When I pray outside an abortion clinic, I fill my heart with love for those women and men. I can’t imagine comparing abortion to the Shoah will make their hearts more tender. I was an abortion supporter and am grateful that God brought me to love life and forgave my foolishness. But I don’t think calling me a NAZI would have converted me any sooner, do you? What is, after all, the point of our witness? To save two lives. That takes action, not just words of hate. Let’s all make a special point to stock those shelves in the local pro-life clinic or woman’s shelter. .
I’m not entirely sure how to reply to this. I commend the good work this person is doing on behalf of the pro-life cause. The person who wrote this is clearly a compassionate person.
One thing I don’t like about the post is its heavy use of rhetoric. The poster is trying to make me feel guilty for suggesting that abortion is as evil an act as the sexual abuse of a child. But if you strip away all the rhetoric, there is a much simpler argument that is being presented. It is a very common argument that, I am beginning to see, is a fundamental underlying principle of almost all liberal ideology, liberal theology and liberal religions (like Buddhism).
The idea is that compassion (for individuals) and conviction (about the truth) are at odds with each others. In others words, people who strongly condemn great evils (who try to talk to others about the evilness of certain acts and how deeply they offend God) are somehow lacking in compassion and empathy.
The Christian rule has always been
“Love the sinner, hate the sin.” You need to
love the sinner with all your heart, with all your mind and your soul. But the same applies for the second part. You need to
hate the sin with all your heart, with all your mind and all your soul. The problem today is that people do not understand the difference between hating the sin and hating the sinner. They think if you condemn the sin, you automatically condemn the sinner. They think that in order to love the sinner, you need to go easy on the sin. How you apply this rule in every-day life is hard to explain. But there are some basic principles I think we can apply.
First, there is a difference between
public and
personal discourse. Some examples of public discourse would be an abortion protest, an abortion debate, or an article in a newspaper. An example of private discourse would be a woman talking to a priest privately about her abortion. It is in public discourse that we need to firmly express our hatred and condemnation of particular sinful behaviors. It is in these situations that I
might use my analogies – but only because purely logical/factual debates are no longer effective with most people. It is in personal discourse that we need to be more cautious in how we talk, because only God fully understands the circumstances of each individual.
Second, there is a
huge difference between a repentant sinner and a non-repentant sinner. A lot of people don’t understand the difference or ignore the difference when discussing how Christians are to engage in public discourse (the above post does that). Jesus had a very different attitude towards repentant and non-repentant sinners. Jesus was very tough on non-repentant people:
*Then Jesus began to denounce the cities where he had done most of his miracles, because they hadn’t turned from their sins and turned to God.
”What horrors await you, Korazin and Bethsaida! For if the miracles I did in you had been done in wicked Tyre and Sidon, their people would have sat in deep repentance long ago, clothed in sackcloth and throwing ashes on their heads to show their remorse. I assure you, Tyre and Sidon will be better off on the judgment day than you! And you people of Capernaum, will you be exalted to heaven? No, you will be brought down to the place of the dead.* For if the miracles I did for you had been done in Sodom, it would still be here today. I assure you, Sodom will be better off on the judgment day than you."*
Jesus was loving and forgiving towards those who repented, but he was hard on those who did not. Suppose a woman who had an abortion came up to me and said:
“*I’m glad I had an abortion. I have no remorse at all. It was the best decision in my life. In fact, my friends and I had a party after my abortion to celebrate my choice. It was fun. You people who say it is wrong are freaks.” *
There is a huge difference between how I would talk to this woman, and how I would talk to a woman like beafador. Is such a woman, in fact, acting like a Nazi or Pedophile? Does she deserve to hear it? Difficult to say. Do we have a moral obligation to point out her moral blindness, regardless of her immediate reaction? I’m not sure.