Hi James924,
I’m not trying to promote myself as a Bible scholar. I’m repeating one possible theory to explain how it is that St. Paul tells Timothy in Ephesus not to allow women to teach the men, yet elsewhere, St. Paul approves of particular women teaching, even when it is clear they are teaching men. Scripture doesn’t contradict itself, so there must have been something about Timothy’s situation that called forth that comment from St. Paul in this particular letter. St. Paul addresses a number of cultural issues regarding the women in Ephesus - hair styles, clothing, and other issues of comportment. Given what we know historically about the city and it’s values in general, it isn’t too far-fetched to think that there might have been some specific problem with the manner in which some women in Ephesus were behaving. The entire letter is addressed to the issue of false teaching that was troubling the church. So, St. Paul was addressing a particular problem (not that it doesn’t have application to us), the comportment of some women was apparently an issue or he wouldn’t have bothered to mention it, and he says something about women teaching that seems somewhat different from other approving remarks on that subject. It’s just a one possible way to fit all of St. Paul’s statements on women in teaching roles into a cohesive, coherent whole.