By creating us God has imposed on Himself a duty of care. The very fact that we can conceive of immortality makes death an unjust deprivation of our desire to live forever. You may say you have no wish to be immortal but if you were faced with prospect of annihilation right now I doubt whether you would welcome it!
Being thrust into life is not unjust. If that were the case no one should have children! It is a gift that cannot be refused beforehand but that alone doesn’t make it unjust.
The dilemma isn’t false unless we have no desire to exist in any shape or form but such a desire is unnatural. Those who commit suicide do so because of the type of life they have to endure not because they want to disappear utterly…
The issue is how we are capable of establishing purposes for ourselves if we have no control over our decisions - which must be the case if all our activity has physical causes.
If you want an argument for free will that is compatible with physical determinism, have a look at Daniel Dennett’s Freedom Evolves book. He argues that for one thing, we need determinism to make sense of free will. That everything arises from a material basis poses no problems in this theory, so you cannot say that we have no control over our decisions unless you have a good argument. As part of that, how do you explain the interaction of physical and non-physical, causal and non-causal?
How do you explain the existence of physical causality? We are directly aware of our power to make events occur but we infer physical causality by induction - without any guarantee that the orderliness of the universe will continue indefinitely. It is only a matter of probability…
Determinism excludes free will because all events are thought to have physical causes whereas free will entails self-determinism. Either the buck stops with us or it doesn’t - unless you can suggest an alternative…
Nobody really lives without values, as all values are a manifestation in some measure of selfish interests.
“selfish” needs to be distinguished from
justified concern for oneself. We are not selfish merely because we choose to eat, drink and enjoy life.
Let’s not forget that Hobbes’s solution to living in the jungle was a secular, and I believe a very effective one, based on the selfish desire not to live in poverty and war. I think society is better for having universal laws backed up by police, in which scenario the state is the leviathan.
The desire not to live in poverty and war is not selfish but reasonable! If everyone sacrificed themselves what would be the point of living? His solution is secular but it presupposes belief in the value of life - which has no rational foundation in a pointless universe.
The prohibitions to lie, steal, kill and commit adultery are not merely preferences but necessary conditions of our physical and spiritual welfare.
Of our spiritual welfare, yes, but in theism we don’t get any evidence of divine punishment before death that is not found in my atheistic conception of the psychological functioning of morality.
If you believe in the objective reality of justice (and injustice) it cannot be simply a set of arbitrary human preferences because it applies to rational beings wherever they may be. The universe ceases to be amoral and pointless when there are non-scientific laws of personal development and fulfilment.
Divine punishment does not occur before death because it would jeopardise our freedom to choose what to believe and how to live. No one would dare to harm or kill anyone else if they knew they would suffer as a result.
Then hell would only satisfy my desire for power and independence if I knew I was there entirely by my own volition.
You couldn’t be there otherwise! Hell is not a trap set for careless or unwitting egoists but a destiny chosen by oneself with full knowledge of the consequences.
When I get there, I will not be totally lustfully satisfied if I find that I cannot access heaven if I so wished (given the new knowledge that Christianity was true), and I
wouldn’t truly have my lustful independence if eternity in hell was forced upon me.
You can’t expect hell to be a bed of roses! The misery of not being in heaven is the price you pay for having your own kingdom. It is not forced upon you - or anyone else - but a clear-sighted decision to be your own boss and take orders from no one! (All this is hypothetical because you don’t live just for yourself and there’s no reason to suppose you ever will…

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So that means that, for hell to be a true extension of my earthly sins and rebellion, it wouldn’t be so bad, painful or eternal?
It is bad to reject the love of others, it is painful to be isolated from God and others and it is eternal because time and space do not exist in the spiritual world. Everything we cherish most is intangible: truth, goodness, freedom, justice, beauty and love can never be destroyed and are our only lasting sources of joy and fulfilment. Hell is not only an extension but a continuation of a person’s earthly sins and rebellion. Like heaven it begins in this world and is not an abrupt transition to an utterly different scenario. We are the same persons with the same virtues and vices who will reach the point of no return. We choose to live for ourselves or for others. We cannot sit on the fence for all eternity! Or maybe that would be another version of hell - it might well be extremely depressing to be isolated in no-man’s land, i.e. in solitary splendour - forever and ever…