Having the eyes of many heterosexual married men on the clergy in general, working beside them, could have acted as a strong disinfectant.
Traditionally, married men have tended to be heterosexual in overwhelming percentages, and they tend to be able to intuit whether a man in their midst is gay or not — “gaydar” is the slang term. The sexual abuse of recent years has tended more often than not to be perpetrated against boys and young men. Even where it has been heterosexual abuse — and I saw a case of this before my very eyes, in the parish where I was living at the time — “something just didn’t look right”, things didn’t add up, and sure enough, it was just as bad, if not worse, than I thought. It eventually ended up with the courts and law enforcement involved, splashed all over the evening TV news. Where it is a case of many celibate men all together, some gay, some not, some (I would hope a
very few) abusers, some (I would hope the vast majority) not, living at a certain distance apart from the secular world, with no wives around, no children around, I think such secrets can be more easily kept.
Beyond this, I am deliberately not getting into percentages, or questions of “few/many/most”, because I realize that has caused some controversy on these forums, to the effect of “have you interviewed everyone involved?”. The film
Spotlight, which if you haven’t seen it, you should, dealt with percentages that tended to hold up pretty well under scrutiny, so I’ll let that be their bailiwick, not mine.
Another example is that technically and theologically it is possible that women can be cardinals because cardinal is the only role not requiring the holder to be ordained. As yet we are obviously not ready for such a situation though.
I would be totally OK with women cardinals.
Let me be as clear as it is possible to be, that I absolutely do
not advocate women’s ordination. Before I could even get behind women as deaconesses, I would have to see something very, very persuasive from both a historical and theological point of view.