Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. Actually works. Adopted by everyone in the UFC. Designed by small people to use against larger, more powerful people, using sound scientific principles (balance, leverage and technique) instead of nebulous Asian mysticism. Shake hands before and after a match instead of bowing. Allows a broad range of commensurate responses to aggression, from escape to restraint to control to disabling, which is more ethical. Lots of fun to train, and you do on the mat exactly what you would do on the street - none of this nonsense like “well, if this was a real fight, I would have driven the bones of your nose back into your brain with my Ch’i Strike.” Your kid can take down and control a bully without breaking his nose, so he survives the confrontation with his dignity intact and is less likely to be kicked out of school under zero-tolerance policies.
Designed by Catholics, my friend, the Gracie family of Brazil.
That being said, I think every boy should get some boxing training. Learning to deal with in-your-face aggression is important for a young man, and it’s a good way to develop courage and learn to stand up for your beliefs - if you’ve never been hit before, the fear of being hit by a bully is a lot worse than actually being hit. Learning to deal with aggression in a controlled situation is better than being afraid and bullied, or being hit the first time by a thug. It certainly didn’t hurt St. Paul, who learned pugilism and the pankration (an early form of MMA) as a young man in the Greek gymnastica, and used sports and combative metaphors through the epistles.
I was taught to box by our parish priests in the CYO program. There was a time in this country when most Catholic boys learned to fight that way.
Girls are increasingly becoming interested in boxing but I don’t think most want to do actual boxing training and get hurt. The basics of how to avoid and slip a punch and how to punch effectively are a good thing to learn for girls though, without sparring, as it can be a tough world out there and there are people who won’t act like gentlemen.
Awesome post, Arizona Mike. I agree with much of what you’ve said.
Although, while I’m an admire of the Gracie Family and BJJ, I think we should recognize too that MMA has had its effect on BJJ players that enter MMA. Today, in that genre of sports combat you have to be more than just a grappler.
I’d also take a different view of TMA (Traditional Martial Arts) than you. I think many - not all - TMA’s have a lot to offer in terms of real life combat where BJJ or MMA may be lacking.
For example, I don’t advise anyone to go to the ground when being attacked by two, three, or more people. I also know from personal experience - even after having received novice boxing instruction - that a real life attack can come under low visibility, include sticks, or thrown bricks, all while being closed in on from different angles.
I read a short book excerpt written by an experienced Corrections Officer in a U.S. prison… that no martial arts or boxing can prepare you for all settings or environmental conditions. He gave the example of fighting in a shower room naked or entering a bathroom with human blood on the floor making it slippery. I’ve often asked myself how I would respond and engage if assaulted on a moving public bus, or seated in a tight position on a very crowded bus.
Personally, I think pagan and Catholic dominated FMA (Filipino Martial Arts) has a lot to offer. Although, the Doce Pare system I trained in (named in part after a legend of 12 bodyguards of Catholic Charlemagne, and in part after the the systems Filipino founders) appears to me to have adapted their stick techniques to the end of machete combat, because the stick battles are too close. The Muslim dominate Silat has something to offer too. At least one style from Brunei.
(I think FMA teaches how to grapple on the ground with a knife and/or when your opponent on the ground has a knife - BJJ doesn’t)
Tai Chi is good for those it helps physically. But I personally don’t regard it much for real life combat.
This is how some Muslims get down in the 21st Century:
youtube.com/watch?v=NLx0PYvvxJ0
This is how some Catholics get down in the 21st Century in the so-called “War on Terrorism”:
http//www.youtube.com/watch?v=JYTfb1gJf0Q (the sticks represent machetes).
Filipino Marines again but with knife and real machete:
youtube.com/watch?v=GvD0ebc1MAE