Thanks for your responses. Some interesting comments. I noticed that all the objections to the NCW are theological or liturgical. I´m not sure that I like many things Arguello has said either, or the way they conduct their Mass.
However, nobody has addressed the huge influence the Way is having on so many people´s lives. In Spain, for example, if you take away the vocations from the Way you´re left with not much. They have 70 seminaries around the world. 70!!! Surely they must be doing something right. In my city, only last week 2 young girls from the NCW joined the Missionaries of Charity sisters as novices. “By their fruits you will know them” I find the fruits of the NCW are good, as far as I can see. This is why I cannot condemn them, as others do so strongly.
As far as some of the accusations which have been made against them, I must say that it´s completely false to claim they have “closed” masses. I was invited to one and there was nothing secret or elitist about it. I didn´t like it, but it wasn´t at all elitist.
Another false accusation is that the NCW divides marriages. I know a couple who are in the Way, and completely the opposite is true. The husband, who was keener than his wife, was told that his marriage was far more important than joining the NCW, and that if his wife refused to join, he would have to wait until she agreed. This is anecdotal, I realize, but I am also told that this is their policy. They rarely accept only one member of a marriage, precisely in order to avoid division in a family.