This is nonsense. Or goofy if you prefer. While I don’t know of any homosexual players that were turned away. The fact that homosexuality is an abberant behavior, as I hope you view murder. Anyone who avoids it is choosing good. The same as anyone who avoids murder is choosing good. Whether one sin is worse than another is not my place to judge.
Identifying with homosexuality? This sounds like some sort of identity crisis. As I said previous. Every human being is capable of every behavior.
Were not all murderers, homosexuals or what have you. We are all sinners. What we strive for --unless we are lost-- is to choose good. How about we use thief as opposed to murderer. Perhaps that will help you. Someone who is not stealing is choosing good. Just like someone who chooses not to engage in homosexual behavior is likewise choosing good. Does that help?