14 Year Old Boy Wears Make-up To School -Parents Want Tolerance

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I personally don’t like it, but I fail to see where this is any of the school’s business. After all, in my day a guy would be sent home for wearing an earing. Another thing I don’t like but none of the school’s business either.
 
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I personally don’t like it, but I fail to see where this is any of the school’s business. After all, in my day a guy would be sent home for wearing an earing. Another thing I don’t like but none of the school’s business either.
I think it is because the schools are trying to maintain some kind of order. First it was long hair and then ear rings and now makeup. If a boy wants to wear a skirt that would be ok too because the school\ allows girls to wear pants so it is this move toward transgender. At one time there were certain things girls wore and certain thing boys wore now with transgender they can totally wear whatever they want but again the schools have to deal with the behavior.
 
unless this was “dress like an 80s band” day, this boy should NOT HAVE BEEN wearing MAKEUP!
 
I think it is because the schools are trying to maintain some kind of order. First it was long hair and then ear rings and now makeup. If a boy wants to wear a skirt that would be ok too because the school\ allows girls to wear pants so it is this move toward transgender. At one time there were certain things girls wore and certain thing boys wore now with transgender they can totally wear whatever they want but again the schools have to deal with the behavior.
Like I said, I am not sure it is any of the government’s business whether one has long hair, ear rings or make up. The claim to want to maintain order is an excuse that is frequently used to violate liberty. Especially since things like long hair and ear rings never violated any order anyway.
 
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Like I said, I am not sure it is any of the government’s business whether one has long hair, ear rings or make up. The claim to want to maintain order is an excuse that is frequently used to violate liberty. Especially since things like long hair and ear rings never violated any order anyway.
I would think any change from male role to a female role such as long hair and ear rings is where it started now it it makeup. Does it cause a distracttion, yes it does . And if the boys decide that they want to wear heels or skirts in fact there was a case where a boy wore heels and I believe he was suspended. So it does matter. It is just who sets the dress code and should there be any limits. If a girl can wear it why not a boy?

I think it is a distraction when the boys are allowed to wear skinny tees but if that is the dress code so be it. The public schools are a place where little learning takes place anyhow.
 
I would think any change from male role to a female role such as long hair and ear rings is where it started now it it makeup. Does it cause a distracttion, yes it does . And if the boys decide that they want to wear heels or skirts in fact there was a case where a boy wore heels and I believe he was suspended. So it does matter. It is just who sets the dress code and should there be any limits. If a girl can wear it why not a boy?

I think it is a distraction when the boys are allowed to wear skinny tees but if that is the dress code so be it. The public schools are a place where little learning takes place anyhow.
I agree with you, it is a distraction. I remember sitting behind a girl when I was in high school who had a row of 4 or 5 earrings going up the side of her earlobe. I had the normal one piercing per ear, so this was something new in the 70s. Even this was distracting as I recall sitting there looking at her ear, wondering how long it took her to get all those earrings in and out and wondering if I would ever want to do something like that… Of course I wasn’t listening to whatever the teacher had to say! :o
 
I would think any change from male role to a female role such as long hair and ear rings is where it started now it it makeup. Does it cause a distracttion, yes it does .
Of course the problem is, who decides what a male role is and a female role is? It is determined culturally, and of course culture can change. But the one thing that is for sure, what people wear or don’t wear is not the business of the government. I don’t recall long hair in my day causing much of a distraction, although there were those who wanted to force people to cut their hair.
 
originally posted by** stinkcat_14**
what people wear or don’t wear is not the business of the government
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Should the public schools have a dress code and if so what who should decide?

I actually find the skinny tees on boys more distracting than the long hair but who decides?
 
I don’t know why this has turned into a big thing. 🤷

School has dress code.

School enforces dress code.

End of story.

If someone wants the dress code to change, go through the channels with the local school board. But instead we get a media circus about tolerance. 🤷
 
The make up on the boys face would have been a major distraction. All the kids would have been discussing/laughing about it at some point.

I was sent home for a day in 8th grade on ‘hippy day’ because I had applied too much make up to my face, blue eye shadow and all that. I am a female, and it was on purpose for a themes day - but I had taken it too far and was distracting the other kids. You go to school to learn not make a show or statement.
 
The make up on the boys face would have been a major distraction. All the kids would have been discussing/laughing about it at some point.

I was sent home for a day in 8th grade on ‘hippy day’ because I had applied too much make up to my face, blue eye shadow and all that. I am a female, and it was on purpose for a themes day - but I had taken it too far and was distracting the other kids. You go to school to learn not make a show or statement.
What kind of new-fangled educational philosophy are you trying to promote here? 😛

This is why I think Catholic Schools have the right idea with uniforms. Even back in my school days, the question was often raised in the Catholic schools as to whether or not uniforms were a good idea. I always appreciated them: everyone is on the same level; you don’t have to think about what to wear every single day; you don’t encourage judging others based on external appearances; you are encouraged to express your individuality through thoughts and actions rather than mere externals; etc.
 
What kind of new-fangled educational philosophy are you trying to promote here? 😛

This is why I think Catholic Schools have the right idea with uniforms. Even back in my school days, the question was often raised in the Catholic schools as to whether or not uniforms were a good idea. I always appreciated them: everyone is on the same level; you don’t have to think about what to wear every single day; you don’t encourage judging others based on external appearances; you are encouraged to express your individuality through thoughts and actions rather than mere externals; etc.
Yes, school uniforms are a great idea. I think all schools should have them. No distractions, no big wardrobe budgets, no trying to decide what to wear today, no one-upmanship, and the schools have uniform exchange days.

Now, it was a different time, but there were some pretty strange kids in my 8th grade class, and yet I can’t think of a single boy who would have agreed to dress all in black and wear eye makeup and lipstick even if his mom had offered to pay him to do it.
 
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Should the public schools have a dress code and if so what who should decide?

I actually find the skinny tees on boys more distracting than the long hair but who decides?
Our public school district has a dress code, the school board makes the decisions.
 
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Our public school district has a dress code, the school board makes the decisions.
That is how it should be and any variation should not be allowed.
 
That is how it should be and any variation should not be allowed.
Our dress code though would only pertain to the shirt the boy wore, not the makeup. Is there a picture of the boy with the makeup on? It may or may not be goth. Some of the boys at my daughter’s school do wear eyeliner and paint their nails, and its not distracting at all and they are not making a statement or are transgender either.
 
I would want to point out that just because someone wears black eyeliner, black nail polish and stuff does not make the person a Goth. Just like someone who wears a crucifix doesn’t mean they are Christian. Gothic subculture is much more than what a person wears.

Also, I see nothing wrong with a guy wearing make up. Some can pull it off nicely.
 
I would want to point out that just because someone wears black eyeliner, black nail polish and stuff does not make the person a Goth. Just like someone who wears a crucifix doesn’t mean they are Christian. Gothic subculture is much more than what a person wears.

Also, I see nothing wrong with a guy wearing make up. Some can pull it off nicely.
This is what I was thinking.

I think there has to be more to this story. It was the last day of school, which is usually just a formality and nothing really goes on. How much of a distraction could he have really been? Some of my daughter’s classmates dressed up, one as a cat. Teachers didn’t do anything, even if the dress code was violated. They knew the kids were just blowing off steam.
 
Eh, I just can’t manage to summon the outrage over this that some seem to have.
 
foxnews.com/us/2013/06/09/parents-boy-who-wore-makeup-to-school-push-for-tolerance-training/

The Tampa Bay Times reports Chris Martin decided to wear black eyeliner, eye shadow and lipstick on the last day of eighth grade at Meadowlawn Middle School in St. Petersburg.
Administrators told the 14-year-old boy he was violating the dress code.
The two women who raised the teen say they understand why his shirt’s image – an anarchy symbol and sheath – violated the code but the makeup was no different than what girls wear every day.
The district backed the principal’s decision.
The parents started a petition on moveon.org to improve tolerance training for teachers and administrators.

Read more: foxnews.com/us/2013/06/09/parents-boy-who-wore-makeup-to-school-push-for-tolerance-training/#ixzz2VkOSY0W2

The male train drivers in Sweden are wearing skirts

foxnews.com/world/2013/06/09/swedish-male-train-drivers-wear-skirts-as-protest/

Crazy world:rolleyes:
Tolerance training? They mean re-education so they can be indoctrinated into liberal relativism and other claptrap.
 
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