i dont know, pray for me. i want to help people, but i would really, really, like to have a woman to share my life with. Women have been a big incentive in my lfe to remain chaste, because i have seen how people who look at porn and lust after every girl feel towards women, and really its a drug. When and if i have a wife, a want our marriage to last till death and our love to be true. i’m 14, and let me tell you, its not pretty. it starts very early and i ask you not to send your poor kids to an all boys or all girls school ( i feel sorry for them), but to explain to them the various sins against sex, and why it is so beautiful. eventually they will have to make their own choices, and it will happen fast, too. they will gain access to many new things, and if all you’ve ever done for them is set up an internet filter, i feel sorry for your family. we don’t have a family filter on our internet, we filter it with God. Sure, we all have weaknesses. but if you fight evil for your kids instead of helping them fight it, you could be making a big mistake. also, moms, please dont give kids an unecessary hard time with their girlfriends/ boyfriends. they already have enough pressure. i recomend to explain what needs to be explained, and respect their privacy. please dont think i am telling you how to raise your kids, think of it as my insight. i am young and have much to learn. sorry for the off topicness, but i just remembered this and its important.
Oh! and one more IMPORTANT thing! even if you’re married, God should come first. believe me, in my indirect family many marriages break down, and these couples don’t or didn’t exactly care too much for the sabbath. Your loved ones can be an obstacle in loving God, but God isn’t an obstacle in loving your loved ones.