People have to learn to be careful how they say things, even the bishop. I’ll offer two examples.
- I’ve been posting to a liturgy thread where another poster has gone out of her way to condemn guitar music. She puts some good reasons on the table and even backs them up with some documentation. But the way that she is saying it sounds as if she is telling those who play guitars at mass that they are less Catholic than she is, because they do not use organs and chant.
- There are people who speak about the President’s support for abortion and the first thing that comes out of their mouth is “MURDERER!”.
In both cases, you may be making a valid point. But the moment that you assault the dignity and the good name of another person, you lost your argument with those of us who have some brains. Most of us do not want to have a conversation with someone who belittles or attacks the person. We want to discuss the issue, the behavior, the choices people make or don’t make, the values at risk and so forth
I am reminded of one of my favorite Franciscans, THOMAS MOORE. Thomas always said that he was a faithful subject of the King. When he spoke he never mentioned the King. When he wrote he wrote about the sacrament of marriage and the apostolic authority of the Church. He wrote about the validity and permanence of marraige. He wrote about justice and how religoius monasteries in England had contributed to preserving and promoting English culture and how they were under attack and their property was being siezed and destroyed. He said this was illegal and immoral. But he never mentions the King by name. He was one of the most astute saints of English History.
Often, when people speak about the President’s track record on abortion, they immediately stoop to using offensive language with his name in the same sentence. This leads to a rebuttal from the other side. But the rebuttal is really a counter attack. This escalates. Eventually, both parties let their emotions drive their rhetoric. This is when we take it to the lower level. We turn it into a racial issue.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF