All the single ladies ... and men

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I have not been on CAF for some time and this was quiet ineteresting šŸ™‚
May I had to my list that being pro life and open to adoption is a must. šŸ™‚

**Bonne annƩe 2013 Ơ tous!!! **
 
Recently married but my list is still the same:

On:
Feminine (I mean… that’s the point of the richness of genders)
Committed to God (Not necessarily Catholic, but at least Christian)
(Given these two, the rest is taken)

Off:
Feminist
Atheist

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I am a simple man.
But I still think I married the woman God wanted me to marry, we are very happy.

God bless,
D.
 
Green:
  • Christian
  • Gets my (amazing ;)) sense of humor
  • Conservative
  • Likes Mooses
    -Can accept my occupation/lifestyle (Trying to be minimalist, and I do Youtube for a job lol)
Red:
  • No faith/Ignorant about it
  • Progressive/Liberal
  • Self centered/stuck up
Bout the jist… hard to find any girls even close to my age that show these characteristics lol. 🤷
 
I’ll start with what turns me off:
  • Noisy
  • Nagging
  • Strongheaded
  • Arrogant
  • Ill-tempered
  • High-maintenance
  • Chatty
  • Irreligious
  • Bossy
  • Self-righteous
  • … and anything that reminds of the Dumb Beverly Hills Blonde stereotype
As for what turns me on:
  • Quiet
  • Timid
  • Shy
  • Religious
  • Kind
  • Naive
  • Obedient
  • Soft-spoken
  • Gullible
  • Religious
  • Trusting
  • Faithful
  • …basically anything that has Ingenue written all over her.
Wow.
Gullible and Timid as positives?

I’m a chatty female…I’m also faithful…but your list is quite scarry.
 
Even though Im new, it doesnt take a vet to smell what I am sniffering…
 
I’ll start with what turns me off:
  • Noisy
  • Nagging
  • Strongheaded
  • Arrogant
  • Ill-tempered
  • High-maintenance
  • Chatty
  • Irreligious
  • Bossy
  • Self-righteous
  • … and anything that reminds of the Dumb Beverly Hills Blonde stereotype
As for what turns me on:
  • Quiet
  • Timid
  • Shy
  • Religious
  • Kind
  • Naive
  • Obedient
  • Soft-spoken
  • Gullible
  • Religious
  • Trusting
  • Faithful
  • …basically anything that has Ingenue written all over her.
Your green flags makes me wonder… : ) It’s a little bit scary to be honest šŸ™‚
In defense of Lost Wanderer he is into anime, so I’m going to assume he is also into the whole Asian culture which has always been about subservient females. It’s also predominate in the Hispanic culture as well, just by always keeping the women barefoot and pregnant, which is more detesting to me than just wanting a woman from the era of the 1950’s.
The ones on here who are hating on the feminist women are more concerning to me. I’m not saying what the Lost Wanderer wants is not the same thing; he was just more specific and honest about the certain attributes that he looks for rather than using some broad word like feminist.
So can we stop picking on what one person looks for, because there are some others on here who list of pro & cons are just as unique.
And if you’re wondering I am a feminist female who should have issues with his list but don’t because he has a right to be happy with the one he spends the rest of his life with as long as he respects her as human and never cause any harm to her.

SO STOPPING BEING SO JUDGMENTAL!!! :mad:

Thank you……
(Steps down from soapbox)
šŸ˜›
 
In defense of Lost Wanderer he is into anime, so I’m going to assume he is also into the whole Asian culture which has always been about subservient females. It’s also predominate in the Hispanic culture as well, just by always keeping the women barefoot and pregnant, which is more detesting to me than just wanting a woman from the era of the 1950’s.
The ones on here who are hating on the feminist women are more concerning to me. I’m not saying what the Lost Wanderer wants is not the same thing; he was just more specific and honest about the certain attributes that he looks for rather than using some broad word like feminist.
So can we stop picking on what one person looks for, because there are some others on here who list of pro & cons are just as unique.
And if you’re wondering I am a feminist female who should have issues with his list but don’t because he has a right to be happy with the one he spends the rest of his life with as long as he respects her as human and never cause any harm to her.

SO STOPPING BEING SO JUDGMENTAL!!! :mad:

Thank you……
(Steps down from soapbox)
šŸ˜›
I’m into anime like him, and yet I’m even weirder. This is especially the case with my list here in this thread.
That said, I prefer not to date any radical or lesbian feminists.
 
I’m into anime like him, and yet I’m even weirder. This is especially the case with my list here in this thread.
That said, I prefer not to date any radical or lesbian feminists.
Really you think all feminist are lesbian wana be’s? lol:p
I’m far from that I enjoy taking care of my man more than most of the uber uppity high maintenance females I know, as I can cook like Martha, keep a house so clean that someone with germ issues feel like they could eat off the floor because its so clean, know how to sew, and if G-d where to bless me with a baby would be one heck of a Mom than most of them. Just because I’m a little more open minded than some on the board does not mean I go around looking more butch than some of the metosexual males I know. But in your defense I do own a pair of doc martins I like to pair with my long skirts in the winter time…. All this time I thought I was being practical and smart, but I’m just a lesbian in training 🤷

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Okay, I’m married here but I noticed this and wanted to interject on behalf of LostWanderer. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting an obedient wife…in fact, women are admonished to be obedient to their husbands. Nothing wrong with that.

Back to your regular programming.
 
Really you think all feminist are lesbian wana be’s? lol:p
I’m far from that I enjoy taking care of my man more than most of the uber uppity high maintenance females I know, as I can cook like Martha, keep a house so clean that someone with germ issues feel like they could eat off the floor because its so clean, know how to sew, and if G-d where to bless me with a baby would be one heck of a Mom than most of them. Just because I’m a little more open minded than some on the board does not mean I go around looking more butch than some of the metosexual males I know. But in your defense I do own a pair of doc martins I like to pair with my long skirts in the winter time…. All this time I thought I was being practical and smart, but I’m just a lesbian in training 🤷

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You forgot to add humbleness šŸ˜‰
 
I think Lost Wanderers list leaves a lot of things unspoken, that is they are assumed, and is going into finer detail. I was thinking, ā€œwhat? Really?ā€ until I got to
…basically anything that has Ingenue written all over her.
and then I got it. He’s also the only one who had mentioned what qualities he’s bringing to the table. The lists are complimentary.

I also don’t know anyone like that. She sounds darling though.
 
I think Lost Wanderers list leaves a lot of things unspoken, that is they are assumed, and is going into finer detail. I was thinking, ā€œwhat? Really?ā€ until I got to

and then I got it. He’s also the only one who had mentioned what qualities he’s bringing to the table. The lists are complimentary.
Finally, people who get it. šŸ˜‰ Sometimes I even wonder if anyone knows what an ingenue is. Glad that you seem to though. I’m not a Cad. I’m closer to the Anti-Hero who would burn said Cad’s face off but won’t if she intercedes on his behalf like the Virgin Mary.

If anything, I’m more likely to be put on her leash than the other way around. šŸ˜›
I also don’t know anyone like that. She sounds darling though.
I know right? ;w; I often imagine her to look like one of these two:

http://images3.wikia.nocookie.net/_...hooldxd/images/4/48/High-school-dxd-03-01.jpg

(Please Note: This uploaded content is no longer available.)

Not literally of course but you got the gist.

One fantasy I often imagine myself in involves receiving kindness from such a girl after a chance encounter for this time. After that, I would see myself bowing on one knee and saying, ā€œBecause of your unique act of kindness, I am bound by the Arcane Pact to lend you my power should you ever need it.ā€

Not exactly the most creative thing I ever conceptualized but the point is, I want someone whose natural at using positive, demure traits to bring out my good side rather negative, critical demands that I’m desensitized to. (Not that I can’t bring out my good side on my own but it just feels so much better doting it on someone whose more positive that it’s there in the first place.)
 
Finally, people who get it. šŸ˜‰ Sometimes I even wonder if anyone knows what an ingenue is. Glad that you seem to though. I’m not a Cad. I’m closer to the Anti-Hero who would burn said Cad’s face off but won’t if she intercedes on his behalf like the Virgin Mary.

If anything, I’m more likely to be put on her leash than the other way around. šŸ˜›

I know right? ;w; I often imagine her to look like one of these two:

http://images3.wikia.nocookie.net/_...hooldxd/images/4/48/High-school-dxd-03-01.jpg

http://i106.photobucket.com/albums/m280/tokyo_rose505/Nodoka_Miyazaki-5.jpg

Not literally of course but you got the gist.

One fantasy I often imagine myself in involves receiving kindness from such a girl after a chance encounter for this time. After that, I would see myself bowing on one knee and saying, ā€œBecause of your unique act of kindness, I am bound by the Arcane Pact to lend you my power should you ever need it.ā€

Not exactly the most creative thing I ever conceptualized but the point is, I want someone whose natural at using positive, demure traits to bring out my good side rather negative, critical demands that I’m desensitized to. (Not that I can’t bring out my good side on my own but it just feels so much better doting it on someone whose more positive that it’s there in the first place.)
…ayup. A cartoon character. Man, sometimes I hate being right…
 
I think chemistry is everything!!!

Sure you can have a checklist but when you find the right person that checklist can go out the window. As long as once your in a relationship there is respect. honetsy, love etc then thats all that matters.

Here’s a question thats more hard to answer. Why do you think we are attracted to some people and not to others?? Are there lessons to learn from those we are attracted to perhaps??
 
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