Friend, no one here is trying to imply that this man doesn’t care about you.
At the same time, you are expressing dramatically negative, hostile emotions online, to strangers, who have no access to the relevant information or resources to assist you, and who have an ethical obligation NOT to slander and denigrate others (e.g. your local diocesan officials) just because you ask us to.
You starting this whole thread by posting way too little information about your situation, and are then expressing howling rage at strangers for not already understanding background details you never shared.
You are also dramatically overstating the negativity of the responses you have received here (e.g. hysterically claiming people are calling you a “nobody”, which literally hasn’t happened once), and seem point blank determined to carry on with an internet meltdown in which you accuse essentially the entire world of conspiring against you and your fiancé, and refuse to accept any responsibility whatsoever for your involvement in a situation that, unfortunately, is taking an emotional toll on you.
I am sympathetic to how unpleasant I imagine your feelings feel right now. At the same time, for your own sake, I suggest you try to help yourself by considering the possibility that you are playing a role in making yourself look worse than you need to right now (and in provoking a more unpleasant series of interactions online than you need to), that you and your fiancé are not perfect people who have never made a mistake, and that people not automatically telling you whatever you want to hear doesn’t make them evil or hostile to you. There are people here who care, and honestly it seems to me like you’re preventing yourself from hearing it, perhaps because you’re only open to receiving care if it comes to you in a very specific package. That’s fairly understandable given how immersed you are in unpleasant emotions right now – and at the same time we’re all adults and should be able to calm down, take a breather, then resume conversation without throwing accusations… and honestly for your own sake I suggest you try that. The amount of anger you’re leading with, seems likely only to get you caught in a cycle of negativity with others responding in kind.
