Would you ever text during Mass?

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It’s not a matter of getting comfortable with technology but of respect ( I am not an old foggey - I use tech on a daily basis in my pesonal life and as a filmmaker). Outside of doctors and the like why anyone would have thier phone on (even on vibrate) is beyond me. My phone is turned off before I even enter the church it’s no different than removing ones hat when entering the church as far as I am concerned.
Forgive me for not being more clear. I was referring to using iphones, etc. to look up and follow along with the Mass readings during Mass. My husband does this all the time. It’s quicker for him than leafing through the missallette.

He also looks up various saints, dates, Bible references, etc. that the priest refers to in his homily; e.g., a few weeks ago, he looked up “Battle of Lepanto” so that he would have a better understanding of what the priest was preaching about. He does this all the time.

Keep in mind that both of us are converts from evangelical Protestantism. We were used to approaching the “sermon” as a teaching time, and taking notes, referring to our Bible, dictionary, and concordance, and even using supplemental materials if the pastor was using these. So neither of us finds any kind of “study aid” distracting during the Mass, although as I mentioned before, I am so used to seeing Catholics just sit there during the homily that I would be momentarily distracted to see someone flipping through a book. However, my main distraction would be to wonder if that person was a fellow convert.

If my husband is on call (system administration), he leaves his phone on vibrate, and leaves the nave if it goes off. I know that a lot of people say that we shouldn’t allow modern responsibilities to encroach upon the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, and to a certain extent, I agree. But the world keeps moving on, and many people are forced to move with the world in order to keep their jobs. The times that my husband has been on call are for entire weekends, and he can’t ignore the call even for an hour, as potentially, millions of dollars and hundreds of jobs are at stake.

But he doesn’t text during Mass.

My daughter is a professional stage manager, and she is never, ever without her cell phone (iPhone), and she is constantly “on” one of the many social medias, and texts almost non-stop. It can be rather irritating. But what we all have to keep in mind is that this is her JOB–details, details, and more details. If she fails to communicate, again, jobs and money can be lost. Also, she depends on social media contacts to be able to continue to find jobs–this is the way her profession is done.

However, to my knowledge, she doesn’t text during Mass.

Texting, IMO, is like writing notes to each other during Mass. We used to do this when we were Protestant, but the sermons usually lasted at least a half hour, and that was considered “too short.” (The people would wonder if the pastor had “gone carnal” or “fallen into sin” if he habitually preached for only a half-hour–we expected at least 45 minutes, and preferred a solid hour of preaching!). But it wasn’t respectful for us to write notes to each other during sermons, and it is not respectful during Mass. And I don’t think that texting during Mass IN THE NAVE is appropriate.

IMO, if someone needs to text for a legitimate reason (family, job, etc.), they should exit the nave and go into the lobby to do the texting. I don’t have a problem with that.

And I think people with jobs and lives that require a lot of online interaction should probably sit on the end of the pew and in the back of the nave to minimize distracting others when they keep getting up and leaving.

And I think we all need to get used to technological devices being used during the Mass. The time will come when it will be the norm. I’m guessing that in certain cities that are highly technological (e…g, Raleigh, North Carolina), it IS the norm.

It’s too bad that we can’t get the online people together with the parents of restless children–whenever the online people leave the nave, they could take a few restless children out with them for a few minutes and give the parents a few minutes of peace and quiet during the Mass! 😃
 
I generally leave my phone and purse in the car. I can’t think of any reason I would text during Mass.
That may work for where you are, but in some parts of the country this is inviting your car to be broken in to, even in a Church parking lot. (yes its happened more than once)
 
Truth be told, I have no idea why I have a cell phone – I hate speaking on one and I can’t fathom why anyone would only have a cell and no land-line. Give me a conversation that doesn’t sound tinny any day. I might like it more if I get THIS.
I can tell you why I don’t have a land-line and haven’t for about 5 years. I was paying $40 and no one used it. Everyone automatically called my cell phone first even though they knew I was at home. The only reason I kept it was because my alarm system was monitored through it. The alarm company came out with a monitoring system that used cell towers are a back-up. I had it installed when my land-line went out and AT&T said it was an inside line problem. I had no intentions of spending a lot of money to repair something I didn’t need. I paid $400 and the system paid for itself after 10 months. The only time I miss it is when I can’t remember where I put my cell and I can’t call it to locate it.

I stopped turning off my cell before Mass because my phone would turn itself back on. I now put it on silent. As I said earlier in the thread my patients have to be able to get in touch with me. I don’t look at my cell during Mass to see if I have a missed call or text so I get any of their messages after I walk out. Any patient I give my number to is also told that if I’m in church I will not immediately respond. I don’t leave my phone in the car b/c it’s too hot. If it’s 100 degrees outside what is the temp in my car?
 
Sure, we survived without cell phones, we also survived without a lot of things. I’m grateful for the inventions that allow me to carry hundreds of books in my backpack, my Bible and Missal in my pocket.

As far as the phone itself, it’s handy. I no longer even have a landline in my house. But the choice is still mine whether to answer it or not. In fact, since my iPhone tells me who is calling I can make better choices about what calls to take.

The technology isn’t evil, it’s simply that people need to be taught how to use it without being rude.
 
The only reason to text during Mass is to send a message to the priest and let him know in real time the liturgical abuses that he is committing and to give him a constructive feedback on the doctrinal errors in his homily until they are fresh in our minds. Once I had to text the bishop to remind him that bowing is not sufficient when he is required to kneel at the altar, having bad knees because of arthritis is not justification enough. Who is going to police the liturgy if not I? It looks like everybody else is too busy with worship! :D:D:D:D:D:D:D
 
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The only reason to text during Mass is to send a message to the priest and let him know in real time the liturgical abuses that he is committing and to give him a constructive feedback on the doctrinal errors in his homily until they are fresh in our minds. Once I had to text the bishop to remind him that bowing is not sufficient when he is required to kneel at the altar, having bad knees because of arthritis is not justification enough. Who is going to police the liturgy if not I? It looks like everybody else is too busy with worship! :
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The only reason to text during Mass is to send a message to the priest and let him know in real time the liturgical abuses that he is committing and to give him a constructive feedback on the doctrinal errors in his homily until they are fresh in our minds. Once I had to text the bishop to remind him that bowing is not sufficient when he is required to kneel at the altar, having bad knees because of arthritis is not justification enough. Who is going to police the liturgy if not I? It looks like everybody else is too busy with worship! :D:D:D:D:D:D:D
🤷 and the priest reads your texts through the service as you send them : I don’t think so. Anything you text as thus can wait because surely the priests are not reading your texts through services or have I completely got the wrong end of the stick.

Only time I emailed the priest before the start of Sunday morning service, I knew he wouldn not get it till that evening but as I said earlier on in the thread… No one should be policing the liturgy as you do in my opinion. Police it by all means but not via texting through the service and am shocked if the priests are reading it through the service too, to respond to your policing. If you see something you not sure about then take it up with them after the service, not as a cold insensitive text. I do hope you are joking…
 
🤷 and the priest reads your texts through the service as you send them : I don’t think so. Anything you text as thus can wait because surely the priests are not reading your texts through services or have I completely got the wrong end of the stick.

Only time I emailed the priest before the start of Sunday morning service, I knew he wouldn not get it till that evening but as I said earlier on in the thread… No one should be policing the liturgy as you do in my opinion. Police it by all means but not via texting through the service and am shocked if the priests are reading it through the service too, to respond to your policing. If you see something you not sure about then take it up with them after the service, not as a cold insensitive text. I do hope you are joking…
That kind of sums it up. 😃
 
It’s too bad that we can’t get the online people together with the parents of restless children–whenever the online people leave the nave, they could take a few restless children out with them for a few minutes and give the parents a few minutes of peace and quiet during the Mass! 😃
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most of the time I am too preoccupied with Mass in the Mass to bother my phone and I do worry about those people who think its perfectly legit to have regular contact with the outside world in that one hour and a bit. Being a server does mean my phone is in the vestry but I do not check it when legitmately in the vestry through the service to deliver the collection plate out of the way. Even in the choir, I have spent time looking back in my memory and only check the phone before or after the service. I am not the only person on this world any of my friends can contact. Most know I go to church though they don’t know what time so if it was urgent and had contacted me for some strange reason, then they know the reason I hadn’t repsonded is because Im in church and the phone is nesting away unlooked at. I don’t use it to look up service readings etc.

The only bit of technology I do use is the kindle and that is purely through communion because I can’t focus my thoughts properly. I could have had a paper book but the title of whatever I’m reading may distract some people where as in a kindle its discrete. The priest gave me permission and throughly knows what book am actually reading so any serious complaint can be directed to him. Its small and discrete and whilst its a practice I have only just started I think that within 6 month most people will have forgotten I will be reading. Just the server at the side of me and if he has any issues the priest will know from him and has nothing to do with me
 
I don’t even bring my phone into the church. Mass, prayer, meals and driving are all times when I’ll never answer a call or text. Call me old fashioned, but there are more important things in life than being “in touch”, things like reverence, restraint and safety. If it’s an emergency, I can attend to it in a few minutes. Otherwise, it’s unimportant. Personally, I’ve never seen anyone answer their phone during mass. Then again, I usually try to go to the earliest mass there is. There are not many irreverent catholics in church at 7:30am. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, so I’ll assume anyone who is texting during mass is ignorant of what they’re truly doing.
 
🤷 and the priest reads your texts through the service as you send them : I don’t think so. Anything you text as thus can wait because surely the priests are not reading your texts through services or have I completely got the wrong end of the stick.

Only time I emailed the priest before the start of Sunday morning service, I knew he wouldn not get it till that evening but as I said earlier on in the thread… No one should be policing the liturgy as you do in my opinion. Police it by all means but not via texting through the service and am shocked if the priests are reading it through the service too, to respond to your policing. If you see something you not sure about then take it up with them after the service, not as a cold insensitive text. I do hope you are joking…
Cristiano was definitely joking!
 
I turn my phone off before I go to Mass. I’ve not had any reason so far to have it on while at Mass.
 
Took my phone to Mass today. As I walked in the ringer went off and folks were treated to a few bars of Take Five before I got it turned off.:o I do have the free app, Laudaute on my phone. It does have the daily readings, etc, and a place to bookmark prayers I particularly want to say post communion. Also useful during the readings, particularly the psalm antiphon. I usually turn it off before I come into the Church. Just missed today. I do not think the use to follow readings and say prayers is misuse or disrespectful.
 
Took my phone to Mass today. As I walked in the ringer went off and folks were treated to a few bars of Take Five before I got it turned off.:o I do have the free app, Laudaute on my phone. It does have the daily readings, etc, and a place to bookmark prayers I particularly want to say post communion. Also useful during the readings, particularly the psalm antiphon. I usually turn it off before I come into the Church. Just missed today. I do not think the use to follow readings and say prayers is misuse or disrespectful.
I think that sounds perfectly reasonable.
 
I turn my phone off before I go to Mass. I’ve not had any reason so far to have it on while at Mass.
I do the same thing, the problem is that I also use it as an alarm lock and once I went to the 7:30am Mass while the alarm was set at 8:00am because initially I planned to go to the 11:30am Mass. My phone started ringing while the communion line was going and I was in the front pew. I heard the sound and I was wondering who was the idiot that left his phone ringing during communion, finally it stopped by itself and I realized what really happened only at the end of Mass. 😊
 
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