The one example I see here constantly is the whining over how feminine the Church is now. Though you may be thinking of a different example. I feel like most conservative people tend to have benevolent sexism, where they basically put down women who don’t fit their criteria. The women that do are usually put on a pedestal. Likewise liberal forums tend to put down a more stereotypically feminine women at times so yeeesh. I don’t belong in either. As do most women honestly.
Most of these women hating guys and gals (yes, there’s women out here hating each other) are usually ‘red-pilled’/angry over our current state. So when you look as if you’re anything but a rad trad, they will lump you in as a feminist. Heck it happens to me here sometimes.
So yeah, most of the time it’s just anger + the sad bipolar way of thinking (if you’re not A, you are B) which is such a false way of understanding someone. A lot of people who like to frequent ‘traditional/conservative catholic forums’ happen to frequent other traditional gender forums/be in touch with conservative news as well, which would be more secular and um…sexist. So it transfers to here at times.