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CrystalMayner66
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Thank you for conversing with me Vera. We have fundamental disagreements, and I am going to leave them as is. Agree to disagree.
Best wishes!

Point taken, though generally “sex” implies a consensual encounter. BDSM is also worth mentioning as a pairing of sex and violence.Uh, it’s called “rape”.
Vera, I will just say in closing that non-vaginal intercourse is not a contraceptive: it is an act closed to conception, not a method of preventing conception. Tubal ligation has a less than 2% risk of pregnancy, and while a woman is unable to carry a pregnancy to term after a hysterectomy for obvious reasons, she has a less than 1 in 1,000,000 chance of implantation occurring which would require a termination or result in miscarriage. I generally don’t think of sterilization as contraception due to it’s permanent nature, but I grant it categorically is, so I will grant your answer of hysterectomy. I stand corrected.Sure they do. Non-vaginal intercourse, tubal ligation, hysterectomy all guarantee that conception will not happen. And the latter two are performed only to prevent conception, not for some medical necessity.
Right. Organisms develop.Nothing “strange” about them. All they say that during the development the organism undergoes both quantitative an qualitative changes - egg to chicken, acorn to oak tree, medical student to doctor, zygote to fetus, etc… The rest you wrote are simply a figment of your imagination.
Technically speaking you are correct. But I was looking at the “spirit of the law, not its words”.Vera, I will just say in closing that non-vaginal intercourse is not a contraceptive: it is an act closed to conception, not a method of preventing conception. Tubal ligation has a less than 2% risk of pregnancy, and while a woman is unable to carry a pregnancy to term after a hysterectomy for obvious reasons, she has a less than 1 in 1,000,000 chance of implantation occurring which would require a termination or result in miscarriage. I generally don’t think of sterilization as contraception due to it’s permanent nature, but I grant it categorically is, so I will grant your answer of hysterectomy. I stand corrected.
You are not the first one who misunderstand the logic of my stance. I am not going to analyze what the reason might be, especially because the result would be highly uncharitable - though thoroughly merited.Surely you are not saying that a medical doctor is not fully human? Actually, yes, if you are going to be consistent with your argument, you would have to claim the medical student is less than human, and subject to death-by-whim. Because the full potential is not realized.
Technically speaking you are correct. But I was looking at the “spirit of the law, not its words”.The reason is that sex is not limited to vaginal intercourse, it includes many kinds of stimulations of the sexual organs, which lead to pleasure and strengthens the bond between the couple (the unitive aspect is just as strong… maybe stronger). Some people told me that the church endorses the perfect contraceptive method: abstinence. So maybe I was not totally “wrong” calling the non-vaginal intercourse a contraception.
I also want to thank you for the conversation. I hope to talk to you some other time.
Very best wishes.
From Post 96You are not the first one who misunderstand the logic of my stance. I am not going to analyze what the reason might be, especially because the result would be highly uncharitable - though thoroughly merited.
But the medical student - doctor dichotomy has nothing to do with either of them not being a human. The medical student is less than a doctor. A medical student becomes a doctor when she receives her diploma. One minute before this act she already has the knowledge to be able to open her practice, and yet, she is not allowed to do so before the diploma is in her hand.
Maybe you disagree with this practice, I don’t know. But the point is that we declare all sorts of dividing lines, and “quod licet Iovi, non licet bovi”. And it is perfectly normal and rational to treat a fetus differently than a born child.
I would think that all prochoicers would answer emphatically Yes!I. Is consent to sex consent to pregnancy?
One of the issues you repeatedly encounter is that you expect your words to be taken seriously while at the same time when inconsistencies are pointed out you do not want your words taken at face value. Which is it?You are not the first one who misunderstand the logic of my stance. I am not going to analyze what the reason might be, especially because the result would be highly uncharitable - though thoroughly merited.
But the medical student - doctor dichotomy has nothing to do with either of them not being a human. The medical student is less than a doctor. A medical student becomes a doctor when she receives her diploma. One minute before this act she already has the knowledge to be able to open her practice, and yet, she is not allowed to do so before the diploma is in her hand.
Maybe you disagree with this practice, I don’t know. But the point is that we declare all sorts of dividing lines, and “quod licet Iovi, non licet bovi”. And it is perfectly normal and rational to treat a fetus differently than a born child.
The Catholic teaching allows that if necessary medical treatment indirectly results in the death of the fetus, that is permissible. But killing the fetus can’t be considered as the treatment in itself.Discussing it in this context - when is ending the life of the unborn justified?
All you have to do to justify it is parse the word “human” and put doubt into people’s minds. Take “human” out of the realm of being and subject it to definitions and potential usefulness etc…I agree with the OP that abortion is an incredibly complex issue.
I cannot accept the unborn are not human, and for this reason cannot accept abortion is not the taking of a human life.
The only circumstance to my knowledge in which the taking of an innocent life is considered justifiable is just war and self defense. There may be others I just don’t know what they are.
Discussing it in this context - when is ending the life of the unborn justified?
Is general consent to parenting consent to undergo parenting which turns out to be unexpectedly abnormal, dangerous or painful?II. Is general consent to a pregnancy consent to undergo a pregnancy which turns out to be unexpectedly abnormal, dangerous or painful?
Is consent to parenting irreversible or ongoing?III. Is consent to pregnancy irreversible or ongoing?
While I don’t believe in speaking for pro-choicers in this manner, that is a great point! It should consistently go both ways, but right now it does not.I would think that all prochoicers would answer emphatically Yes!
Else, how could they sustain their view of a forced child support from the father?
If the prochoicers really embrace the idea: hey, I just wanted to have sex. I didn’t say I wanted to have a baby…
then it works both ways and the father is free to recuse himself from any financial obligation towards this baby he didn’t consent to.
Right?
Consistency is my mantra in all arguments with those of opposing views.While I don’t believe in speaking for pro-choicers in this manner, that is a great point! It should consistently go both ways, but right now it does not.
Prochoicers? What say you to this?VIII. How does the concept of bodily autonomy apply after birth? Does a child ever have the right to use his mother’s body then? For example, would a woman have the right to refuse to breastfeed her child if there were no breast milk alternatives available?
That’s what abortion is: a taking of what does not belong to one’s self. (namely, another’s self)I have a question for Prochoicer David Boonin (and all others are of course free to respond):
Do you believe in a man’s right to take?
(This is a corollary to the question: do you believe in a woman’s right to choose?)