When most scientists speak of extraterrestrial life, I think they’re referring to anything that fits within the definition of “life as we know it”; capable of reproduction (with some means of heredity) and metabolism. Those are pretty broad, but even defining the life as we know it can be tricky. Are viruses alive? By some definitions, no, because they have no means of metabolism and strictly speaking cannot even reproduce on their own, but require the metabolic and reproductive functions of host cells to do the job.
As to intelligent life, well, that, I suppose is the BIG QUESTION, but frankly that’s one we might be a long way from answering. Projects like SETI are, to my mind, largely wastes of time. The “light cone” effect means any incidental signal (ie. some alien civilization’s version of I Love Lucy) isn’t going to be able to propagate more than a few hundred light years before it basically gets wiped out by the messy signals of much stronger RF broadcasters like stars and the galactic “winds” themselves. To broadcast a signal, say, thousands of light years, is going to take some alien civilization knowing we’re here, we’re listening, and then generating an extraordinarily strong signal (in other words, something like a high energy laser, and a I mean high energy laser). And really, go much further back than a few hundred years, even humans weren’t producing anything that could be recognized as a side-effect of technology (ie. heavy pollution that might demonstrate an industrial civilization).
The best we can hope to do over the next century is refine our optical technology enough that we can start detecting with some accuracy the atmospheres of Earth-like planets. If we see strong signals, like an oxygen-rich atmosphere with plentiful amounts of water vapor, then we probably can reasonably surmise that there are photosynthesizing organisms.
I had read that at some point in the future, huge “mass interferometer”, arrays of telescopes probably in independent orbit around the sun but millions of miles apart, probably could give us the ability to directly image landmasses and other features of extrasolar worlds. Maybe then, I suppose, we might be able to get direct observational evidence of alien civilizations, but I don’t think there are any such projects in the works, and probably won’t be for decades. We’re talking a bunch of large Hubble-like telescopes in solar orbits, so not only will we have to have the ability to position them, but also to maintain them, so my off-the-cuff estimate is probably the kind of tech we’ll have in a century or more.
But NASA now has approval for a Europa mission whose job will be to go to Europa and try to taste the water plumes coming from under Europa’s icy crust. There’s an ocean there larger than all the oceans on Earth, and a lot of energy from the massive tidal forces that keep churning Europa’s interior. I read an article on what kind of life might be in the vast ocean, and it’s guessed that it won’t be terribly complex, because there’s a lack of free oxygen, which is what fuels the metabolisms of most multicellular life on Earth.