up, namely how the very “Eastern minded” or if I may use your term the “OICWR” do indeed offend cradle EC’s in this way.
In fact, cradle EC’s have Western traditions that come from the “old country” that they are not only very comfortable with but which ALSO reflect their cultural identity.
For example, under Tsarism, whenever an Eastern Catholic area was taken over by Tsarist troops, the first order of business was to “reunite” EC’s with their “Mother Orthodox (read: Russian) Church.”
The first things to go were the Western traditions and so the EC’s tended to jealously guard them since it seemed to them that as long as they had them they maintained their religious and cultural identity.
For the “OICWR” (and some of my best friends belong to this group

), their “culture” if you will is the pristine Orthodox religious one. However, no religion comes without a culture and so Cradel EC’s (or CEC’s) become very disturbed by what they perceive to be a soft importing of Russian culture into their church.
It’s all much more complex than I’ve related, but you are right to raise these points, sir.
I take my hat off to you.
Alex