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Thanks Ed, pretty much what I figured but the details were an interesting read.
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Bill
Thanks Ed, pretty much what I figured but the details were an interesting read.
Wow, that’s some pretty grisly stuff. None of the gays I know were abused and all had strong father figures present.I have a couple of homosexual friends. One of them has stated that he believes that he is homosexual because when he was a boy his mother ‘sold him’ to a man so the man could essentially rape him. This happened in a 3rd world country where I think such things are not as uncommon as they are in the USA.
In my experience in life and studying psychology which has been a passion of mine for the past 25+ years I have found that at least in a large minority of the small sample size of homosexual people who I have known have the common thread in their life of growing up in a household dominated by a female with other females being around a lot and making up the social mileau of the home. Such as the mother and all of the boys several aunt’s being present in the home a lot socializing without a strong male presence.
It has left me to wonder if ‘effeminate’ behavior was somehow encouraged in the male child, in addition to there not being a strong male figure in the house (there frequently was a male figure/father who was distant from the male child). Does this contribute towards a male growing up to be homosexual? I don’t know.
I have also become aware of males who engage in homosexual behavior both as bi-sexual and as self identified homosexual who have been raped by males. One man was very masculine, he came from a family of many boys who were known as the toughest in the town, fighters who were all bullies. I met the wife of one of these boys when we were adults and she told me she found him engaging in sex with a male prostitute in thier bed. If I had not hear this from her, and heard it as a rumor, I would have found it extremely unlikely to believe based on the way the boys behaved in high school, etc. But she told me that rapes by uncles and I think also the older siblings to the younger siblings was a part of their upbringing.
What to make of this, I don’t know. I do think that the APA removed homosexuality from their DSM (book that lists all psychiatric diagnosis, and the criteria used to make the diagnosis) under social pressure and not purely because they discovered new information that was not available prior to the removal of it as a psychiatric disorder. I am fairly confident it was removed because of social/political reasons/pressure and not because of pure scientific knowledge.
The APA fed academia … that produces psychologists who, if they wish to make a living in the discipline, would have to deal with APA for licensing and compliance with guidelines.I hope this helps.
psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/facts_mental_health.html
Note that it actually talks about the studies it sites.
Here’s the issue. The gay (LGBT) community appears to be campaigning against those who no longer wish to act out their sexual orientation. See here:I don’t think you can actually change your sexual orientation. I think you can likely diminish your sexual desires but you will never be able to fully void yourself of sexual thoughts.
Narth do sometimes seem a little dodgy. Some of their studies look a little propagandistic.Here’s the issue. The gay (LGBT) community appears to be campaigning against those who no longer wish to act out their sexual orientation. See here:
pfox.org/about_us.html
Scroll down to the blue heading that reads, in part: “Do gay activists oppose…” It appears only links two and three are working.
I hope the following article further clarifies the gay to ex-gay process:
narth.com/docs/opp.html
No one wants to force any gay (LGBT) people into therapy. This group exemplifies the fact that there are people who find their sexual orientation to be unwanted, and expect the psychiatric community to treat them. A careful reading of the material about this subject shows that an unwanted or troubling psychological state should be treated if the patient desires treatment.I don’t know. I personally know quite a few homosexuals, and none of them seem to suffer from depression or any psychological issues. Of course, if you want to force them into therapy or prevent them from engaging in the relationships they want, then fine. I don’t agree, though.
I’d agree.No one wants to force any gay (LGBT) people into therapy. This group exemplifies the fact that there are people who find their sexual orientation to be unwanted, and expect the psychiatric community to treat them. A careful reading of the material about this subject shows that an unwanted or troubling psychological state should be treated if the patient desires treatment.
pfox.org/about_us.html
Goodness, who’s proposing “forced therapy” or “preventing relationships?” Maybe them Westboro folks, but nobody on this thread. What people here object to is the attempts to de-accredit therapists who offer to help patients explore the roots of their same sex attractions. Who’s “forcing” who?I don’t know. I personally know quite a few homosexuals, and none of them seem to suffer from depression or any psychological issues. Of course, if you want to force them into therapy or prevent them from engaging in the relationships they want, then fine. I don’t agree, though.
Untrue. They caved under pressure.In the case of the APA, there was no compelling evidence to show that it was a medical disorder.
And again I ask: what about all the other organisations in the US who do not class it as a disorder. What about all the organisations in all civilised countries that do not class it as a disorder?Untrue. They caved under pressure.
Lol are you that naive of how academics works? 97% of people are followers. One guy comes up with a discovery and everyone jumps clambers to jump on board. You can actually see this in the polling of homosexuals and members of the APA as time has progressed. Homosexuals in 1980 and before overwhelming believed that being homosexual was either a choice or the cause of some life experience as opposed to “born this way”. After the APA and a few years of militant LGB propagandist’s going around it starts to swing to where an overwhelming number of people that are homosexual may say they are born that way.And again I ask: what about all the other organisations in the US who do not class it as a disorder. What about all the organisations in all civilised countries that do not class it as a disorder?
Did they all ‘cave in’? The idea is preposterous.
Well they can’t “give it a go” with any licensed mental health professionals I know of thank God.I’d agree.If it bothers them, they can give it a go. But it’s wrong to suggest that all homosexuals are troubled by their homosexuality.
So to confirm what you are suggesting: APA said homosexuality is not a disorder and every single other organisation in the US thought they’d ‘clamber aboard’. And then every organisation in every civilised country also thought they’d ‘clamber on board’ (incidentally, I’m assuming you’ve checked the time lines for this).Point being people flock to whatever the idea of the day is. Add some militant propagandist’s with an agenda and you can really make some headway.
I don’t believe it’s effective, namely because most of the “ex-gay therapy” I’ve read about seems to be very religious and seems to include lots of praying. I don’t know about you, but I don’t believe prayer is an effective method of, well, anything.Well they can’t “give it a go” with any licensed mental health professionals I know of thank God.
I, as a licensed clinical social worker, would report any clinician I knew of who stated they were using reparative therapy with a client.
I know this is a late reply, but I stated above that I’m fine with people going for their therapy if they want it. But I don’t believe it works that well.Goodness, who’s proposing “forced therapy” or “preventing relationships?” Maybe them Westboro folks, but nobody on this thread. What people here object to is the attempts to de-accredit therapists who offer to help patients explore the roots of their same sex attractions. Who’s “forcing” who?
I didn’t say that. I said not all gays do. I know some that are happy and healthy. It’s just a simple truth that not all of them are suffering from terrible depression or having suicidal thoughts. Some are fine with their homosexuality. Some aren’t, and they’re welcome to do something about that if they so wish.Maybe you’re right that gay people don’t suffer any ill effects of acting on their inclinations. If so, then nobody has anything to fear from objectively collecting data and studying it, right?
Yeah, but celibacy can be a burden, so I guess some people feel that they want to get rid of homosexual desires to live whatever life they want to live. Generally I don’t have a problem with it if the person involved is fine with it themselves. Not that I think it works that well.are we speaking of changing or of making better choices? Anyone can choose to DO any type of behavior - or not. What is key is acknowledging that we all choose our behavior.