- If any sufferings are “frivolous” it means that God desires suffering for its own sake and is evil. Fortunately, we can’t exhaustively prove that there is any suffering like that, though it certainly seems that way most of the time.
In the world where I live, things are exactly what they seem to be. When I hear the garage door opening, I am (almost) 100% sure that it signifies that my spouse comes home. It could be that some space alien is fiddling with the automatic door opener, and an invasion is about to start. But I would not waste time on investigating it.
When I hear about a psychopath kidnapping, raping and torturing a child, I do stop to think: “Hmmm maybe it is for the betterment of this child… maybe God in his infinite ‘wisdom’ allows this to happen, for some inscrutable purpose”. No! If something looks like evil, it is very, very, very probably evil. If there comes an explanation to show why this preconception is incorrect… fine and dandy. But the usual “MAYBE it is incorrect” simply does not cut it.
Of course, I am pretty sure that you have the same reservation about a human perpetrator. We do not need 100%, absolute, Cartesian certainty… it is sufficient to be guided by common sense, while accepting that our assessment might be incorrect, and if it turns out to be incorrect, we
must be ready to accept the correction.
- Yes, God is totally omnipotent and in control. There is no way to disrupt his plan. Our freedom and his are co-operative, not competitive though, so we are not just puppets or machines.
So, let’s see if I understand your position. When see a homeless person I have (at least) two choices. I can give him some money, or I can kick him in the stomach and throw him in the gutter. Do you mean that there is no difference in my two options? That no matter what I do, I support God’s “plan”?
Freedom in and of itself is useless… or even dangerous. That is why we would not dream about giving total freedom to that “car” - as you pointed it out so correctly.
Yes that means all the worst atrocities of history are his plan. Yes that means he supports the existence of rapists, child molesters, mass murderers, and reality TV producers

. I have no idea why he would allow this mess, however I have no solid reason to suppose that there is either absolutely no reason or that he enjoys evil for its own sake.
Your solid reason is (would be, or should be) the lack of contrarian explanation.
Also, someday, evil people will get what’s coming to them, big time. No, not eternal torture, God isn’t a sicko. But, they will get what they deserve. That is one of the main themes of the Torah. Nietzsche calls it “ressentiment” but I think it is just the natural desire for justice.
That is not much on a consolation for the victims. Don’t you remember that an ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure? And punishing the perps is not even a “cure”/