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Yoeme
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What does this mean?
It comes from the Bible. We have all heard it.
But what does it really mean?
It comes from the Bible. We have all heard it.
But what does it really mean?
Note that the USCCB is not an authoritative teaching body (no more than any random or arbitrary collection of Bishops), though their considerations do weigh in favor of your suggested interpretation. One problem is that Paul does not call for mutual submission. He calls for the women to submit to their husbands, and does not call for husbands to do any submitting at all within the marital structure. The idea seems to be that husbands and wives have different roles: Obedience would be one primary result of this submission, for the wife, which is strengthened by Paul’s further claim that a woman should treat her husband as the Church treats Christ - which most certainly does involve obedience, among other things.For Catholics, mutual submission is the key.Instead of yanking it out of context, it needs to be read in its entirity: usccb.org/nab/bible/ephesians/ephesians5.htm
1.) Read my little clip at the bottom. This is not a debate. The OP asked a question, and I gave an answer. Give your own answer, but don’t tear down mine.Note that the USCCB is not an authoritative teaching body (no more than any random or arbitrary collection of Bishops), though their considerations do weigh in favor of your suggested interpretation. One problem is that Paul does not call for mutual submission. He calls for the women to submit to their husbands, and does not call for husbands to do any submitting at all within the marital structure. The idea seems to be that husbands and wives have different roles: Obedience would be one primary result of this submission, for the wife, which is strengthened by Paul’s further claim that a woman should treat her husband as the Church treats Christ - which most certainly does involve obedience, among other things.
Good answer… It always amazes me how misinterpreted this verse is from our Protestant brethren. I feel like I am constantly telling people to read the entire thing, this is not a women are weak, and need to submit verse like people think it is. Men are to love their wives as Christ loved the Church (as in unto death). If every man loved his wife that way, women would have no problem submitting to their headship! It is a call for us women to have trust in our husbands, just as God asks us to trust in him ( but then, that didn’t turn out to well for us either did it?) But even more than that, it is an earthly comparison, Marriage and the kingdom of God too. In Gods Kingdom, we have to trust, love, and submit. Marriage is the closest thing we have to heaven on earth, if we follow the commandments. In a way, it is also affirming the sacramental status of marriage too… If we trust, if we love, if we pray, if we submit… we receive the graces to make marriage wonderful. If we love, if we trust, if we pray, and If we submit we will see the Kingdom of God.Being submissive means being “under the mission of”.
A man’s mission is to love his wife as Christ loved the church…
(He died for the church)
A woman’s mission is to let her husband fulfill his mission…which is to love her like Christ.
It is a beautiful verse that upholds the dignity of the woman that she is and the kind of love she is worthy of.
The man has the more difficult job here.
(Of course, both must strive to love, to die to themselves, to be loveable as well)
Similarly, older women should be reverent in their behavior, not slanderers, not addicted to drink, teaching what is good,
Well if you follow the logic of the passage, instead of stictly the fragment, it should answer itself.What do you all make of the passage in Titus 2?
Similarly, older women should be reverent in their behavior, not slanderers, not addicted to drink, teaching what is good,
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so that they may train younger women to love their husbands and children,
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to be self-controlled, chaste, good homemakers, under the control of their husbands, so that the word of God may not be discredited.
I agree that the goal is mutual submission in a marriage, but what if the husband is ungodly?
If anything, I’d say worry about running your own office well first and foremost. If another is going to tear yourself and other people you are obligated to care for down, then leave. Part of the problem with laying down conditions is that each situation is different and each contributing member of the situation’s own makeup is different. One may not have the strength of another to help guide another out of a misguided path. Also no one is going to follow spirit of these passages perfectly save for Mary and Jesus.I do not see any condition placed on any of these exhortations.
I often hear people putting conditions on a wife’s submission in Ephesians, where I do not see any exist. Put it in the reverse: is a man no longer obligated to love his wife if she refuses to submit to him?
That is the implication. Knowing that where it is going is not where God wants you to be…Not if he is causing you to sin. There is a difference between not liking where it is going and where it is going is morally wrong.
No.May be I missed it. But some one asked, “what if the husband is ungodly.”
So what is the husband is not following God, and the road he is leading his family on is wrong. Does she follow him???
Most of the replies so far don’t need much addition. Just an interesting note, the last three or four times I’ve heard this read at Mass, the word subordinate has been used in place of submissive. Slightly different meaning to the two words.What does this mean?
It comes from the Bible. We have all heard it.
But what does it really mean?