Archbishop of San Francisco warns of coming war on marriage

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I’m certainly no apologist either so you might be right about the CC recognizing a Catholic couple’s heterosexual civil marriage for purposes of such things as spousal benefits but not for homosexuals. But aren’t Baptized or confirmed Catholic homosexuals who live outside the Church’s teachings or for that matter even a heterosexual couple shacking up, in the same boat when it comes to the Church? Part of it, but disqualified from sacramental participation. It’s hard for me to fathom denying health care benefits to any people.
Dunno. We need an apologist or experienced Catholic hospital administrator to chime in. At some point, Catholic teaching should kick in I would think. Otherwise, what is to distinguish a Catholic institution from any other?
 
Dunno. We need an apologist or experienced Catholic hospital administrator to chime in. At some point, Catholic teaching should kick in I would think. Otherwise, what is to distinguish a Catholic institution from any other?
The solution is to simply allow each employee to simply designate a single person for spousal benefits.
 
Dunno. We need an apologist or experienced Catholic hospital administrator to chime in. At some point, Catholic teaching should kick in I would think. Otherwise, what is to distinguish a Catholic institution from any other?
Yes I guess so if Catholic teaching is more of a priority than healthcare benefits.
 
Yes I guess so if Catholic teaching is more of a priority than healthcare benefits.
Well, Jesus is a little more to me than Obamacare. I can say that much. Probably why I still practice the faith.
 
There’s a lot of things that sound good on the surface.

First of all, the prior post assumes that the lesbian “parents” would be good caretakers because all the focus is on the mentally-ill biological parent.

I ask this repeatedly—why do advocates for so-called gay “marriage”, parenting or whatever need to have a bad example of another style of relationship to justify their cause?

The fact is there is evidence suggesting that not having a father figure around is detrimental to children and the findings so far do anything but glorify same-sex parenting to the level that its advocates hope for.

Secondly, if one thinks lesbian “parenting” is okay, then one is by default downplaying the role of a male in the family structure.
It’s a simple psychological warfare technique. Both the mind and then the emotions or sympathies must be engaged. That’s “hearts and minds” warfare. Only the truth will set you free. Men have been given a ‘free pass’ as nothing but sex toys/sperm donors. The radical feminists can be “female chauvenist pigs” since men are no longer in charge in their lives.

Ed
 
That would be my question as well. What is behind the change in thinking?

Let’s say I am a nurse working at a Catholic hospital. Perhaps I am even Catholic myself. I get a divorce, do not qualify for an annulment from the Church, but remarry another man civilly. Now in the eyes of the Church, I am committing adultery, but no one seems to object to the hospital’s recognition of my new husband as my legal spouse, eligible for spousal coverage under the hospital’s health insurance plan. Why all of a sudden is it a problem when it is a civilly married same sex couple? In the eyes of the Church, these are both morally objectionable, so how is one a violation of religious freedom and the other not?
Same sex couples that marry are in direct violation of biology and faith. In your example, it is possible your situation could be normalized, just as an opposite sex couple living together without benefit of marriage.

Same sex couples do not have a ceremony, get a house and mind their own business. They sue bakeries and florists for refusing to provide things for their ceremony. LGBT groups make certain that gay storybooks that show gay marriage is normal are given to little kids in public schools. And without telling the parents.

abcnews.go.com/WNT/story?id=1230620

That’s called intrusion into minds not yet mature enough to understand the idea. People will resist force.

Ed
 
I’m certainly no apologist either so you might be right about the CC recognizing a Catholic couple’s heterosexual civil marriage for purposes of such things as spousal benefits but not for homosexuals. But aren’t Baptized or confirmed Catholic homosexuals who live outside the Church’s teachings or for that matter even a heterosexual couple shacking up, in the same boat when it comes to the Church? Part of it, but disqualified from sacramental participation. It’s hard for me to fathom denying health care benefits to any people. People get sick. Gay, straight. Married, singles or shacking up. Rich, poor, inbetween. Faithful Catholics and everyone else. Black, white, brown and so on. Liberals, conservatives & on and on. Needing various things prescribed for their health. Jesus didn’t put conditions on which sick to care for that I know of.
That’s why the Administration nationalized health care. If you don’t like it, the IRS has the right to make you pay a fine.

Ed
 
Same sex couples do not have a ceremony, get a house and mind their own business. They sue bakeries and florists for refusing to provide things for their ceremony. LGBT groups make certain that gay storybooks that show gay marriage is normal are given to little kids in public schools. And without telling the parents.
Probably most same-sex couples live very normal lives, buy a house with their partners or spouses and mind their own business. Some of them are getting married now that this is a possibility. I don’t personally know any gay people who have sued a bakery or a florist or are agitating to get gay storybooks into schools. Those people are the exception.
 
Probably most same-sex couples live very normal lives, buy a house with their partners or spouses and mind their own business. Some of them are getting married now that this is a possibility. I don’t personally know any gay people who have sued a bakery or a florist or are agitating to get gay storybooks into schools. Those people are the exception.
Yes. I don’t any gay couples who have sued a baker or florist, caused a ruckus about gay storybooks, or done anything else being suggested here. They really do get married, buy houses, and get on with living. Almost like they’re normal people.
 
Yes. I don’t any gay couples who have sued a baker or florist, caused a ruckus about gay storybooks, or done anything else being suggested here. They really do get married, buy houses, and get on with living. Almost like they’re normal people.
Well, I think at least they should be thanked for all of this legislation - straight up to the SCOTUS, stuff of history (I’ll opine no further on that.). Reminds me of my aunt who used to yell at me for dissing the feminists. Everything I have I owe to the feminists! What am I thinking?
 
Yes, but my question would be: What legal rights are divorced people lacking that necessitates lobbying power they don’t have? I don’t understand what she feels is being denied to divorced people that gay people somehow possess.
What ARE you talking about. The Secular Progressives got behind “gay rights” movement as just another way to tear down faith and family. Divorced people don’t have any particular agenda whereas gay rights activists do. Divorced Catholics are not suing the Church to receive the Eucharist before their annulments are granted. Gay rights advocates and gay individuals are and continue to agitate to attempt to force the Church to capitulate to their demands such as to recognize gay “marriage” or to continue with employment after breaching their contracts.

Gays and Lesbians have no legal right to force the Church to accept their demands but that doesn’t stop them from suing and costing the Church, or the school or other organization thousands in legal fees. This is quite similar to the ACLU and other pro atheists groups that spot a creche in some small town and then threaten to sue. The town capitulates because they do not have funds to incur the legal fees. So far the Church has not capitulated and I don’t think this will happen. But it is going to cost in time, funds, and negative publicity. .
 
Yes. I don’t any gay couples who have sued a baker or florist, caused a ruckus about gay storybooks, or done anything else being suggested here. They really do get married, buy houses, and get on with living. Almost like they’re normal people.
I don’t know any of the rioters in Ferguson but they caused a lot of trouble, damage and destruction. What does your personal knowledge of these folks have to do with the issue? If you haven’t heard of the multitude of cases I can send you links. As I said we had two businesses that were destroyed by gay agitators and lawsuits. This is evil.

I also know a lot of very nice gay and Lesbian people and none of those I know personally either engage in or even support this destructive behavior. But it doesn’t make it any less destructive. What is your point, that you must personally see this activity before you believe it happens?
 
I don’t know any of the rioters in Ferguson but they caused a lot of trouble, damage and destruction. What does your personal knowledge of these folks have to do with the issue? If you haven’t heard of the multitude of cases I can send you links. As I said we had two businesses that were destroyed by gay agitators and lawsuits. This is evil.

I also know a lot of very nice gay and Lesbian people and none of those I know personally either engage in or even support this destructive behavior. But it doesn’t make it any less destructive. What is your point, that you must personally see this activity before you believe it happens?
I’m familiar with the stories of those who have filed suit and I don’t support them. But I wouldn’t judge the people of Ferguson by the looters and I don’t judge gay people by those referenced in lawsuits. It doesn’t sound like you do either. 👍 My point is simply that generalizations about any group typically miss the mark. I will say (and I’m sorry to disagree with you, Lisa) that I don’t believe in a “gay agenda.” But I do acknowledge that there are those who are making life near impossible for others who disagree with them and that is unacceptable.
 
That would be my question as well. What is behind the change in thinking?

Let’s say I am a nurse working at a Catholic hospital. Perhaps I am even Catholic myself. I get a divorce, do not qualify for an annulment from the Church, but remarry another man civilly. Now in the eyes of the Church, I am committing adultery, but no one seems to object to the hospital’s recognition of my new husband as my legal spouse, eligible for spousal coverage under the hospital’s health insurance plan. Why all of a sudden is it a problem when it is a civilly married same sex couple? In the eyes of the Church, these are both morally objectionable, so how is one a violation of religious freedom and the other not?
This is a completely absurd analogy. Catholic hospitals are distinguished by certain parameters regarding what services they will provide and also a strong directive that any doctor who practices in the hospital WILL accept patients who cannot pay for their services. There is a special document called Directives for Catholic Hospitals. It demonstrates that it’s not just Catholic parishes that live the Catholic faith. So if you come into a Catholic hospital you’re going to see a Crucifix or two, maybe a statue of St Joseph or a Sister who either founded or was instrumental in the founding of the hospital. There are Catholic reminders everywhere.

As to practice, a Catholic hospital will not perform an abortion, will not provide a sterilization surgery either. Want a vasectomy or your tubes tied? Go to the Protestant or for profit hospital and they’ll take your money.

As to a Catholic hospital caring about an employee’s marital status :confused::confused: They aren’t in the business to perform weddings (although we always have a chapel). Further the majority of employees are not Catholic these days so it would be a violation of the employee’s religious freedom to force them to go to Mass for example, or insist on checking their bedrooms to see whether or not they are cohabitating. The only prohibition as I said was that any doctor or nurse cannot partake or perform an abortion or sterilization.

Your example doesn’t make much sense but maybe I’m missing something.
 
I’m familiar with the stories of those who have filed suit and I don’t support them. But I wouldn’t judge the people of Ferguson by the looters and I don’t judge gay people by those referenced in lawsuits. It doesn’t sound like you do either. 👍 My point is simply that generalizations about any group typically miss the mark. I will say (and I’m sorry to disagree with you, Lisa) that I don’t believe in a “gay agenda.” But I do acknowledge that there are those who are making life near impossible for others who disagree with them and that is unacceptable.
Gracepoole I am not JUDGING them or assuming all gay people are like them. What I am saying is that this activist cohort is as the OP noted, part of the war on Natural Marriage and is assulting our religious freedom, freedom of speech and freedom to be safe in our homes and our persons. To ignore them is to fiddle while Rome burns. They are “loud and proud” and cause a lot of trouble just like the atheists that are roaming the country worrying about Christmas trees and Charlie Brown pageants. This is an assult on our religious freedom and as one poster said, going all the way to the Supreme Court. I am not just blowing them off as a couple of troublemakers just as the Ferguson rioters caused hundreds of thousands of damage and the resulting protests spread all over the country…much to the detriment of local citizens and businesses. To ignore them because they are few in number or because you don’t know them is to ignore a concerted assault on our most treasured freedoms.
 
Gracepoole I am not JUDGING them or assuming all gay people are like them. What I am saying is that this activist cohort is as the OP noted, part of the war on Natural Marriage and is assulting our religious freedom, freedom of speech and freedom to be safe in our homes and our persons. To ignore them is to fiddle while Rome burns. They are “loud and proud” and cause a lot of trouble just like the atheists that are roaming the country worrying about Christmas trees and Charlie Brown pageants. This is an assult on our religious freedom and as one poster said, going all the way to the Supreme Court. I am not just blowing them off as a couple of troublemakers just as the Ferguson rioters caused hundreds of thousands of damage and the resulting protests spread all over the country…much to the detriment of local citizens and businesses. To ignore them because they are few in number or because you don’t know them is to ignore a concerted assault on our most treasured freedoms.
I’m not blowing them off or ignoring them, and I don’t believe you’re judging all gay people or assuming they’re all like those filing lawsuits. I agree that any instance in which people’s unique beliefs aren’t respected should be treated with the utmost seriousness. I was responding to this sort of claim:
Same sex couples do not have a ceremony, get a house and mind their own business. They sue bakeries and florists for refusing to provide things for their ceremony. LGBT groups make certain that gay storybooks that show gay marriage is normal are given to little kids in public schools. And without telling the parents.
You didn’t make that claim and I definitely wasn’t attempting to insinuate that you had. I was noting that this kind of generalization is inappropriate and unproductive. Again, it doesn’t sound like you and I disagree on this point.
 
This is an assult on our religious freedom and as one poster said, going all the way to the Supreme Court.
What’s wrong with going to the Supreme Court? If I was Edith Windsor, I would have gone to the Supreme Court, too, to overturn the Defense of Marriage Act. Even though she was legally married to her spouse Thea Spyer and had been with her since 1963, the Internal Revenue Service did not recognize their marriage and compelled Windsor to pay $363,053 in estate taxes when Spyer died. I wouldn’t consider Windsor to be some wild eyed activist.What happened to her was totally unfair and unjust and I’m glad she went to court.
 
Well, Jesus is a little more to me than Obamacare. I can say that much. Probably why I still practice the faith.
To me too. But speaking of, just saw today if we’re going to call the ACA, Obamacare, then lets call Social Security FDRCare and Medicare LBJCare. There was one for invading the wrong country too for Bush but all of that would be for another thread not about SSM.
 
That’s why the Administration nationalized health care. If you don’t like it, the IRS has the right to make you pay a fine.

Ed
Yes I know. But I’m fine with nationalized healthcare and healthcare benefits for SS couples and everyone getting health care. Wouldn’t have minded if it had gone much further actually. But lets get the thread back to the important topic of SSM.
 
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