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Hasikelee said;
We have a very nice, devout homeschooling family in our parish and all the daughters wear very pretty, lacy head coverings.
Unfortunately, I think the rest of the parish sees it as an arrogant, stuck in the past action rather than devotion to a past custom. The 1950s clothing, long puffy sleeves, slick hairdos, etc also don’t help…Other than that, I think wearing abnormal clothing or items, or acting abnormally, is simply done for other people, and if truly not, then other people see it that way.
My answer is then “other people” would be wrong. On so many levels.
If a family dresses their children modestly then I say more power to them. Beats the heck out of what I see at coffee after mass most Sundays. Yes, I am very glad all those children made it to Mass in whatever garb they got there in. But I believe strongly that another lesson for them to learn is modesty. Without modesty it is very difficult to have chastity.
And if the women of the family wear headcoverings, good too.
The Church has yet to make a ruling saying “Women SHALL NOT wear headcoverings. We were wrong for almost 2000 years about that one.”
If the Lord puts it upon a woman’s heart to wear the covering, then she should wear one. I wear a mantilla as that is the usual covering women wear nowadays if they wear headcoverings in church. This winter I am thinking of wearing scarves as many women did in the 1950s and 1960s. It changes my attitude somehow to be covered. I find that I am much more able to listen and ingest the Word. My spirit is quieter. I am a strong willed woman, noisy of nature. My veil “bridles” me. And I remember who is in charge and it isn’t me.
I like hats. But I don’t feel they do the same things.
BTW I also always wear skirts. Do I wish other women would? Sure. Do I think they have to? Nope. But like veiling, it changes me to wear them.
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We have a very nice, devout homeschooling family in our parish and all the daughters wear very pretty, lacy head coverings.
Unfortunately, I think the rest of the parish sees it as an arrogant, stuck in the past action rather than devotion to a past custom. The 1950s clothing, long puffy sleeves, slick hairdos, etc also don’t help…Other than that, I think wearing abnormal clothing or items, or acting abnormally, is simply done for other people, and if truly not, then other people see it that way.
My answer is then “other people” would be wrong. On so many levels.
If a family dresses their children modestly then I say more power to them. Beats the heck out of what I see at coffee after mass most Sundays. Yes, I am very glad all those children made it to Mass in whatever garb they got there in. But I believe strongly that another lesson for them to learn is modesty. Without modesty it is very difficult to have chastity.
And if the women of the family wear headcoverings, good too.
The Church has yet to make a ruling saying “Women SHALL NOT wear headcoverings. We were wrong for almost 2000 years about that one.”
If the Lord puts it upon a woman’s heart to wear the covering, then she should wear one. I wear a mantilla as that is the usual covering women wear nowadays if they wear headcoverings in church. This winter I am thinking of wearing scarves as many women did in the 1950s and 1960s. It changes my attitude somehow to be covered. I find that I am much more able to listen and ingest the Word. My spirit is quieter. I am a strong willed woman, noisy of nature. My veil “bridles” me. And I remember who is in charge and it isn’t me.
I like hats. But I don’t feel they do the same things.
BTW I also always wear skirts. Do I wish other women would? Sure. Do I think they have to? Nope. But like veiling, it changes me to wear them.
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