Would you get rid of these items if you were thinking about moving?

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Maybe this is just spring-cleaning fever, combined with cabin fever…

Anyway, my husband and I are thinking about moving someplace warmer. :tanning: Just thinking. We haven’t made an definite plans, although we talk about it a lot, especially this time of year.

One thing that overwhelms me when I really think about making plans for moving are all the things I’d have to sort through! We have a big house with great storage for our large family. Our home looks generally uncluttered because we’ve got a lot of storage, plus I don’t like clutter. I’m also frugal and we do use (or re-use) many of the items in storage. I can’t imagine bringing many of these things we’ve stored with us if we moved, but for now they’re neatly tucked away in storage and may be used again.

Things like:
**Clothes **in a different size than what any of us are wearing right now.
**Maternity clothes **(already significantly reduced. Not likely to be used by me.)
Baby clothes. (already significantly reduced. Many were given away–my friend gave me them back when her child outgrew them, and I stuck them back in storage.)
Toys. Not just the cheap kind, but nice toys that would have re-sale value.
**Old stuff **that’s not in ideal conditions or current fashion. Things such as small appliances that work but that are slightly damaged and/or rarely used. Old Christmas and holiday decorations. Old gardening supplies.
Books, books and more books. We homeschool and have many books from preK-12+. Most are on bookshelves, looking much like a library.

I rotate what we use and display, so things that have been stored for years are likely to come out and get displayed in the future at some point in the future if we didn’t move. I’ll add that I like antiques, but even within antiques, things go in and out of fashion.

I’ll also add that while my own children aren’t likely to use many of these things, grandchildren might. If we didn’t move, some of these are the kinds of things one would expect to find at Grandma’s house.

Our storage is relatively neat and organized. I’d have to disorganize it to go through everything. If we were to list the house for sale, many could be given away at that time or hauled off to a storage facility and sorted at a later time. Then there’s things like some of our old furniture that’s bulky, purchased because it specifically fits this house. I wouldn’t move it, but we use it for now.

Anyway, there’s a reason why I have kept all this stuff. I’m sentimental and frugal, but I also care about style. I’m not sure if it’s time to part with many of these items or not. If I did get rid of them and we didn’t move, I’d regret it–but maybe keeping all these things is part of what keeps us from moving.

February. Bleh. :snowing: 😛

(And just as I was about to post this, my youngest comes up to me and said, “Mommy, it’s sad that winter’s almost gone!” :winter: My kids love winter. They’d miss it if we moved somewhere warmer.)
 
Things like:
**Clothes **in a different size than what any of us are wearing right now.

**Why would you keep these now even if you don’t move? **

**Maternity clothes **(already significantly reduced. Not likely to be used by me.)

That should be in the Goodwill bin.

Baby clothes.
(already significantly reduced. Many were given away–my friend gave me them back when her child outgrew them, and I stuck them back in storage.)

Again, unless you’re expecting that you might have another baby in the near future, this should also go now regardless of a potential move.

Toys.
Not just the cheap kind, but nice toys that would have re-sale value.

So sell them. Now. Why wait for a move?

**Old stuff **that’s not in ideal conditions or current fashion. Things such as small appliances that work but that are slightly damaged and/or rarely used. Old Christmas and holiday decorations. Old gardening supplies.

If you use it even occasionally and have the space then keep it, but if not then give it away!

Books, books and more books.
We homeschool and have many books from preK-12+. Most are on bookshelves, looking much like a library.

If you will still be using these for homeschooling then sure, keep them, but if your kids have aged out of them then maybe just keep a few select favorites and donate the rest to a library or homeschooling group.

I’ll also add that while my own children aren’t likely to use many of these things, grandchildren might. If we didn’t move, some of these are the kinds of things one would expect to find at Grandma’s house.

**I don’t even know what this means. I come from a family of de-clutterers so there is essentially nothing kept other than pictures. My grandmother only ever had things that were new for me and my mother doesn’t have any of my old toys for my kids now. I always found the ides of keeping toys and clothes around for the next generation kind of odd. Why would someone want to wear something that is 30+ years old when you can get something new inexpensively? Same for toys. Safety regulations change, plastic corrodes. Things can get moldy. **

Anyway, there’s a reason why I have kept all this stuff. I’m sentimental and frugal, but I also care about style. I’m not sure if it’s time to part with many of these items or not. If I did get rid of them and we didn’t move, I’d regret it–but maybe keeping all these things is part of what keeps us from moving.

**Well, since you asked about getting rid of things, I’d say toss it all! Then again, I would see all of it as clutter even if it is nicely stored away. We get rid of things as soon as we can. We gave away all the girl clothes as soon as we found out our 3rd will be a boy. We did keep the clothes around originally thinking we might have another baby and I’m glad we did that. We also kept the toys, but I regularly go through them and toss what is broken or has too many missing pieces. As the new baby grows out of the toys and clothes they will all be donated or tossed as is appropriate. **
We also have lots of storage space, but I’m happiest when I see it empty!

Why hang on to things that someone may or may not even want or use in the future and then they will likely not be very useful as donations when you can give them away now to someone with a real need? 🤷
 
Maybe this is just spring-cleaning fever, combined with cabin fever…

Anyway, my husband and I are thinking about moving someplace warmer. :tanning: Just thinking. We haven’t made an definite plans, although we talk about it a lot, especially this time of year.

One thing that overwhelms me when I really think about making plans for moving are all the things I’d have to sort through! We have a big house with great storage for our large family. Our home looks generally uncluttered because we’ve got a lot of storage, plus I don’t like clutter. I’m also frugal and we do use (or re-use) many of the items in storage. I can’t imagine bringing many of these things we’ve stored with us if we moved, but for now they’re neatly tucked away in storage and may be used again.

Things like:
**Clothes **in a different size than what any of us are wearing right now.
**Maternity clothes **(already significantly reduced. Not likely to be used by me.)
Baby clothes. (already significantly reduced. Many were given away–my friend gave me them back when her child outgrew them, and I stuck them back in storage.)
Toys. Not just the cheap kind, but nice toys that would have re-sale value.
**Old stuff **that’s not in ideal conditions or current fashion. Things such as small appliances that work but that are slightly damaged and/or rarely used. Old Christmas and holiday decorations. Old gardening supplies.
Books, books and more books. We homeschool and have many books from preK-12+. Most are on bookshelves, looking much like a library.

I rotate what we use and display, so things that have been stored for years are likely to come out and get displayed in the future at some point in the future if we didn’t move. I’ll add that I like antiques, but even within antiques, things go in and out of fashion.

I’ll also add that while my own children aren’t likely to use many of these things, grandchildren might. If we didn’t move, some of these are the kinds of things one would expect to find at Grandma’s house.

Our storage is relatively neat and organized. I’d have to disorganize it to go through everything. If we were to list the house for sale, many could be given away at that time or hauled off to a storage facility and sorted at a later time. Then there’s things like some of our old furniture that’s bulky, purchased because it specifically fits this house. I wouldn’t move it, but we use it for now.

Anyway, there’s a reason why I have kept all this stuff. I’m sentimental and frugal, but I also care about style. I’m not sure if it’s time to part with many of these items or not. If I did get rid of them and we didn’t move, I’d regret it–but maybe keeping all these things is part of what keeps us from moving.

February. Bleh. :snowing: 😛

(And just as I was about to post this, my youngest comes up to me and said, “Mommy, it’s sad that winter’s almost gone!” :winter: My kids love winter. They’d miss it if we moved somewhere warmer.)
Sunshine is VERY nice. I’m from the Pacific NW and live in TX now–I don’t think I could ever go back long term.

Some thoughts:
  1. Are the clothes items that existing members of your household will grow into? If so, keep.
If a new baby is a realistic possibility, I would hold onto a box each of each size of newborn-3T clothes.
  1. Keep a small set of basic maternity clothing (say 10 items max), but not dress-up stuff.
  2. Keep at least a small set of toddler/preschooler toys for entertaining visitors.
  3. With regard to the old stuff–do you still like it?
  4. Maybe create a “purgatory” box where you put books that you aren’t emotionally attached to and don’t think you need, and if anybody in the house loves the book, they can fish it out? If the book stays in “purgatory” too long, you can give it away.
Also, maybe plan to keep one bookcase of kid books in grandmahood? My kids enjoy finding books to read at their grandparents.
  1. Maybe start offering your young adult children stuff as they launch? I have a set of Star Trek drinking glasses that was given to us that is either going to leave with a child or going to Goodwill.
 
Maybe this is just spring-cleaning fever, combined with cabin fever…

Anyway, my husband and I are thinking about moving someplace warmer. :tanning: Just thinking. We haven’t made an definite plans, although we talk about it a lot, especially this time of year.

One thing that overwhelms me when I really think about making plans for moving are all the things I’d have to sort through! We have a big house with great storage for our large family. Our home looks generally uncluttered because we’ve got a lot of storage, plus I don’t like clutter. I’m also frugal and we do use (or re-use) many of the items in storage. I can’t imagine bringing many of these things we’ve stored with us if we moved, but for now they’re neatly tucked away in storage and may be used again.

Things like:
**Clothes **in a different size than what any of us are wearing right now.
**Maternity clothes **(already significantly reduced. Not likely to be used by me.)
Baby clothes. (already significantly reduced. Many were given away–my friend gave me them back when her child outgrew them, and I stuck them back in storage.)
Toys. Not just the cheap kind, but nice toys that would have re-sale value.
**Old stuff **that’s not in ideal conditions or current fashion. Things such as small appliances that work but that are slightly damaged and/or rarely used. Old Christmas and holiday decorations. Old gardening supplies.
Books, books and more books. We homeschool and have many books from preK-12+. Most are on bookshelves, looking much like a library.

I rotate what we use and display, so things that have been stored for years are likely to come out and get displayed in the future at some point in the future if we didn’t move. I’ll add that I like antiques, but even within antiques, things go in and out of fashion.

I’ll also add that while my own children aren’t likely to use many of these things, grandchildren might. If we didn’t move, some of these are the kinds of things one would expect to find at Grandma’s house.

Our storage is relatively neat and organized. I’d have to disorganize it to go through everything. If we were to list the house for sale, many could be given away at that time or hauled off to a storage facility and sorted at a later time. Then there’s things like some of our old furniture that’s bulky, purchased because it specifically fits this house. I wouldn’t move it, but we use it for now.

Anyway, there’s a reason why I have kept all this stuff. I’m sentimental and frugal, but I also care about style. I’m not sure if it’s time to part with many of these items or not. If I did get rid of them and we didn’t move, I’d regret it–but maybe keeping all these things is part of what keeps us from moving.

February. Bleh. :snowing: 😛

(And just as I was about to post this, my youngest comes up to me and said, “Mommy, it’s sad that winter’s almost gone!” :winter: My kids love winter. They’d miss it if we moved somewhere warmer.)
Things like:
**Clothes **in a different size than what any of us are wearing right now.

Absolutely, if it isn’t being worn or won’t be, yes. Kids maybe not, for select items. I sell all my kids clothes and buy new (used) ones, but I just have a boy and a girl right now.

**Maternity clothes **(already significantly reduced. Not likely to be used by me.)

Yes. If you aren’t using them, are you saving them for your kids?

Baby clothes. (already significantly reduced. Many were given away–my friend gave me them back when her child outgrew them, and I stuck them back in storage

Yes, unless it is something very sentimental.

Toys. Not just the cheap kind, but nice toys that would have re-sale value.

Yes, if no one is using them, sell them and make room for newer and/or more age appropriate toys.

**Old stuff **that’s not in ideal conditions or current fashion. Things such as small appliances that work but that are slightly damaged and/or rarely used. Old Christmas and holiday decorations. Old gardening supplies.

If you don’t use them, sell or donate them.

Books, books and more books. We homeschool and have many books from preK-12+. Most are on bookshelves, looking much like a library.

Books are one thing I would not just automatically purge, since you homeschool. Do you have any homeschool families who could benefit from them?

I am about to move and I am eager to purge all the stuff from my life I don’t use. Appliances? Check. Clothes? Check. Toys? YES, GIANT YES. Can’t wait to get rid of about 75% of our stuff. Less stuff to clean, less stuff to sort, less stuff to organize, less stuff to worry about.
 
On the other end of this, my mother has several friends who saved heaps of things both of their own and of the kids in anticipation of one day needing it or thinking that the abundant number of grandchildren would be regularly using them.

What they found is that the adult children had no interest in any of it. They get new toys for their kids. They live in a different state or country. They only buy organic clothing and bedding. Crib safety recommendations changed. Mattresses corrode. Bassinets aren’t in fashion anymore. Grandchildren never arrived. A thousand different reasons why all those treasured items are still sitting in an attic 30+ years later and now wouldn’t even really be wanted by Goodwill.

I saved my wedding dress for some time. I had it cleaned and put in one of those preservation boxes. I took up most of the floor of one of our closets. I finally realized that I’m not getting married again and there’s no guarantee my daughter will want it. What if she decides she doesn’t like the style? Who knows what the style will be then? What if she decides to become a Carmelite nun? I also donated that to Goodwill and I hope someone enjoys their day as much as I enjoyed my wedding.
 
On the other end of this, my mother has several friends who saved heaps of things both of their own and of the kids in anticipation of one day needing it or thinking that the abundant number of grandchildren would be regularly using them.

What they found is that the adult children had no interest in any of it. They get new toys for their kids. They live in a different state or country. They only buy organic clothing and bedding. Crib safety recommendations changed. Mattresses corrode. Bassinets aren’t in fashion anymore. Grandchildren never arrived. A thousand different reasons why all those treasured items are still sitting in an attic 30+ years later.
On the other hand, I used to go bonkers visiting a long-distance grandma who had no toys to offer the kids except for her wooden drink coasters.

Just a little box of blocks to offer visitors goes a long way.
 
My husband and I sell used items on eBay, and I can tell you that Moving Sales are where we usually find the best deals. Since the sellers are under a time crunch, they often let items go rather cheaply. We then sell them on eBay for 2 to 5 times what we paid, sometimes even 10 times what we paid.

I suggest you don’t wait and get rid of the items you’re not using now. You can check on eBay to see what a similar item went for in the last few weeks by scrolling down and clicking on Completed Listings. (You do have to register to do that.) Completed Listings is on the left side of the screen.

If selling on eBay is too much work, you can always have a garage sale.

Best of all, you can be a sheep instead of a goat by donating your unwanted items. 🙂
 
If you need some guidance, I highly recommend the KonMari “method.” Google it. My wife picked up on it last spring and we discarded (either through donation or trash) an unbelievable amount of stuff.
 
If you need some guidance, I highly recommend the KonMari “method.” Google it. My wife picked up on it last spring and we discarded (either through donation or trash) an unbelievable amount of stuff.
Yes. I read the book, and parts were a little hokey, but the gist of it is, “If you don’t absolutely love it, get rid of it.”

I have sold some things, donated a ton more, and trashed some other stuff. I still have a few things I don’t totally love (like my clothes that don’t fit quite right but we can’t afford to replace) but I was surprised how much I was keeping “just in case it would be useful” and finding that it really, really wasn’t being useful at all.
 
Yes. I read the book, and parts were a little hokey, but the gist of it is, “If you don’t absolutely love it, get rid of it.”

I have sold some things, donated a ton more, and trashed some other stuff. I still have a few things I don’t totally love (like my clothes that don’t fit quite right but we can’t afford to replace) but I was surprised how much I was keeping “just in case it would be useful” and finding that it really, really wasn’t being useful at all.
Listen to this woman. She’s the frugality Queen and even she moves things on to another life (referring to pensmama, not the book author).
 
Ask yourself the question: If I were to move, would I want to pay out $$$ bucks to move this box to the new location?
Call a moving company and get an estimate of what they charge per pound.
Or, if you would do a DYI move with a U-Haul truck, would you have to get a bigger truck to move the extra items?
That dollar figure may definitely put a new light on things.
 
Listen to this woman. She’s the frugality Queen and even she moves things on to another life (referring to pensmama, not the book author).
😊

Yeah. I read the OP and immediately thought, “Oh no way. Pitch it all.” (Or donate what’s useable).

We live in a small house (by choice) and while I do stockpile some stuff, it’s all stuff I know for certain that we will use - food, toiletries, wrapping paper for next year’s Christmas presents, baby clothes still in good shape that won’t go out of style. The rest goes. It’s very freeing to not have the storage space to keep everything. If I was preparing for a move, I’d keep even less.

I grew up in a hoarder house and have helped several of my relatives and my husband’s relatives do cleanouts of their “saver” relatives’ homes. No, no thanks.

And WhatMeWorry has a great point about the cost of moving your stuff.
 
Donate what’s still useful; Good Will, Good Counsel Homes, etc. Pitch the rest. There’s an old saying “One man’s junk, is another man’s treasure”.
 
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Yeah. I read the OP and immediately thought, “Oh no way. Pitch it all.” (Or donate what’s useable).

We live in a small house (by choice) and while I do stockpile some stuff, it’s all stuff I know for certain that we will use - food, toiletries, wrapping paper for next year’s Christmas presents, baby clothes still in good shape that won’t go out of style. The rest goes. It’s very freeing to not have the storage space to keep everything. If I was preparing for a move, I’d keep even less.

I grew up in a hoarder house and have helped several of my relatives and my husband’s relatives do cleanouts of their “saver” relatives’ homes. No, no thanks.

And WhatMeWorry has a great point about the cost of moving your stuff.
A friend was looking at a biggish house recently and was agog at the fact that the sellers had a separate air-conditioned storage shed in the back devoted to keeping the Christmas stuff climate controlled. The storage shed was the size of a small cottage.
 
I would probably donate all of those items to the local St. Vincent de Paul.
 
Thank you, you ruthless purgers!

One load donated already.

If we were to move, we’d certainly get rid of more, but this is a start. There’s no way I’d pay to have this stuff following us around the country! And if we were to move, we’d likely move to home with much less storage (because square footage for storage in homes costs money and we’re looking at places with more expensive real estate.) We might not move. This fantasy about moving somewhere warmer really might just be a coping strategy that I use to get through winter, but it is also good to clean out the closets /basement and donate items to people who can use them.
 
Thank you, you ruthless purgers!

One load donated already.
This warms my heart. When I bring a load of stuff for donation or even just to the recycling center I imagine my house breathes a little easier. Like losing some weight! Even better when you get to give useful items to people who need them.

At various times in my life/marriage I have been both a donator and a purchaser at Goodwill. In some cases the same items came from Goodwill and went right back there when we moved again and/or finances improved and I upgraded.
For further inspiration, try watching one of the hoarder shows.
One of my guilty pleasures. When DH walks in the room and I have this on I change the channel quickly as if I’m watching dirty movies. Well, they are dirty just in a different way.

It reminds me that I don’t have and don’t want to have the same psychological attachment to stuff.
 
With regard to clothing and “just in case” items, I was told to put them all in a box and date it six months out. If that box hasn’t been opened in that time, just donate it or throw it away without even opening it. If you haven’t needed or missed the contents in six months, then the contents weren’t that “needed” in the first place.
 
One of my guilty pleasures. When DH walks in the room and I have this on I change the channel quickly as if I’m watching dirty movies. Well, they are dirty just in a different way.

It reminds me that I don’t have and don’t want to have the same psychological attachment to stuff.
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

(That’s me and weight loss shows. 😊)
 
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