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Leslie_Polley
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Well in Drawmacks defence, you don’t know anything about ANY of the protestant churches either!
Well in Drawmacks defence, you don’t know anything about ANY of the protestant churches either!
Sorry here I was talking to Drawmack, not JavisWell in JAVI’S defence, you don’t know anything about ANY of the protestant churches either!
sigh My husband’s a fisherman. I should know when to not take the bait.
The following facts are presented to you, Leslie, though having watched your posts, you aren’t really interested in facts. (Ma’am, with all due respect, your tone has been less than charitable and it makes it hard to actually take your posts seriously).
Yes, there have been married popes.
St. Siricius, the 38th Pope, abandoned his wife and children to become Pope, says Church tradition.
Hadrian
II (Pope 867-872 AD). Resided with wife and daughter while Pope.
Boniface IX (1389-1404)
Felix V (1439-1449)
Widowers when they became Pope:
Felix III (ancestor of 2 other Popes)
Hormisdas (father of Pope Silverus)
Clement IV
St. Peter, the first Pope and “rock” on which the church was founded – he was married. This is mentioned in Mark 1:29-31. A contemporary historian named Clement of Alexandra mentions children
as well as a wife. We don’t know wife’s name, or where she lived when he was serving as Pope.
Pope Gregory IV is the pontiff who declared, in 1074, that priests must be celibate.
That does NOT constitute many.
If you’d like to go there, I can find statistics about pentecostal pastors that would shock you. Like the married pentecostal pastor that urged his girlfriend to have an abortion.
But you’d agree that damning the whole religion because of a few misguided souls would be horrible, right?
Respectfully bowing out because Paul asked us not to enter into worthless debates,
Heather
Leslie-The "Pope was new Tesiment if you are beginning with Peter, who was married. Soloman was Old Testiment and as king appointed by God could do that. It does not mean that God was pleased with Soloman. Like so many men with power Soloman fell and discovered that all was for nothing. All tht He had accomplished was in vain. As for the Pope, he is suppose to be a shinning example of Christ, isn’t that what you way. He represents Christ one earth. I never knew that Jesus had a mistress, or flings with woman. But His representitives did !!! He also said that it is better to be single , but if you cannot stany away from sex, it it better to marry than burn…(inHell). Now they could have married, but the Church said no, even though Jesus said they could…so if those are the loaws you impose than you must live a celebite life, as did Christ.
As for the standard being double, no it is not.
Just to respond to you (I would agree that damning the whole religion because of a few misguided woulds would be horrible right?) Absolutally. I do not have the power to damn any to hell or get them in heaven…that is our choice. That is where our free will kicks in.sigh My husband’s a fisherman. I should know when to not take the bait.
The following facts are presented to you, Leslie, though having watched your posts, you aren’t really interested in facts. (Ma’am, with all due respect, your tone has been less than charitable and it makes it hard to actually take your posts seriously).
Yes, there have been married popes.
St. Siricius, the 38th Pope, abandoned his wife and children to become Pope, says Church tradition.
Hadrian
II (Pope 867-872 AD). Resided with wife and daughter while Pope.
Boniface IX (1389-1404)
Felix V (1439-1449)
Widowers when they became Pope:
Felix III (ancestor of 2 other Popes)
Hormisdas (father of Pope Silverus)
Clement IV
St. Peter, the first Pope and “rock” on which the church was founded – he was married. This is mentioned in Mark 1:29-31. A contemporary historian named Clement of Alexandra mentions children
as well as a wife. We don’t know wife’s name, or where she lived when he was serving as Pope.
Pope Gregory IV is the pontiff who declared, in 1074, that priests must be celibate.
That does NOT constitute many.
If you’d like to go there, I can find statistics about pentecostal pastors that would shock you. Like the married pentecostal pastor that urged his girlfriend to have an abortion.
But you’d agree that damning the whole religion because of a few misguided souls would be horrible, right?
Respectfully bowing out because Paul asked us not to enter into worthless debates,
Heather
I am inclined…personally, to read the Bible…the works of the early Church fathers and doctors…saints and Apostles or/and the Catechism of the Catholic Church regarding my religion and who God is and even what God is than a novel written in the 21st century by a man who has no other credits than being a skilled writter. Maybe I am missing something but I don’t think so:shrug:rinnie; “The Shack,” is a delightful work of fiction, written by William P. YoungAlthough the story is not true, it is based on real events that happened in Mr. Youn’s life. Many have been beguiled by the representation of God as a large, happy, compassionate black woman, who is always singing, and cooking! And they say that Mr. Young is attempting to redefine the Godhead(???). I asked somebody who was having trouble getting past the author’s depiction of god as a black woman this question:" Would you ever have told your children, that Santa Claus was black?" “Heck no,” they reply! “Why not,” I ask? Because he wasn’t," they reply. "How do you know, he wasn’t/isnt?"End of discussion
Bottom line is; it’s about who God is, not what He is! The author ties up all the loose ends at the end, and you can go to www.shackbook.com, join an interactive chat group, and get answers to all questions you might have
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Thank you, you proved my point. nowhere does it say a priest cannot marry…celibacy is a choice… Why has there been a debate about changing the Church law and allowing priests to marry. I have known 2 priests that had to leave the priesthood so they could marry. One of them was my math teacher in California…Father Fabian…Another was a friend of the family. They said that they where excommunicated from the church because of that, and that is what we were always taught. Excommunication in the church meant hell. However that is a church law and not in the word. I would like to thank you however because you accually tookk the time to dig in the Word and find some great scriptures. I really surprised me Randy. Before you have been very sarcastic, and I was in return. This was acctually nice. What it boils down to however is that God said yes and the church said no, or there would be married priests, at least 2 that I know of anyway. One other thing…Celibacy is a choice, not a gift.Leslie-
It appears that you think the Catholic Church has done something unbiblical or worse, anti-biblical, by requiring that priests and bishops of the Latin Rite be celibate.
I’d like to offer some scriptural support for the Church’s position.
Celibacy of the Catholic Priest Supported by Scripture
Many people believe that the Catholic Church violates the Word of God because it forbids people to marry (cf. 1 Timothy 4:3) and that it is wrong for priests to remain celibate. To get a clearer picture of this issue, let’s examine what the Bible has to say about the subject of celibacy.
Matthew 19:11-12
11Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. 12For some are eunuchs because they were born that way; others were made that way by men; and others have renounced marriage because of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”
Jesus offers the celibate life as a gift and tells us that “The one who can accept this should accept it.”
1 Corinthians 7:1
1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.
1 Corinthians 7:7
7I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
Paul reveals his own celibacy and offers an earnest wish that more people would follow his example.
1 Corinthians 7:8-9
8Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am. 9But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
Paul concedes that getting married is better than struggling with sexual temptation; for those that “cannot control themselves, they should marry.”
Is Paul completely opposed to marriage? Not at all. The book of Hebrews states:
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
Why then does Paul recommend celibacy?
1 Corinthians 7:32-35
32I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs—how he can please the Lord. 33But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world—how he can please his wife— 34and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband. 35I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.
From this passage, we can see Paul’s primary reason for advocating celibacy: he wants everyone to live in undivided devotion to the Lord, and in all of these verses, the Bible makes it clear that Jesus calls some men to the priesthood and offers them the gift of a celibate life to be lived in undivided devotion to God. Paul understands that not everyone is offered this gift and that not all to whom it is offered can or will accept it.
There are Catholic priests who are married; typically, these are men who were priests in the Anglican, Orthodox or other faith traditions and have converted to the Catholic faith after they were married in those churches. Under special circumstances, they may be ordained to serve as Catholic priests. Men who are already Catholic when they begin to discern their call to the priesthood must remain celibate.
The Catholic Church forbids no man to marry. However, she does desire that those who will represent Christ, who will stand in persona Christi (in the place of Christ) when administering the sacraments as priests, be like their Lord as fully as possible. This means that like Jesus, they are celibate men prepared to sacrifice their own lives in the service of God and others.
The calling and the gift is offered by God; those who choose to accept it do so freely. Here is an article, “Celibacy is a Gift”, that explains this more fully: catholic.com/thisrock/2001/0102fea5.asp
I have known that fact for a long long time, I think the last time I heard it was from the Pope.You must not have been Cataechized properly…Before the name Christian came into being, they where known as THE WAY. Look it up I go to a penticostal church, I am penticostal because I believe in ALL of the gifts, and that they are for today as well…If you want to get specific UM I am a CHRISTIAN. I know the Pope is in Vatican City…I was there. When was your last trip…UM Your welcome and bye bye
I did not sayanything about your husband except I DID NOT THINK YOU COULD SWEAR IN THIS FORUM…I don’t care if he drinks a keg, and drinking with the “deaon” certainly does not impress me. Get a grip girl. Your husband drinks and swears. He swore here and you said he was drinking…I did not.sigh My husband’s a fisherman. I should know when to not take the bait.
The following facts are presented to you, Leslie, though having watched your posts, you aren’t really interested in facts. (Ma’am, with all due respect, your tone has been less than charitable and it makes it hard to actually take your posts seriously).
Yes, there have been married popes.
St. Siricius, the 38th Pope, abandoned his wife and children to become Pope, says Church tradition.
Hadrian
II (Pope 867-872 AD). Resided with wife and daughter while Pope.
Boniface IX (1389-1404)
Felix V (1439-1449)
Widowers when they became Pope:
Felix III (ancestor of 2 other Popes)
Hormisdas (father of Pope Silverus)
Clement IV
St. Peter, the first Pope and “rock” on which the church was founded – he was married. This is mentioned in Mark 1:29-31. A contemporary historian named Clement of Alexandra mentions children
as well as a wife. We don’t know wife’s name, or where she lived when he was serving as Pope.
Pope Gregory IV is the pontiff who declared, in 1074, that priests must be celibate.
That does NOT constitute many.
If you’d like to go there, I can find statistics about pentecostal pastors that would shock you. Like the married pentecostal pastor that urged his girlfriend to have an abortion.
But you’d agree that damning the whole religion because of a few misguided souls would be horrible, right?
Respectfully bowing out because Paul asked us not to enter into worthless debates,
Heather
Are you saying that the Ten Commandments had no effect on Kings? There is no Commandment that says “Do not commit adultery… unless you are a King.”The "Pope was new Tesiment if you are beginning with Peter, who was married. Soloman was Old Testiment and as king appointed by God could do that. It does not mean that God was pleased with Soloman. Like so many men with power Soloman fell and discovered that all was for nothing. All tht He had accomplished was in vain. As for the Pope, he is suppose to be a shinning example of Christ, isn’t that what you way. He represents Christ one earth. I never knew that Jesus had a mistress, or flings with woman. But His representitives did !!! He also said that it is better to be single , but if you cannot stany away from sex, it it better to marry than burn…(inHell). Now they could have married, but the Church said no, even though Jesus said they could…so if those are the loaws you impose than you must live a celebite life, as did Christ.
As for the standard being double, no it is not.
Not said to impress. Merely a cultural difference.I did not sayanything about your husband except I DID NOT THINK YOU COULD SWEAR IN THIS FORUM…I don’t care if he drinks a keg, and drinking with the “deaon” certainly does not impress me. Get a grip girl. Your husband drinks and swears. He swore here and you said he was drinking…I did not.
Celibacy is a displine, a vow, that a Catholic Priest is to fully understand prior to recieving Holy Orders.Thank you, you proved my point. nowhere does it say a priest cannot marry…celibacy is a choice… Why has there been a debate about changing the Church law and allowing priests to marry. I have known 2 priests that had to leave the priesthood so they could marry. One of them was my math teacher in California…Father Fabian…Another was a friend of the family. They said that they where excommunicated from the church because of that, and that is what we were always taught. Excommunication in the church meant hell. However that is a church law and not in the word. I would like to thank you however because you accually tookk the time to dig in the Word and find some great scriptures. I really surprised me Randy. Before you have been very sarcastic, and I was in return. This was acctually nice. What it boils down to however is that God said yes and the church said no, or there would be married priests, at least 2 that I know of anyway. One other thing…Celibacy is a choice, not a gift.
I understand your position, Leslie. But please don’t throw away the silverware because aYou know, since I have been on this forum, I have been called a liar, confused, ignorant, and a few other things. I really don’t care what you think. The Bible IS my guide. Our pastors teach from the Word, and your right they CAN BE FALLIBLE, so I ALWAYS check with the Word (Bible). But let me tell you this. My husband was a pastor for 35 years, since he was 21. He not only taught others about Christ and the Word of God, he lived it. He NEVER took the easy way out and used old messages, he studied EVERYDAY. He prayed EVERYDAY. He did not smoke or drink, or use the Lords name. I have known MANY priests that do. If you want names , States, and the names of the Churches, I will be glad to tell you…no problem. My husband did not comdemn anyone for taking a glass of wine, because it says you can in scripture, but I have seen priests drunk…good example. TWO were at my cousins wedding. Now I realize ministers are guilty of the same thing, but don’t you think a “priest” should be above that. My husband NEVER condemned anyone. He preached the whole Word of God, that was his calling, and then turned it over to God. If you say one word about him it will prove what Pharisees you are. He didn’t just talk the talk, he walked the walk. So yes I did listen to my pastor, who was also my husband. But you know what…I check what he said to, and we discussed the Word daily. Do you believe if someone leaves the Catholic church they are going to hell…One answer…YES OR NO. This time ANSWER THE QUESTION.
Oh did you have an audiance with the Pope. I would think that would be rather hard to get. kudos to you. Did you go to Piazz San Pietro? Where were some of the places you went. I have family there. I do not speak Italian, but they are geat interpreters. How did you get to the Vatican City. what streets did you take? Did you take Via Gregoria V11?I have known that fact for a long long time, I think the last time I heard it was from the Pope.
It ‘sort of’ first appears in Acts, which may have been written around 64ad or later when a man was said to follow the way of the Lord.
Simultaneously to Acts, and at around the same date, by implication the Church, and its message is described by St. Peter in his Epistle as being catholic, universal, in nature.
St. Ignatius is known now as the first to have recorded the name ‘the Catholic Church’ in writting, around about 110ad; but of course St. Ignatius was describing the Church he already knew well; he was taught his faith by St. Polycarp and St. Polycarp in turn was a disciple of St. John the Apostle.
So you see, for myself at least, I am called Catholic because St. Peter was catholic and St. John was Catholic, St. Polycarp was Catholic, St. Ignatius was Catholic and so on…
Um…the last time I was in Rome was about the summer before last… I ran up and down the Cuppola on St. Peters a couple of times, I fed the fish in the park, I ate orange gelato on the funny bridge, and dodged the traffic going back for more…
Ciao
And as an “ex-catholic” were you taught to be so condemning and abrasive in yourDoctrinal and Theological differences are not the only reason to split. I know of many churches that rose up because the congregation got too large for a single church and so now there’s two – no difference in theology or doctrine.
I know that, if you read what I actually wrote instead of what you would have liked me to have written I was citing that as an example of why the documents you pull your numbers from are not valid documents.
I know that. You have convinced yourself that I know nothing of Catholicism. I am an ex-Catholic. I know a great deal about the Catholic faith. If you’re going to keep insisting that I know nothing of the Catholic faith then please quote one thing I have said about Catholic teaching in this thread that is wrong – QUOTES NOT PARAPHRASES!!!
So? Do you know what a red herring is? Do you have any idea how to have a logically cogent discussion with someone who disagrees with you without throwing up logical fallacy after logical fallacy?

Leslie: there are two sides to the Catholic Church. The Western Church and the Eastern Church. In the Eastern Catholic Church, a priest may chose to be married or celibate. Many of the Eastern Rite priests are married and just about as many are celibate. In the Western Church it is a matter of discipline, Priests all take a vow to obey the rule ofThank you, you proved my point. nowhere does it say a priest cannot marry…celibacy is a choice… Why has there been a debate about changing the Church law and allowing priests to marry. I have known 2 priests that had to leave the priesthood so they could marry. One of them was my math teacher in California…Father Fabian…Another was a friend of the family. They said that they where excommunicated from the church because of that, and that is what we were always taught. Excommunication in the church meant hell. However that is a church law and not in the word. I would like to thank you however because you accually tookk the time to dig in the Word and find some great scriptures. I really surprised me Randy. Before you have been very sarcastic, and I was in return. This was acctually nice. What it boils down to however is that God said yes and the church said no, or there would be married priests, at least 2 that I know of anyway. One other thing…Celibacy is a choice, not a gift.

yesnothardIDidNotNeedATicketyesTrasteverePalatineHillBigBathsAppianWayCatacombsSanCalistoChurchofSaint*ParksForumSenateLaternBasilicaVaticanCryptsVaticanSecretArchivesStadioOlimpicoMuseumsPalacesDTheatreAndManyMoreIWalkedToVaticanCityEverystreetIDoNotRecallIYesCookAllMyOwnFoodIFedTheFishNearTheVialeMarzoFestaDellaDonnaBesideTheVillaDoriaPamphiliTheBridgeOnTheViaSanPioXPiazza Pio X1DoNotRecallITookAnAppartmentIWasTaughtNotToTalkToStrangers*Oh did you have an audiance with the Pope. * I would think that would be rather hard to get. Did you go to Piazz San Pietro? Where were some of the places you went. How did you get to the Vatican City. what streets did you take? Did you take Via Gregoria V11?Did you see the musei Vatecani, . Did you eat there or did you pack your lunck. Where did you feed the fish…what bridge are you talking about. Did you see Piazza Pio X11? . Where did you stay…hotel, B&B, someones home…thats kind of fun, but hard to do unless you know someone. Lets talk
Thank you for your kindnness and caring comments.I understand your position, Leslie. But please don’t throw away the silverware because a
couple of pieces are tarnished. In this case you are profiling. I and many other do not
do this. we take each individual at face and do not judge the whole by that individual
( unless of they are cultists ). So please re-think your comments. In answer to your
question, the answer is no, and the Church teaches this. Anyone who says otherwise does not know what they are talking about. God Bless.
Oh at first I thought you went on a tour. You took and apartment. How nice. How long did you live there. TRalking to strangers is he funn of Italy. you just have to use wisdom.yesnothardIDidNotNeedATicketyesTrasteverePalatineHillBigBathsAppianWayCatacombsSanCalistoChurchofSaint*ParksForumSenateLaternBasilicaVaticanCryptsVaticanSecretArchivesStadioOlimpicoMuseumsPalacesDTheatreAndManyMoreIWalkedToVaticanCityEverystreetIDoNotRecallIYesCookAllMyOwnFoodIFedTheFishNearTheVialeMarzoFestaDellaDonnaBesideTheVillaDoriaPamphiliTheBridgeOnTheViaSanPioXPiazza Pio X1DoNotRecallITookAnAppartmentIWasTaughtNotToTalkToStrangers
]I’d rather live in the fullness of the Eucharist, being able to reconcile myself to Him…than to be saved through a religion founded by Man.
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