Wishing to be Protestant again...

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This is a good trait for both Catholics and Protestants to have. I can just see those poor Priests from your parish running with all that “fire” under their feet. I know that you would never intentionally insult or degrade anyone…you just don’t seem like the type. 🙂
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Jerry Parker,

Thanks for that excellenet and insightful post! God bless you.
 
Cinette and Crazzetto,

Thanks for your replies to my last post. There is too much to make it feasible to post a quote here and still have space left within C.A. Forum’s maximum limit, as there is much that I would quote.

You have made an important point, Cinette, about social activism and Catholic orthodoxy. It is such a pity that more Catholics, especially among the clergy, do not realise that Catholic traditionalism, rightly understood, is not contrary to social justice. I find disturbing that so many Catholics (e.g., Real Catholic TV) equate Catholic orthodoxy with the Neo-Con agenda of the Republican Party even at its very worst! This is a very big mistake, indeed. I abhor abortion, for example, but I also detest the support of the American Neo-Conservatives (“neo-liberals” in the terminology of the rest of the world) for warfare on weak Third World countries and for the most rapacious kinds of hyper-capitalism. There are so many faults – downright rank sinfulness, collective and individual – among the Democrats and Republicans alike that Catholics should approach domestic and foreign politics with more detachment from party loyalties and “spin” (Republican, Libertarian, or Democrat) than they do. My activism for the Kurds (especially those in repressive Turkey) and for others in the Middle East and Central Asia, for example, comes from deep within my Christian commitment to social justice and the pro-human values of my Christian faith, whether when I still was Lutheran or now as a Catholic.

I personally am very uncomfortable with charismaticism and avoid it. Partly that comes from my exposure to the supernatural and demonic earlier in life (from which I at last was delivered by exorcism), which makes me reluctant to expose myself to “The Other”, even in the name of Christ. However, charismatic and traditionalist Catholics have a lot in common, and both need some reigning in for the abuses among both. Support for any human agenda must be exercised critically.

Anyway, God bless you, Cinette and Crazzetto!

Pax, Jerry Parker
 
Hi, I chose that title to be somewhat provocative to hopefully garner people who could reply to this thread. I converted from Protestantism more than 10 years ago and I am happy to be Catholic. However, having said that I do miss much of the social aspects of a Protestant church. There were programs and bible studies for every age group; there were many ways of connecting to different people in your church–I had lots of friends in church and we would call each other up and do things together. There would be family picnics and other outings the church would sponsor.

In my 10 years of being Catholic my knowledge of truth has increased but at the cost of fellowship. I’ve been around 4 different Catholic churches in 10 years and all of them seem to be not much more than ‘Eucharist factories’ where you shuffle the people in, give them a boring homily, the Eucharist and shuffle them out until next week when you can do it again. The earliest youth group starts at high school.

I have brought some of my brothers and sisters in to the Church, but we all are beginning to pine for the days when going to church was enjoyable.

It does really appear to me that the Catholic Church, as an institution, does not foster fellowship anywhere near as much as the Protestant churches do. Am I wrong?

And before you say to me, “Well then, you get something started at your church!”, I’m trying to make the point that as an institution the Catholic church does not foster fellowship. I don’t want to be one person trying to roll a rock up hill, I want to be part of a Church that encourages fellowship.

As I mentioned before, I helped bring others to the Catholic Church, but now I’ve got a dilemma. My two kids, ages 12 and 13 are really complaining about going to our ‘boring church’ when their Protestant friends do all these really fun activities their churches sponsor. And I have an older son who may be considering becoming Catholic, but he has 4 children ages 1-6. I wince at the prospect of telling him he can’t put his children in Sunday School while he and his wife go to mass, but instead he has to keep four children under control for an hour while having to listen to a boring sermon. These are not show stoppers, but they really detract from giving incentives to joining the Church.

Any thought are welcome. But does anyone else see this lack of fellowship problem?
If you have truly converted to cathlicism…and end up leaving…

Won’t you miss the Eucharist?

Your answer to this question will tell you more about your catholicism than you know.
 
Marty and Mangy,

There are more angles than just the one of “socialising” to this matter of the impersonality of so many Catholic local churches, even of the Church itself. How that affects folks varies a lot with personality, family situation, and so forth.

I am one who do not mind the lack of the kind of social net that characterises Catholic parishes. Frankly, I really do not like to get close to clergy (and this applies, at least to some degree and in some ways, to Protestant and sectarian clergy as much as to Catholic priests). They tend not make for good friends and often they are just plain weird in various ways and they seem usually to be of mediocre education more and more as time goes by and the Chruch’s once splendid colleges and seminaries lower their standards, yet, despite that, priests also tend to be inordinately opinionated, despite their intellectual inferiority to so many of their parishoners, and that can be very irritating. Of course, there are exceptions, and the more the better, I say! However, I think that the generalisations hold, as I at least perceive them, despite those exceptions. Priests and bishops are essential and they have a job to do. That’s enough for me. So, it does not bother me one little bit not getting to know them better. There are enough folks who do like to know priests and bishops more personally, so my attitude is mine and that of others like me, and the clergy will manage to have some social life with friends. Chacun à son goût!

One can get to know fellow parishoners altogether too well. In time one can feel awkward dealing with other parishoners for all kinds of reasons. I do prefer, however, getting to know interesting parishoners over knowing clergy, whether they be interesting or utterly nondescript.

For those who are psychologically “built” differently than I am, I realise that the impersonality of so much of the Church causes a problem. Personally, I would recommend that they seek out discussion groups that are compatible with their faith as a compensation, such as those available on some college campuses or off-campus. If a priest is “blah” or is “damaged goods” on two feet 😦 (as, alas, not just a few priests are), the solution may not be attainable at the parish church of which he has charge. One can organise discussion groups from within the parish, whether or not they are linked explicity to the parish. One can draw parishioners into discussion groups elsewhere from which they also may benefit.

Just some stray thoughts on this matter, that’s all to what this post amounts!

Pax, Jerry Parker
 
I think it depends on the parish. My parish is very large,yet there are so many, many ministries. I’ve never felt that there was a lack of fellowship.

One thing I recommend, whether at your parish or another, is to sign up to attend CRHP (Christ Renews His Parish). You will form bonds over one weekend that will always remain. It is a good way to begin fellowship.

Hope this helps–Karen
 
haven’t read all posts…

but if someone wants to return to protestantism after being Catholic…

he doesn’t know yet what it means to be fully Catholic…

If he did he wouldnt think of leaving…

(The Real Presence) 🙂
 
haven’t read all posts…

but if someone wants to return to protestantism after being Catholic…

he doesn’t know yet what it means to be fully Catholic…

If he did he wouldn’t think of leaving…

(The Real Presence) 🙂
Spoken just like every other “holier than thou” hard line Catholic I know. How about reading the posts from start to finish so you know that which you are commenting on? Some of mine may give you some insight as to what this post was originally all about…

I am glad to be “home” again in the Catholic church, but I sorely miss all my friends at my old (Protestant) church.

Example why:

I am currently in a walking cast for the next several weeks after an injury. I called both my current Catholic church, and my old Protestant church (Where my wife still attends) and asked if they had anyone who wanted to make a few bucks cutting my grass while I was laid up. I wasn’t asking for a handout, indeed I was trying to help put a few bucks in someone Else’s pockets who may sorely need it. Within a few hours the deacons from my old church showed up and were cutting my lawn. I ended up donating the money I was going to pay “someone” to the Deacons fund for the poor.

My “Catholic” church never called me back…

Who were the “Real” Christians in this instance…

1 Peter 3:15

But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,
 
Spoken just like every other “holier than thou” hard line Catholic I know. How about reading the posts from start to finish so you know that which you are commenting on? Some of mine may give you some insight as to what this post was originally all about…

I am glad to be “home” again in the Catholic church, but I sorely miss all my friends at my old (Protestant) church.

Example why:

I am currently in a walking cast for the next several weeks after an injury. I called both my current Catholic church, and my old Protestant church (Where my wife still attends) and asked if they had anyone who wanted to make a few bucks cutting my grass while I was laid up. I wasn’t asking for a handout, indeed I was trying to help put a few bucks in someone Else’s pockets who may sorely need it. Within a few hours the deacons from my old church showed up and were cutting my lawn. I ended up donating the money I was going to pay “someone” to the Deacons fund for the poor.

My “Catholic” church never called me back…

Who were the “Real” Christians in this instance…

1 Peter 3:15

But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,
too bad you ruin this whole post by calling me names like holier than thou…

i fail utterly to see how i am holier than thou-sounding just cuz i say wht i say…

too bad… cuz i could really relate to your story… i have my own stories along those lines…

but i try to avoid responding to peoiple who presume things about me… when they don’t know me from adam…
 
i really SHOULD read all posts… of this thread and all other threads…

i really SHOULD be God…

but unfortunately I am not…

Sorry about that… 😦

maybe some day… 🤷
 
Originally Posted by distracted
haven’t read all posts…

but if someone wants to return to protestantism after being Catholic…

he doesn’t know yet what it means to be fully Catholic…

If he did he wouldn’t think of leaving…

(The Real Presence)

I woiuld venture to guess i have WAY more stories of how cold Catholics can be than the above poster…

but that just… now that i think of it… that proves (& quite nicely) the point i was trying to make…
namely that…
the Catholic Church is so wonderful that even cold, uncaring, unchristian people therein can’t run me away from Her…

I could probably write a book on how awful i have been treated by Catholics… or so called Catholics… but still i don’t leave… and i would say exactly WHY i don’t/can’t leave… but its mysterious… and cna’t be put into adequate words… Well, one thing is not so mysterious… Jesus started ONE Church and its the roman catholic Church…

yet there is way more to it than that…

but i guess i better stop… wouldn’t want to be accused of being holier than thou again…:rolleyes:
 
Lost Again,

**You wrote: ** Within a few hours the deacons from my old church showed up and were cutting my lawn. I ended up donating the money I was going to pay “someone” to the Deacons fund for the poor. My “Catholic” church never called me back—. Who were the “Real” Christians in this instance?

Well, we live in a decadent time of Church history. Let’s face it: this kind of thing does reflect badly on modern Catholicism. Frankly, I think that too many of the clergy are “slacker” careerists who just try to get by with the minimum, liturgically, socially, pastorally. And few bishops “kick butt” to stir up their somnolent troops; indeed, the bishops are lax, too; a good and saintly bishop who sets an example of holiness and orthodoxy can accomplish more than stern discipline alone can do, but so few aspire to that. These days, bishops and priests, even if they are not typical, tend more to draw attention of the public by making headlines for scandal! The clergy are complacently happy with doing no more than they absolutely are required to do. I suppose that a lot of us laity are like that, too. The R.C. Church has been in a steady decline since the faulty implementation of the Second Vatican Council, trying to get by with the minimum effort, simply because no more is demanded and thus no more is delivered. A return to older, more Christ-like values is needed, a return to the thurst for holiness that has typified the Church of the Ages, as opposed to the Church Lite of Vat.-II, including a return to a full-orbed, Christ-centred liturgy, as the Traditional Latin Mass was and still is where it is implemented.

Despite all the laxity today, the Catholic Church still is Christ’s One True Church. However, instead of basking in that in self-contented idleness, we all, clergy and laity, ought to try to live up to the glory of what the Roman Catholic Church really is, to have zeal for what our Lord and our baptisms call us to be and to do!

Pax, Jerry Parker
 
Hi, I chose that title to be somewhat provocative to hopefully garner people who could reply to this thread. I converted from Protestantism more than 10 years ago and I am happy to be Catholic. However, having said that I do miss much of the social aspects of a Protestant church. There were programs and bible studies for every age group; there were many ways of connecting to different people in your church–I had lots of friends in church and we would call each other up and do things together. There would be family picnics and other outings the church would sponsor.

In my 10 years of being Catholic my knowledge of truth has increased but at the cost of fellowship. I’ve been around 4 different Catholic churches in 10 years and all of them seem to be not much more than ‘Eucharist factories’ where you shuffle the people in, give them a boring homily, the Eucharist and shuffle them out until next week when you can do it again. The earliest youth group starts at high school.

I have brought some of my brothers and sisters in to the Church, but we all are beginning to pine for the days when going to church was enjoyable.

It does really appear to me that the Catholic Church, as an institution, does not foster fellowship anywhere near as much as the Protestant churches do. Am I wrong?

And before you say to me, “Well then, you get something started at your church!”, I’m trying to make the point that as an institution the Catholic church does not foster fellowship. I don’t want to be one person trying to roll a rock up hill, I want to be part of a Church that encourages fellowship.

As I mentioned before, I helped bring others to the Catholic Church, but now I’ve got a dilemma. My two kids, ages 12 and 13 are really complaining about going to our ‘boring church’ when their Protestant friends do all these really fun activities their churches sponsor. And I have an older son who may be considering becoming Catholic, but he has 4 children ages 1-6. I wince at the prospect of telling him he can’t put his children in Sunday School while he and his wife go to mass, but instead he has to keep four children under control for an hour while having to listen to a boring sermon. These are not show stoppers, but they really detract from giving incentives to joining the Church.

Any thought are welcome. But does anyone else see this lack of fellowship problem?
I’m not wishing to be protestant again but I can relate to missing the fellowship, bible studies, potlucks, and friends. There is more variety and activities to get involved in and is not that simple to just start one in my parish. I can remember when I used to get several calls during the week when I missed sunday bible class/services; and receiving postcards about how I was missed. I’m already planning next year to go on a whitewater rafting trip with one of the local protestant church next year. No pressure and don’t have to attend their church just an invite.

God bless
 
Ember,

**You wrote: ** I’m already planning next year to go on a whitewater rafting trip with one of the local Protestant church next year. No pressure and don’t have to attend their church; [it’s] just an invite.

Well, if that local church really is Protestant (Lutheran, Anglican, Presbyterian/Reformed), there would be so much in common with Catholicism that it is likely, for a Catholic firm in his faith, to fraternise like that without harm. It is the sectaries (Baptists, Methodists, Pentecostalists, Campbellites, et alia) with their “hot-gospelling” to convert Catholics to ther rather more drastically non-Catholic kind of faith whom one should avoid.

I receive weekly Lutheran sermons and see no harm in it. Real Lutheranism is so close to Catholic teaching that one can benefit greatly from the quality of Lutheran expository preaching, 👍 the more so since most preaching (little homilies) in Catholic parishes is wan, lacking in substance, sentimental, and vapid. That’s a pity, but the aftermath of Vatican-II made the clergy to lose their preaching skills, probably because they undervalue the importance of homiletics, which the pre-Vat-2 Church emphasised far more. The Catholic alternatives of EWTN are not available to everyone, either, unless there is a shortwave radio in the house (and a better capability of using it than I have with my own!).

Anyway, one has to cope as best s/he can in this age of Catholic decline and decadence 😦 and some resort to true Protestantism can be helpful in many ways, for the cautious and alert Catholic. Someday the Catholic Church will rise from the childish sandbox and mud-flats of what characterises so much of present-day parish life and these kinds of alternatives will neither have such appeal nor be needed.

Pax, Jerry Parker
 
Lost Again,

Despite all the laxity today, the Catholic Church still is Christ’s One True Church. However, instead of basking in that in self-contented idleness, we all, clergy and laity, ought to try to live up to the glory of what the Roman Catholic Church really is, to have zeal for what our Lord and our baptisms call us to be and to do!

Pax, Jerry Parker
Jerry,

Throughout this thread you have posted many thoughtful comments… I guess we could add this one to the list…

I guess my question in return is how do we change this mentality? If you look back throughout this thread you’ll notice I mentioned that we just received two new priests in my parish. I was so excited!
Here I was thinking… “Great! two young priests, one of them fresh out of the seminary and full of zest, passion for God, and ready to change the world”. WRONG!!! Here it is a little over a month since their arrival and its like I’ve stepped back in time to the church I went to in the 60’s. These priests act like the old men that just left…only worse!

Don’t they teach homiletics in the seminaries any more? These guys read stale, prepared statements from behind the lectern like a high school speech class student. Most of them sound like they were pulled out of some “Stuff to read when you haven’t prepared a proper sermon” book. We’re back to one central line for communion with the priests the only ones dispensing communion, No more Eucharistic ministers, and many things I haven’t done since I was an altar boy back in 1963. Some would call that a good thing, I for one don’t.
I am so torn between staying and trying to do the best I can to make this work between the RCC and me, and going back to a church that has proven to my family over and over again that it loves, cares, and misses us. “God’s one true church”? What does that mean? What good is the “One true church” if that church is nothing more than the “true” church in name only?

Ok, said my piece… thanks for listening!

Somebody pray for me quick!:banghead:

I am sure that there must be some people in this church that feel the way I do. Where is that passion for God?? Where are all the Christians???
 
Ember,

**You wrote: ** I’m already planning next year to go on a whitewater rafting trip with one of the local Protestant church next year. No pressure and don’t have to attend their church; [it’s] just an invite.

Well, if that local church really is Protestant (Lutheran, Anglican, Presbyterian/Reformed), there would be so much in common with Catholicism that it is likely, for a Catholic firm in his faith, to fraternise like that without harm. It is the sectaries (Baptists, Methodists, Pentecostalists, Campbellites, et alia) with their “hot-gospelling” to convert Catholics to ther rather more drastically non-Catholic kind of faith whom one should avoid.

I receive weekly Lutheran sermons and see no harm in it. Real Lutheranism is so close to Catholic teaching that one can benefit greatly from the quality of Lutheran expository preaching, 👍 the more so since most preaching (little homilies) in Catholic parishes is wan, lacking in substance, sentimental, and vapid. That’s a pity, but the aftermath of Vatican-II made the clergy to lose their preaching skills, probably because they undervalue the importance of homiletics, which the pre-Vat-2 Church emphasised far more. The Catholic alternatives of EWTN are not available to everyone, either, unless there is a shortwave radio in the house (and a better capability of using it than I have with my own!).

Anyway, one has to cope as best s/he can in this age of Catholic decline and decadence 😦 and some resort to true Protestantism can be helpful in many ways, for the cautious and alert Catholic. Someday the Catholic Church will rise from the childish sandbox and mud-flats of what characterises so much of present-day parish life and these kinds of alternatives will neither have such appeal nor be needed.

Pax, Jerry Parker
Jerry a couple of things,

First the quality of Homilies will vary from region to region I suppose. I’ve seldom been exposed to a truely bad one, at least that I remember anyway. With regard EWTN, everyone can access that on the internet. So as long as you have internet, you can access EWTN’s preaching. There is also CatholicTV (www.catholictv.com) which again, may be accessed online or on a service like Sky Angel which I subscribe to.

God bless,

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Also, I recommed listening to Fr. Barron with his Word on Fire podcast via iTunes or Zune. You can also connect at his website www.wordonfire.org
 
Jerry a couple of things,

First the quality of Homilies will vary from region to region I suppose. I’ve seldom been exposed to a truely bad one, at least that I remember anyway. With regard EWTN, everyone can access that on the internet. So as long as you have internet, you can access EWTN’s preaching. There is also CatholicTV (www.catholictv.com) which again, may be accessed online or on a service like Sky Angel which I subscribe to.

God bless,

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Also, I recommed listening to Fr. Barron with his Word on Fire podcast via iTunes or Zune. You can also connect at his website www.wordonfire.org
You could try just taking a Bible with you…🙂
 
You could try just taking a Bible with you…🙂
I read mine nightly, I suspect Jerry reads his regularly as so many members here. But homilies carry a certain weight, a good homilist will open up your eyes and give you new perspective upon the scriptures which yes, you read regularly.
 
I read mine nightly, I suspect Jerry reads his regularly as so many members here. But homilies carry a certain weight, a good homilist will open up your eyes and give you new perspective upon the scriptures which yes, you read regularly.
I was just having a little fun - I understand what you are saying. 🙂 I have been known to say this to people in my Church too.😃
 
Lost Again and Crazzetto,

**You wrote: ** * **Lost Again: ** I guess my question in return is how do we change this mentality? If you look back throughout this thread you’ll notice I mentioned that we just received two new priests in my parish. I was so excited! Here I was thinking… “Great! two young priests, one of them fresh out of the seminary and full of zest, passion for God, and ready to change the world”. WRONG!!! Here it is a little over a month since their arrival and its like I’ve stepped back in time to the church I went to in the 60’s. These priests act like the old men that just left…only worse!

Don’t they teach homiletics in the seminaries any more? These guys read stale, prepared statements from behind the lectern like a high school speech class student. Most of them sound like they were pulled out of some “Stuff to read when you haven’t prepared a proper sermon” book. We’re back to one central line for communion with the priests the only ones dispensing communion, No more Eucharistic ministers, and many things I haven’t done since I was an altar boy back in 1963. Some would call that a good thing, I for one don’t.

I am so torn between staying and trying to do the best I can to make this work between the RCC and me, and going back to a church that has proven to my family over and over again that it loves, cares, and misses us. “God’s one true church”? What does that mean? What good is the “One true church” if that church is nothing more than the “true” church in name only? *

***Crazzetto: *** *First the quality of Homilies will vary from region to region I suppose. I’ve seldom been exposed to a truely bad one, at least that I remember anyway. With regard EWTN, everyone can access that on the internet. So as long as you have internet, you can access EWTN’s preaching. There is also CatholicTV (www.catholictv.com) which again, may be accessed online or on a service like Sky Angel which I subscribe to.

Also, I recommed listening to Fr. Barron with his Word on Fire podcast via iTunes or Zune. You can also connect at his website www.wordonfire.org*​

Thanks, Crazzetto, for the tip about EWTN on computer; I am so old and set in my ways of thinking about technology that I stupidly did not consider the possibility of Internet radio for EWTN. I do receive by e-mail Real Catholic TV’s short Internet broadcasts, and, yes, they are helpful to a point, but their orientation is at least as much political (and downright partisanly Republican/Neo-Conservative, to their shame) as it is spiritual. I’ll have to seek out this option for EWTN. As for Fr. Barron, I don’t have the hardware to access his programmes, but it is good to know about them!

Lostie, I went through the sort of qualms and torn loyalties and desires that you express, but, dear one, there just is no replacement for the Holy Eucharist, even in the downgraded and rather wilted form of the Novus Ordo. Cling to it! If you can find a parish with the Traditional Latin Mass (according to the genuine Vatican II liturgy, the 1962 Missale Romanum), seek it out! Those Protestants (or, as they seem to me from your description, sectaries) do not have clergy who hold valid Holy Orders and do not have, or probably even desire, the true Eucharist. A Catholic must keep that in mind in evaluating “the bright trimmings” of the sects! I know that there is no chance, in my own spiritually dead diocese, for change, unless the Vatican take really drastic steps that could shake up the whole Church, “clean house”, and to reform it. However, I look to my own direct devotional life of prayer (from my favourite Catholic and Orthodox devotional manuals), Scripture reading, and study to compensate for the sheer vacuity of what goes on in the parishes and cathedral of this diocese. I know that the solution is not in the Protestant denominations or in the fundamentalist and neo-evangelical sects.

It is sad to hear of those young priests getting off to such a sodden, uncaringly perfunctory start. However, the Church in so many dioceses and in the seminaries has sunk to the level of a mere “professional entitlement”, the kind of career and status security that attracts those who want life to be safe, assured, and mildly prestigious. This is as true of the seminaries and their young postulants as it is of the dioceses and the older clergy. The level of training in the seminaries, too, with the study of Latin abandoned or severely downgraded, and the doctrinal courses emptied of their content and of the assurance that the Catholic and Christian faith is incontestably true and something to cherish. At Mass, concentrate on what no indifferent or lax priest can take away, on our Lord’s Presence and offer of blessings. Take advantage of moments of spiritual refreshment that come along from time to time, e.g. retreats and conferences that can be edifying. Even avail yourself of what is good and true in Protestantism (especially in more Catholic-friendly Lutheranism and Anglicanism), where these can be helpful, but, above all, cling to the Holy Catholic Faith! Do not give lazy and unbelieving clergy the satisfaction of you becoming alienated and estranged completely from the Catholic Church and its faith!

Pax, Jerry Parker
 
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