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Sarcelle
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Are you basing your model of marriage on a manager/janitor relationship? Where the husband is the manager and the wife is the janitor?If you’re a person with good managerial skills but because of your gender (or race or social class) you are only allowed to work as a janitor then you will be pretty frustrated even if in your heart you know managers aren’t any more worthy than janitors. Likewise a person could have no ability to manage but be very good at maintaining a clean, safe workplace, if they are expected to become a manager then that has it’s own problems.
I do think there are differences between men and women but we can be too quick to stereotype both in and out of church.
Think of marriage as more like a dance. Take ballroom dancing or the pas de deux in the ballet. The partnership of a man and a woman, each with a different part to play. Each half is not superior or inferior to the other.