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While I totally “get” what you’re saying, I really do think it’s on a case by case basis. My husband and I are happily married for 9 years. He has severe health problems and I suffered from undiagnosed depression for a number of years. Plus we have five children. I’m so glad I married him. I can’t imagine my life without him. I met him at 20 and married him a year later. I know that wouldn’t work for everyone but we have grown together in love and our faith so much. I feel like we grew up together.From a practical point, reading through your posts on here, I think that waiting for you might be a good idea.
I have never met a 20 year old who didnt think they knew what was best for them or knew the right thing to do. All I can tell you is this: If I would have married the people “I knew were the right one” when I was that age, I would be in big trouble today. If it is right now, it will be right five years from now. Immerse yourself in prayer. Study the riches of the Catholic faith. The more you grow spiritually the more you may find that you find other people more attractive for different reasons.
God bless you