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flyingfish
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I think I’m definitely a lot less emotional than you are. I’m by no means cold hearted, but it takes for me to be able to relate to a person’s story, to imagine their suffering to feel emotional about it. I just can’t do that with the unborn because they don’t have minds, so if I try to put myself in their shoes I end up with feeling like well they’re not aware and don’t feel so what’s the big deal.I do…and I have family that’s been through the Holocaust…
I’ve felt just as physically sick walking next to an abortion clinic as I have a gas chamber in Dachau when I was 18 years old. If I know that torture, death or horror has happened in a place, I sense it and it makes me ill. But I tend to be perceptive anyway. It’s just how I am. I can’t physically stomach cruelty. When I had to do child abuse training, we had to watch a movie where former offenders spoke of their methods and I almost puked all over the floor. I think that’s why I’m so passionate about ending violence of all kinds. I have knee-jerk reactions to it. Even when I’m watching the Godfather or something, I have to excuse myself when the husband beats his wife. I guess I’m like my Muslim friends in the fact that I believe killing one human is killing all mankind.
But even more than feelings, which can deceive, it’s because I know, from my science education (I was a premedical student at one point, I still think of going into midwifery/nursing eventually), from what I know of history and politics, from my faith, and from my own nuanced views about gender (even my pro-choice friends are like, “Dang girl! You’re pro-life and Catholic but you’re really hardcore feminist!”) that it’s wrong. If it is a question of a woman’s heath and they can’t save the baby at all, yes, you have to save the mom. You have to remove a damaged tube from a tubal pregnancy, baby’s gonna die anyway. Otherwise though…absolutely not.
Also, to many, genocide is an intellectual belief. Even emotionally sensitive people can’t fathom cruelty until they’ve seen it. Some people read about Rwanda and can’t feel anything, because it’s so far removed from their daily lives, unlike the Tutsi who saw their family killed yet still managed to live.