Christian prayer is not a theory - it’s much more like a way of living. And the only way to get a feel for living, is to be alive oneself: theory is too superficial to be able to substitute for life - especially when that life is the Life of God Himself.
Well said!
Reading through this thread, I was shocked that Imagine23 seems to claim that not having a prayer answered means that praying is futile and the equivalent of talking to a brick wall.
Prayer is a way of living in relationship with God, of communicating with our Creator. We were created to be in a relationship with God and therefore to communicate with Him. Sometimes that involves us asking Him for things that He either grants or doesn’t grant, but if a prayer is not granted the way we wanted it to be, then it’s immature to decide that we should stop having a relationship with God and communicating with Him just because we didn’ t get what we wanted. It’s like a 5-year old sulking and refusing to talk to his/her parents because they didn’t buy them the toy they wanted.
We may be initially upset that things didn’t turn out the way we wanted, but is our disappointment worth giving up our relationship with our Creator? God has already given us the greatest gift, one which we did not merit: His Son, Who died on the Cross to redeem us from our sins and grant us eternal life. What greater gift can there be than that?
Of course what I wrote above presupposes belief in God, which Imagine 23 hasn’t demonstrated. I can’t see the point in comparing people’s faith and prayer when one doesn’t believe in either - neither of these are objective things that can be analyzed or compared effectively, so why bother trying when at the end of the day it won’t make a difference in your personal life anyway?
As to this whole issue about whether we should use physicians or not, Catholics believe that faith is compatible with reason. We believe that we should be guided by our common sense as well as our faith. For example, it would be incompatible with reason to shun physicians and medicine in favour of prayer alone - God has provided those things for us. Even with physicians and medicine, faith is still required, since there’s never a guarantee, even with the best medical care, that the procedure will be effective. There are risks involved as well, so there’s plenty of room for someone seeking medical care to excercise their prayer and faith in God that they will be kept safe and that the procedure will work.
Also, if God answered all prayers directly whenever someone asked without using any people as instruments, where would be our opportunity to practice works of charity and do good deeds? We were created to live in community and do things for others, and an important aspect of that would be lost if no one ever needed anyone’s help. By using us as tools, God allows us to have a wonderful share in the work he does and in the miracles He works, something that can not only deepen our relationship with others, but with God as well, when we realize that He loves us enough to let common, sinful people like ourselves have a part in His work here on Earth.
God bless,
Karolina