APA false teaching..Homosexuals can change

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Maybe because they have actually lived the life of a gay person and they know darn well they were never in a position to choose which gender they found attractive? Or maybe because they were always straight and never had a choice in that either?

That’s the only evidence I have, my own life. I never chose my attraction, only my response to it. I’ve said for years that while I believe in a God who CAN change someone’s orientation I have not seen any evidence in myself or anyone else I know personally that He has chosen to do so. I’ve never met anyone who was gay and is now straight or anyone who was straight and is now gay.

Behavior of course, is another story.
 
Is it just the APA that decided it wasn’t a disorder? I thought it was all the other organisations in the US with any expertise in the matter as well. Those gays must certainly be persuasive to convince all of them.

And after they finished in the US, they must have gone to the UK to persuade all their organisations as well. And still not content, they did Australia too. Then other countries in Europe which would include…well, it’ll be quicker to say all of them, actually. No need to list all the organisations in all the countries, is there? That would be silly.

But let’s face it. They couldn’t get everywhere and there are some reputable organisations in some respectable countries where those pesky homosexuals haven’t been able to pull the wool over the eyes of the experts. I’ve got a list here:

The Iranian Psychological Association, the Algerian Psychiatric Society, the Libyan Association of Psychological Health, the Zimbabwe Psychological Association, the Zambian Psychological Association, the Botswana Association for Psychological rehabilitation, the Kuwaiti Psychiatric Society, the Saudi Educational and Psychological Association. The Department of Psychiatry, Burma.

There’s a few more as well. If you need a larger list to help prove some sort of point, I’ll let you have them.
Interest groups often have influence on the direction of research and/or conclusions of professionals in the sciences. Although, some would argue psychology should not be regarded as a science.

From my perspective the physical, deterministic, sciences of physics and chemistry are more exacting sciences than biology. Particularly because biology only studies life on earth and has few true laws except for those that tend to come from physics and chemistry. I would say biology is more a science than psychology.

There has been controversy over hebephilia. And even the B4U-ACT has worked with researchers from some of the most prestigious universities in the United States.

1. karenfranklin.com/resources/hebephilia-2/

2. b4uact.org/

Frankly, I agree with those many professionals that object to hebephilia being listed as a mental disorder. Maybe it ought remain criminal, especially if the minor is 13 or 11 years old, but I don’t regard it as a psychological problem per se.

The B4U-ACT I think I have a problem with if in fact they want to normalize pedophilia as opposed to just reduce the stigma to the point more pedophiles are encouraged by society to seek out treatment (rather than remain in the closet) before they molest a child.

One thing for sure is… I don’t advocate criminal punishment for teenage or adult homosexuals abiding by age consent laws. I also don’t think homosexuals should be discriminated against in the workplace or school or ostracized or harassed in the community. Live and let live especially among consenting adults. Let each person find his or her own path and answer to God for it. We let people drink alcohol to intoxication and smoke cigarettes or overeat and become obese with diabetes. Lots of ways to sin.
 
This is what I’m wondering, and it’s different than the APA and classification or removal of such as a psychiatric disorder:

Why do all gay advocate groups insist that people are ALWAYS BORN homosexual?

What I mean is, that if being homosexual is good and normal, etc… why would groups that speak for them be so adamant in insisting that they are all ‘born’ that way?

If it’s good and normal, wouldn’t it be more natural to say: hey, maybe some are born that way, maybe some are conditioned to be that way based on their enviornmental circumstances growing up, maybe some choose to be that way, maybe some have a combo of one or more of the aforementioned as leading them to be homosexual?

Why such a strong insistance they are all born that way? If it’s nothing to be ashamed of. If there is nothing wrong with it? If there may be advantages to being homosexual…wouldn’t it make more sense for people to say “It doesn’t make a difference why homosexuals are homosexuals!” They are simply homosexual and that’s the end of the story, live with it!

It seems to me that it’s an agenda to say they are born that way, although it makes no sense to me why such an agenda exists. It especially seems to me to be an agenda because there seems to be NO disention in the ranks. In lots of other area’s of life there is disagreement why poeple are such and such way, etc… but not with homosuality…they all MUST HAVE been born that way. ALL OF THEM! And that is the only agenda that I hear.

Am I incorrect? Are there gay advocacy groups that state they are not sure if all are born that way, or state it doesn’t matter, or that it may be a combo of things? Any?
The prestige of physics - a deterministic science - during the first half of the 20th century had a lot of influence on applying the deterministic nature of physics to the science of biology.

Most biologist today reject biological determinism and regard complex biological organism as more complicated than that. But the general public still has a view of biology that is 1940ish or so. Add to this the idea today that genes are analogous to computer chips that make you think or do X, Y, Z.

But neuroscience has picked up the torch in the life sciences for determinism - or that is to say the conception of… “He is just born that way.”

If determinism is true the benefits are that we can make reasonable predictions about people. Possibly from birth. This does not just apply to homosexuality but intelligence and criminality.

So, I’m proud to say UW-Madison is offering one of the few unique dual degrees in the United States or world for that matter. A dual degree in law (J.D.) and neuroscience (Ph.D.)

UW-Madison wants to produce attorneys that are scientist and better capable of joining in the discourse and shaping of not only the court rooms during criminal proceedings but in shaping public policy.

news.wisc.edu/19481
The University of Wisconsin-Madison has established an integrated dual-degree program in neuroscience and law that offers students the opportunity to earn a Ph.D. in neuroscience and a J.D. in law.
It plans to enroll its first class in fall 2012.
“The Program in Neuroscience and Law will train neuroscientists who also are competent in the law and prepare them to address the many important legal, scientific and public policy issues at the intersection of neuroscience and law,” says Ronald Kalil, director of the UW-Madison Neuroscience and Public Policy Program, which will administer the new dual-degree option.
Even as recent advances in neuroscience call into question many assumptions underlying aspects of the legal system, such as the importance of personal responsibility, courts are grappling with how to handle new kinds of evidence.
“Despite national and international interest in the junction of neuroscience and law, there have been very few opportunities in the country to date to educate students in both fields,” he says. “UW-Madison’s formal program in neuroscience and law will help to remedy this shortcoming.”
The Neuroscience and Public Policy Program also offers tracks in neuroscience and domestic or international public affairs.
 
This is what I’m wondering, and it’s different than the APA and classification or removal of such as a psychiatric disorder:

Why do all gay advocate groups insist that people are ALWAYS BORN homosexual?

What I mean is, that if being homosexual is good and normal, etc… why would groups that speak for them be so adamant in insisting that they are all ‘born’ that way?

If it’s good and normal, wouldn’t it be more natural to say: hey, maybe some are born that way, maybe some are conditioned to be that way based on their enviornmental circumstances growing up, maybe some choose to be that way, maybe some have a combo of one or more of the aforementioned as leading them to be homosexual?

**Why such a strong insistance they are all born that way? If it’s nothing to be ashamed of. If there is nothing wrong with it? If there may be advantages to being homosexual…wouldn’t it make more sense for people to say “It doesn’t make a difference why homosexuals are homosexuals!” They are simply homosexual and that’s the end of the story, live with it!
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It seems to me that it’s an agenda to say they are born that way, although it makes no sense to me why such an agenda exists. It especially seems to me to be an agenda because there seems to be NO disention in the ranks. In lots of other area’s of life there is disagreement why poeple are such and such way, etc… but not with homosuality…they all MUST HAVE been born that way. ALL OF THEM! And that is the only agenda that I hear.

Am I incorrect? Are there gay advocacy groups that state they are not sure if all are born that way, or state it doesn’t matter, or that it may be a combo of things? Any?
Some people like our dear friend Doctor CopticChristian insist that they can all change. And some people insist that is evil and sick or that it is caused by demonic possession. I’ve never seen someone say that it can be caused by something that isn’t negative, common things I see listed are molestation and lack of a father figure or that they clung to their mother too much (which is so Freudian).
 
Interest groups often have influence on the direction of research and/or conclusions of professionals in the sciences.
My question remains unanswered.

If you believe that all the organisations in all civilised countries have been influenced by interest groups, are the ones in places like Iraq, Uganda, Sierra Leone and others in similar ‘enlightened’ countries the only ones that come out do this looking good?

Should they be commendednforstanding up to ‘interest groups’?
 
Some people like our dear friend Doctor CopticChristian insist that they can all change. And some people insist that is evil and sick or that it is caused by demonic possession. I’ve never seen someone say that it can be caused by something that isn’t negative, common things I see listed are molestation and lack of a father figure or that they clung to their mother too much (which is so Freudian).
There has to be a reason, and that reason has to be negative because otherwise one of your OWN children could be gay!!! :eek:

Gay people have to be mentally ill, or there has to have been some preventable reason for it. Otherwise nobody is safe!!!
 
My question remains unanswered.

If you believe that all the organisations in all civilised countries have been influenced by interest groups, are the ones in places like Iraq, Uganda, Sierra Leone and others in similar ‘enlightened’ countries the only ones that come out do this looking good?

Should they be commendednforstanding up to ‘interest groups’?
You must be from the U.K. with the use of your s’s?

Your question judging by it’s diction already is culturally biased and loaded with presumptions. Which is interesting giving the social science of sociology, very much dominated by political and social liberals, demands no others culture is necessarily bad but just different. And I must admit sometimes there might be some truth in that and other times there is not.

Anyways, the countries you listed have their problems, Iraq in particular has been really impacted by a scale of invasion and death of it’s men old and young that I doubt the “civilized” nations of the United States or the United Kingdom could have recovered from.

I served over in Desert Storm for the winning side. One of the most lopsided wars in history it was really less a war for us than it was for them. Given our technological superiority on land, sea, and air we essentially obliterated those people. Then the Iraqi War came years later and again The U.S. and it’s allies brought major destruction to that nation. So, it’s understandable some disorder would occur in its aftermath. The enormous casualties during the U.S. Civil War brought a social cost to many communities across the South as well. Hunger and crime.

Contemporary United States is not entirely “civilized” to many of the black Africans, East Indians, and others that relocate to the United States to begin their lives. There is a major gap between the black Africans and the ethnic Black-Americans (I belong ethnically to the latter). They view us as a violent, lazy, people from homes with broken families and little “values.” I could post an article from the Milwaukee newspaper where one of the black Africans complains that a recent murder of a black African (for $11) by a Black-American only adds tension between the two groups. The Africans believe in marriage, taking care of their kids, and education.

I say all this with scars on my body from three .40 caliber bullet wounds shot into me by a Milwaukee cop. By law enforcements own statistics over 90% of the time one shot from a .40 caliber round anywhere on the body drops a suspect within a few seconds. Ironically, the cop was charitable in his tactical pistol craft, because they are trained to put not just three to the body but two to the head when a suspect is only so many feet from you.

So, I don’t know.

What I do know is that the Catholic nations of Latin America - influenced by the Vatican - opposed the eugenics program of forced sterilization of women in the developed nations of the U.S. and Europe during the first half of the 20th century. In the United States some Southern states were still court ordering sterilization of women into the 1970’s. Then as now the leftist intellectuals smugly regarded themselves as the progressives in the world compared to the stupid Catholics.

What I think is poor nations like the ones you mentioned resist certain changes - for good or ill. And not because they are intellectuals but usually because they are not. Again, for good or ill. They often have hundreds or thousands of years tradition they draw from. Usually stronger roles for the family.

I don’t suspect the movie Gattaca will become reality in developing nations in Africa, Latin America, or the Middle East. In fact, it’s my opinion that it will be the Muslims of the East, Africans, and atheist humanists outside the sciences that will form alliances with the Pope and Holy See to resist the coming biological/genetic determinism that will sweep across the U.S. and Europe and draw support from most lay Catholics.

And I’m not saying those nations you mentioned do not have their barbaric - or uncivilized - aspects to their cultures. They do. But even Satan can have a Ph.D. and dress in a suit and charm women while a homeless bum still has his character defects and sins. It’s not like I have to praise the bum. But at least the bum is not Satan.

In other words… just because I recognize and acknowledge interest groups often infiltrate and influence academia, research, and conclusions (often inferred from statistics) does not mean I have to praise Iraq, Uganda, or Sierra Leone.
 
There has to be a reason, and that reason has to be negative because otherwise one of your OWN children could be gay!!! :eek:

Gay people have to be mentally ill, or there has to have been some preventable reason for it. Otherwise nobody is safe!!!
Well… there does have to be an explanation in the sciences. And that is what the sciences do: seek to explain things of the natural and physical world.

Homosexuality is controversial in the science of biology because the theory of evolution underpins everything. Currently, only hypotheses (conjectures) exist to explain it. For lesbians the science of biology (which views everything from pedophilia, rape, killing, to promiscuity as amoral issues) hypothesizes that rape can explain why genes for this trait would remained passed on in society.

For male homosexuality the problem is more perplexing. Add to that males statistically have sex with other males at a far higher rate than females do with females (which contradicts common perception), and the question remains, in light of the principle of fitness*, why genes for gay males spread so much more than lesbianism.

Intelligent design does not exist within the theory of evolution. The processes are not guided by an invisible intelligence directing mankind and life to a specific direction or protecting it from extermination. Rather, the process are said to be algorithmic. However, there is some choice and intelligence involved in selection at the level of the agent or individual as it concerns sexual selection.

**Biology views everything as amoral issues within it’s own inquiry. So, a promiscuous male that sires many children without ever taking care of a single offspring or the females he impregnated is said to be more fit than a male that has no offspring.

In other words… “dead beat dads” and “homosexuals” are equivalently amoral in biology, with the dead beat dad being more fit than the homosexual that produces no offspring. But like I said so is killing (predator vs prey) and rape.

Fitness can also refer to the statistical frequency of a trait.
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Each one of us in control of our own sexuality. We, and only we, decide when to act on it, gay or straight. For heterosexuals, chastity is possible, but today, I think, the media is sending the message that anything goes and it’s OK. Homosexuals can also control their own sexuality, and change. Even though the media is trying to normalize gay sexual behavior as OK.

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Peace,
Ed
Amen. Without personal effort and struggle, no positive change occurs, whether it’s weight loss, smoking cessation or halting depraved sexual activity.
 
APA believes that children are sexual beings. I say that children are spiritual beings. APA is notorious for maintaining the status quo in social politics.
 
There has to be a reason, and that reason has to be negative because otherwise one of your OWN children could be gay!!! :eek:

Gay people have to be mentally ill, or there has to have been some preventable reason for it. Otherwise nobody is safe!!!
Wha-… What?! Please elaborate.

Okay, so you’re claiming that it must be a negative reason because otherwise the poster you’re replying to could have homosexual children? Surely he could still have homosexual children if it was a negative reason? I don’t understand what you’re saying. At all.

You’re also arguing that homosexuals must be mentally ill, or otherwise there would be a preventable reason for it. Eh, well, there are generally preventable reasons for mental illnesses, too. I don’t understand… :confused:
 
Wha-… What?! Please elaborate.

Okay, so you’re claiming that it must be a negative reason because otherwise the poster you’re replying to could have homosexual children? Surely he could still have homosexual children if it was a negative reason? I don’t understand what you’re saying. At all.

You’re also arguing that homosexuals must be mentally ill, or otherwise there would be a preventable reason for it. Eh, well, there are generally preventable reasons for mental illnesses, too. I don’t understand… :confused:
He is expressing frustration at the fact that many people act as if homosexuality must be caused by something after birth and that it must be negative. Oh and FYI he’s attracted tot the same sex.
 
He is expressing frustration at the fact that many people act as if homosexuality must be caused by something after birth and that it must be negative. Oh and FYI he’s attracted tot the same sex.
Oh, right, it was sarcasm. I don’t mean this to be offensive, but sometimes it’s hard to distinguish between actual beliefs of fundamentalist religious folk and parodies of it. Google Poe’s Law. 😃
 
Maybe because they have actually lived the life of a gay person and they know darn well they were never in a position to choose which gender they found attractive? Or maybe because they were always straight and never had a choice in that either?

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I can understand that on an individual level. But there seems to be an organized, concerted effort to put forth this as absoute fact.

And when dealing with the unconscious, well, one can not readily know their unconscious.

And if being gay is so great, what difference does it make what way someone wound up that way? If it were so great, why not seek to actively recruit, consider it’s possible to change to being gay, and advocate for that?

Why not be open to the idea, the possibility, that enviornmental influences may contribute in part, or in whole to a person being gay. And if being gay is good, why the concerted effort to push back looking to this as a possibility? Why the need to always assert that it is always genetic.

As to your point, how can a person know with certaintly what their orientation sexually was at the age of 1, 2, or 3 years old? I find that implausible. So for everyone to assert that it’s that they are all born that way I find curious. It seems that they have an agenda that is more than simply discovering and understanding the truth, it seems to me there is an agenda to push the notion and have everyone believe that anyone and everyone who is gay was born that way.

Did I know I was straight at ages 1-4, heck no. Did you know your orientation sexually at that age? Wouldn’t it make more sense, if they care to understand what makes a person gay, to actually investigate it with the scientific method, as exactly as they could using that method, and accepting whatever answers come? If it’s good and fine to be gay, why not know the truth? Why push an agenda? I find that curious and suspicious.
 
I can understand that on an individual level. But there seems to be an organized, concerted effort to put forth this as absoute fact.

And when dealing with the unconscious, well, one can not readily know their unconscious.

And if being gay is so great, what difference does it make what way someone wound up that way? If it were so great, why not seek to actively recruit, consider it’s possible to change to being gay, and advocate for that?

Why not be open to the idea, the possibility, that enviornmental influences may contribute in part, or in whole to a person being gay. And if being gay is good, why the concerted effort to push back looking to this as a possibility? Why the need to always assert that it is always genetic.

As to your point, how can a person know with certaintly what their orientation sexually was at the age of 1, 2, or 3 years old? I find that implausible. So for everyone to assert that it’s that they are all born that way I find curious. It seems that they have an agenda that is more than simply discovering and understanding the truth, it seems to me there is an agenda to push the notion and have everyone believe that anyone and everyone who is gay was born that way.

Did I know I was straight at ages 1-4, heck no. Did you know your orientation sexually at that age? Wouldn’t it make more sense, if they care to understand what makes a person gay, to actually investigate it with the scientific method, as exactly as they could using that method, and accepting whatever answers come? If it’s good and fine to be gay, why not know the truth? Why push an agenda? I find that curious and suspicious.
I knew it at 5 when I started school. I was different than the other kids even then, and by the time I was in 6th grade I knew why. I didn’t know there was a word for it, because I’m old and nobody talked about it back then, but I knew I didn’t have any interest in people of the opposite sex like my friends did.

I never received my copy of the agenda though. I assumed I’d get it with my Birkenstocks, love of Broadway musicals and flannel shirts, but it still hasn’t come. Perhaps someone here can provide me with their copy? All the straight people who don’t like us seem to have gotten them.

(and yes, that was sarcasm-it’s hard to convey it in writing. I’m originally from NJ and sarcasm is a birthright. :D)

As for it being “good and fine”, hardly. Would you enjoy going through life with people talking about you the way gay people get talked about? On this forum alone I’ve read often how disgusting we are, how deviant we are…and of course, how we are trying to take over the world.

I would simply like for us to stop being the person everyone points at when they need to feel less sinful. “See, See! Look at THOSE evil people over there!!! I’m not like them!!! I don’t do the evil things they do!!!”
 
Seeker, from your past posts it seems you are a practicig Catholic. You are not gay (unless you are living the lifestyle) regardless of your attraction. Why do you feel such a need to be defensive? You are not “one of those evil people over there.”
 
I knew it at 5 when I started school. I was different than the other kids even then, and by the time I was in 6th grade I knew why. I didn’t know there was a word for it, because I’m old and nobody talked about it back then, but I knew I didn’t have any interest in people of the opposite sex like my friends did.
You knew at 5 you were heterosexual? You were sexually aroused by cute little 5 year old girls that strolled by you when you were age 5? There is almost no sexual dimorphism between boys and girls so young. Forensic anthropologist can’t even distinguish dug up bones of murdered children that young if they are male or female. In fact, when I was more or less that age lots of women used to approach my mother and tell her, “Oh! what a pretty girl you have.” I had long curly hair (afro style) and very gracile features.

But assuming human sexuality is fixed and less fluid - through genotype - doesn’t it strike one as bizarre so many 13 and 16 year old boys found themselves seduced by Catholic priests? Remember… I was 13 and 16 once and remember the clearly homophobic beliefs and peer pressures of young boys.

I’m directing my point at the explicit and implicit notions and statements that if one is born heterosexual then one can not be talked into sex with a person of the opposite sex, and only sheer overwhelming physical force applied on them can compel them. Or that if one is homosexual then they can not be talked into sex with a person of the opposite sex, and only sheer overwhelming physical force applied on them can compel them.

That a lot of “out” homosexual children exhibit behavioral traits of the opposite gender (which is primarily social - feminist might argue wholly social and a product of a patriarchal society) would further suggest to me there are non-genetic psychological issues at play. I’ll admit that has nothing to do with masculine - or male gendered - homosexual boys.

(As an aside… female clothing dress found on or around human bones discovered in say, the woods, are not taken as certainty by death investigators or by forensic anthropologist that the remains are those of female. They could be those of a male dressed as a female.)
 
Seeker, from your past posts it seems you are a practicig Catholic. You are not gay (unless you are living the lifestyle) regardless of your attraction. Why do you feel such a need to be defensive? You are not “one of those evil people over there.”
He is gay and he is not sexually active. There is no “gay lifestyle”. He is getting defensive because many people hate everyone who is gay, it is not limited to opposition to homosexual acts.
 
Seeker, from your past posts it seems you are a practicig Catholic. You are not gay (unless you are living the lifestyle) regardless of your attraction. Why do you feel such a need to be defensive? You are not “one of those evil people over there.”
What? He may have a different definition of gay. If he believes homosexuality is a sexual orientation, then obviously it is only determined by who you’re attracted to, in which case he is homosexual. Of course, you can be a gay Catholic, because lots of people accept that homosexuality is an identity determined by your sexual attraction not by your behaviour. This is also the definition that makes the most sense.

Thing is, if you claim homosexuality is a mental illness or something then you’re also claiming that same-sex celibate Catholics are mentally ill.
 
He is gay and he is not sexually active. There is no “gay lifestyle”. He is getting defensive because many people hate everyone who is gay, it is not limited to opposition to homosexual acts.
I don’t hate anyone and in fact 2 of my closest friends are gay. I simply find it curious that there seems to be an agenda being pushed by gay advocacy groups and when I sense an agenda is being pushed, I get the sense that there is something behind the curtain. Maybe those pushing the agenda don’t even realize there is something behind the curtain, or realize there is but don’t know what it is. But it makes me suspicious when a particular agenda is ‘pushed’ rather than an open dialogue with all possible outcomes or many different one’s being equally plausible.

It’s like the government doing a study on marijuana. You know before the study even starts they have decided what the outsome of the study is going to be. That is deceptive and that is similar to what I feel goes on with putting forth that all gay people must have been born that way.

God Bless,
Bill
 
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