I work for the Church full time as a parish admin. I make more than our state minimum wage, but do not make enough to live on if I were a single person. I only make 20 cents an hour more now than I did when I started 4 years ago. It’s a med/lg parish (1500 families) in a wealthy suburb and we have a parish school with an enrollment of about 400 kids in K-8. The enrollment is down quite a bit after some minor scandals with administration of both the parish and the school.
We have 2 full time priests (though only one is in the office on a regular basis), 3 permanent deacons and 3 office employees, including me.
You have to have a very strong faith and realize that your faith is going to suffer somewhat because you are exposed to the ugly underbelly of the inner workings of the Church. The parishioners who never contribute money to support the church (and do not volunteer or regularly attend Mass) but want every sport paper signed, present their children for each sacrament on time treating it like a cultural experience instead of a statement of their faith development. The personality disordered pastor who only shows attention to his staff when he wants to complain about something, refuses to communicate with us and is frankly downright awful sometimes, but does beautiful Masses. The other priest who is cheerful, gregarious and friendly (often showing appreciation to the staff) but rarely comes to the office. The parishioners who complain that our big parish doesn’t have _this _ program or that program, but refuse to help with anything. Seeing people, including clergy, behaving in hateful, nasty cruel and disrespectful manners - in short - like working for any cutthroat for-profit secular company. Then there is the other stuff like people being afraid of change or technology because “we’ve always done it this way” when “that way” is slow, inefficient, costs more and/or looks unprofessional, people who have built up tons of vacation time so we’re chronically understaffed.
Why do I stay? I am s convert and my experiences in life have truly helped people, I see it happen. I’m that friendly voice to the timid person calling about RCIA, the non - judgmental voice when someone calls to start the annulment process or have their confession heard privately outside of the normal time, the caring voice when someone calls in distress because a loved one is dying and they need a priest, the happy voice when someone calls to schedule a baptism or a wedding. These things make me feel like I am truly serving God. I love going into the Church in the middle of the day when it’s dark and quiet and replacing the sanctuary light candle or restocking the other candles that surround various saint statues. I love seeing the school kids lined up to go into the adoration chapel. I love that I can (sometimes) go to Mass in the middle of my work day (I don’t get paid for that time, but who cares) and that I can spend my 30 minute lunch break in our 24/7 adoration chapel with Jesus right there in the montrance. I pray. A lot