Hi,
I’m curious about The Church’s stance on abortion. Does anyone ever take into consideration the poverty a lot of single mothers face once they give birth? Sure, would be nice if they planned things better but many don’t. Does anyone ever vote for bills/amendments that would give more aid to the poor in addition to banning abortion?
There is a perfect way already created not to get pregnant; it’s called abstinence. It’s even free! And doesn’t harm your health, and doesn’t kill anyone.
Oh I agree, good chance a mother feels horrible after an abortion. I’ve read where that does all kinds of psychological damage to a child. Thing is with me since I had to live in not so nice places growing up I saw a lot of kids who were abused, and a few who i’m pretty sure were being raped. People are horrible to the poor.
Just so you know, those things happen in every economic ‘class’. I’m sorry you had to live with that. And I’d like to correct you: SOME people are horrible to the poor. Too many, yes, but not all; if you put yourself around the right people, you’ll see that.
Well, as you know we are all fallen people, sinful people.
“What the Church teaches” and “how people behave” are often not the same.
Just because someone treated someone else poorly 70 years ago does not mean that this is a teaching of the Church or how people SHOULD treat others.
Truth. While at any moment we represent any number of groups of people (Catholic, women, white, middle aged, overweight, mother of boys, someone who lives in an apartment instead of a house, dog owner, cat owner, fish owner, etc etc etc), we are representing those groups. The least of these groups does not represent the whole of the group. Should the whole ‘group’ be condemned for the actions of its lowest which are not in its control?
But some people do. Hearing “What’s she doing here?!” whispered behind one’s back is not … particularly encouraging.
While few Christians will openly condemn someone, it’s the constant little jabs, the whispers behind one’s back that do it.
An open, straightforward condemnation is easier to live with, because then at least one knows where one is at. But the secretive, indirect mistreatment behind the public appearance of a righteous person – that is much harder to live with.
Part of submitting our own self to God is not to worry about what our neighbors around us in Mass or in the Church, think. It isn’t easy, because this world teaches us to worry about the Jones family next door in order to ‘win’. Life isn’t a competition, therefore judging based on circumstances or appearances is not needed. We can’t change others, but we can change our reactions to them.
You know, this is one reason why I brought this topic up, a lot of people argue religious law, but while the USA does do some things for the poor it pales in comparison to Europe and even Canada. The poor here are so marginalized it’s disgusting. Sure, I agree abortion is bad, but when you don’t address peoples reasons behind whatever cause they’re championing all you end up with is a bitter Mexican standoff. I use that phrase because i’ve never seen two people more ready to rip eachotehrs throats out than the pro lie/pro choice people. I can think of a few more, but i’m not bringing them up. Anyway, In the past I did see child care/adoption desks set up at my old college that were usually backed by some Christian organization, why not focus more on those? Honestly those anti-abortion protests where they show whats left of a baby are disgusting but the average person is so desensitized not to many people, especially men really care. I’ll be honest, it never phased me one bit. I think Jesus had the best idea, approach people with loving kindness instead of in a confrontational manner, you get more bees with honey after all.
I’m sorry that you have turned to the cynical side of things, and for the things that happened in your life that makes you feel that way. I encourage you to continue to increase your prayer life with our Lord and Savior; turn to Mary, the Saints and the angels for even more prayers. You haven’t seen the same images I have, apparently, or I keep that kind of filth out of my life more than others do. It’s real, not video games or a movie.
I will pray for those suffering in their lives, due to their childhood and adult issues, especially those that have things that keep them from being at peace with both themselves and God. It isn’t easy, but reconciling with the Lord is the best way to reconcile yourself completely on this earth.