It seems like I am on a path of self-destruction and the defeat of my own purpose… What is the best remedy for pride?
1. We must first own that we aren’t absolutely perfect and that only God is. Thus, we have no reason to be proud and boastful. The root of the problem is that we tend to think too highly of ourselves. We should focus more on how great God is and less on ourselves.
2. We have to revise any false notions that we have. People who suffer from pride normally think they are better than other people and take great lengths to show that they are. So when somebody comes along who they judge to be better than them, they see themselves as failures and may even fall into the dark pit of self-condemnation. The root of the problem is a false sense of self-sufficiency, that all their personal assets are their own creation. But the truth is we have no right to judge ourselves and others in comparison with each other. All our personal assets are gifts from God who alone has the right to distribute them as He pleases. And if all the gifts we have are from God, we mustn’t boast as if they are produced by us (1 Cor 4:7). It’s better for us to focus on how we can put our own gifts to good use while not comparing ours to others (Prov 25:27). To overcome pride, we must learn to stop being self-centred and self-appreciating which can lead to self-degradation, if not the degradation of others.
3. What you’re experiencing could very well be a spiritual attack by the devil, who is adept at confusing truths with lies which results in much mayhem and confusion. The best remedy is prayer and imploring divine help (1 Pet 4:8). I receive much strength and encouragement by reading the Psalms and identifying myself with David. The Psalms are my favourite prayers to God. For me they are a great means to pour out to God all that fills my soul. I feel so much closer to Him when I mediate on them and express myself to God in David’s person.
**4. **Resist vain temptations for the sake of self-gratifications, focus on your relationship with God and how to strengthen it, and latch on to His promises.
Humble yourselves under the mighty power of God, and at the right time He will lift you up in honor. - 1 Peter 5,6 ***
By being still. Instead of talking to myself all the time, I should pause and be quiet to hear what God has to say. When I pray to our heavenly Father, I wish to open up a dialogue with Him. I tell Him all that’s making me anxious, then I stop to listen to what He has to say.
“Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.” - Psalm 46, 10
As Christians, we may interpret the command to “be still” as "to be quiet in God’s presence.” Being in a state of quietness means, in this sense, putting an end to all frantic activity and putting down our arms. For us Christians, being “still” would involve looking to the Lord for our help (Exo 14:13) instead of engaging in a spiritual battle on our own against a much stronger foe than us. For God’s enemies, the dark forces that assail us, being “still” would mean ceasing to fight a battle they cannot win with God on our side. Further, the statement “Know (
yada) that I am God” means “to properly ascertain by seeing”, "to acknowledge, and "to be aware.” Acknowledging God has an impact on our stillness. In this state, we see that He is omniscient, omnipresent, omnipotent, holy, sovereign, faithful, infinite, and good. If we acknowledge God to be who He really is, we can then trust Him and surrender to His plan for us instead of relying on our selves in our spiritual battle. So lay down your arms and seek refuge in the Lord.
How do you co-operate with His grace?
By being persuaded with the help of the gifts of the Holy Spirit, the gift of knowledge being foremost.
How do you stay in this place that we are no better than each other?
By acknowledging that only God is absolutely perfect, and that all our personal assets are gifts from God which we have no claim to. Without Him, we are nothing.
I have a younger brother. Sometimes I feel like I am Esau and my brother is Jacob. Initially I was going to ask how I could reverse this, but instead I was wondering if you could give me advice on how to accept God’s role for me and how I can accept his desire for me.
Keep in mind that God has different plans for each of us for His good purpose. ‘God works for the good to those who love Him’ (Rom 8:28). Essau was his own undoing for not loving God enough. His desire was more important to him than God. Our selfishness alienates us from God.
Rather than complaining, how can one rejoice over just punishment from God for his or her sins? Does God even punish people? Or do we just punish ourselves?
Think of God’s punishment as a means of discipline. It serves to cultivate our souls, correct our mistakes, and curb our passions, that we may mature in the most positive and effective way. Consider it a blessing - not a curse! (Heb 12:3-11)
First of all, God doesn’t want us to punish ourselves. He is our judge. But God does want us to examine our conscience, through which He may speak to us. Any punishment we receive from God, we bring on ourselves.
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