so why did he bother to make that statement other than to just be divisive?
One possible explanation would be that he was ‘standing up’ for what to many is an ‘unwelcome’ truth. How often do we ourselves know the truth but hesitate to speak out lest we be seen as sanctimonous, self-righteous, unfeeling, unChristian, etc? And we are
not really in positions of authority.
A bishop–any bishop–
is in a position of authority and as such is entitled to speak out for the truth even when people ‘do not want to hear’.
Of course, they can and do err, as do we all, and sometimes there are very well intentioned bishops who are not so secure in the faith and who think that they can ‘catch more flies with honey than vinegar’. . .who ‘water down’ or ‘special circumstance’ or ‘indult’ just about any ‘irregularity’ because they think they’re being charitable. And that shows just where Satan is most successful in attacking a leader. Certainly charity and love is a virtue. But making that ‘charity and love’ so important that one compromises, waters down, or flat out rejects a truth in order to be ‘charitable and loving’ in essence elevates the **erroneous perception **of ‘charity and love’ thus inflated to gargantuan distortion
above truth, even above God.
How often have you heard people state, “If God demands this or that” (whether it’s obedience, humility, right to life, continence, etc.) “then He is a mean God” (because he’s denying me the ‘right’ to do what I want, to be proud, to contracept or have an abortion, to divorce and remarry etc.) “and I won’t have any part of that.” “Therefore, because I believe God isn’t mean, then I will go right ahead and do what I want because God isn’t mean and wants me to be happy and choose for myself and not be subject to petty rules by men who are themselves evil or sinners at best and just want to subjugate me”.
Sometimes we do need to hear (even if we can’t yet accept) the truth. God, and eternity, and truth, don’t adjust themselves to us, much as we might prefer it.
Sometimes, we need to adjust ourselves to God. . . and even ‘worse’, we need to adjust ourselves to legitimate authority, difficult as that is in this very me-oriented, ‘democratic’, egalitarian society. Most of us will say that “God is supreme” but fewer and fewer of us want to 'bend our wills" to a bishop who speaks the eternal and unchanging truth instead of the more flexible, contemporary, 21st century we’re-so-special warm-and-fuzzy ‘truthiness range for those who want it’.