Are you offended/disturbed by female clergy in Protestantism?

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Haha well I am a strange person. I admit it. 🙂

But what I mean is that I understand the Catholic theology of Holy Orders. I think it is a compelling and beautiful notion, and priestesses are logically and aesthetically incompatible with it. But what is beautiful is not necessarily true.
I disagree. Everything that is truly beautiful is a reflection and illustration of something which is true.
 
But the problem with you Roy is that you don’t converse.
Yes, I’ve noticed this, too.

Roy, is it possible that you are not comfortable using the QUOTE feature and that is the reason you do not actually participate in dialogue on the CAFs? If this is the reason, I suggest you visit this thread to learn how to converse here.

Otherwise, this manner of posting presents oneself as merely a pontificator who is unwilling to consider others’ points.

A few posters here greatly promote their tolerance of diverse theological viewpoints and “big tent” systemology; it would seem reasonable then that the majority of their posts ought to consist of, “Good point, Orthodox Catholic. I have never considered that before and will think about it and get back to you. Maybe I will change my position since my fundamental paradigm is that I am open to all viewpoints.”

However, peculiarly, the opposite seems to be the case in these types of posters. 🤷
 
I wasn’t sure where to put this topic but it seemed to fit here I guess.

Anyway, I was walking through the shopping mall recently and saw a woman wearing a Roman collar and walking with a Bible and I remembered that my local Anglican church has a female Vicar (think thats what they call her, maybe Reverend). I must admit, I was taken aback and felt… odd. It made me feel odd because, well, the Priesthood is what it is and a woman attempting to fill that role is unnatural. I don’t know if that makes sense.

This is besides those female clergy who are openly lesbian and have partners. I remember watching an American show with 2 female vicars who were married lesbians and one shot of them had them up on the altar with bread and wine and it gave me the chills.
I am not offended but I am often amazed. My family is nearly all Protestant, I have been shocked by many things I’ve seen in their various communions. When you boil it all down, and this sounds horribly unecumenical, but the whole basis of Protestantism is a “roll your own” religion. Probably a female in clerics clothing is one of the lesser innovations. You ever seen a confetti cannon? It’s a neat addition to the lazer light show at worship time. What’s a roman collar here or there among such innovations?
 
Actually you completely missed the point.

Your argument was that celibacy is the root of the abuse. I said you are wrong, because even in protestant denominations where marriage is allowed sexual abuse happens as well.

Or take for example the statistics. Most of the sexual abuse do not involve women but teenage boys. Are you advocating that to avoid the abuse of teenage boys we should allow homosexuality in clergy and that they should be allowed to marry teenage boys? Ooops, I forgot that some denominations have actually gone down that depraved path. :rolleyes:
I made no argument that celibacy is the root of the abuse. I simply pointed out that abuse is much less common among Protestant clergy. Why remains an open question. Sexual abuse does happen among Protestants but is much, much less common. And regarding ways to avoid abuse, don’t put words into my mouth. I said nothing about ways to avoid abuse. Believe me, the seminaries are exploring every option and have been doing so for some time. And most of the abuse also involved* pre-adolescent boys* in whom it did the most damage, not just adolescents,
 
Yes, I’ve noticed this, too.

Roy, is it possible that you are not comfortable using the QUOTE feature and that is the reason you do not actually participate in dialogue on the CAFs? If this is the reason, I suggest you visit this thread to learn how to converse here.

Otherwise, this manner of posting presents oneself as merely a pontificator who is unwilling to consider others’ points.

A few posters here greatly promote their tolerance of diverse theological viewpoints and “big tent” systemology; it would seem reasonable then that the majority of their posts ought to consist of, “Good point, Orthodox Catholic. I have never considered that before and will think about it and get back to you. Maybe I will change my position since my fundamental paradigm is that I am open to all viewpoints.”

However, peculiarly, the opposite seems to be the case in these types of posters. 🤷
Roy knows that there’s no ‘conversing’ with this crowd.
 
On another thread, 1234, you said that most Catholics aren’t faithful to the Church and are rogues who do what they want. You actually have no way of knowing that and yet here you tell this poster that he can’t possibly know the extent of biblical knowledge of the average Joe in the pews of the CC. True enough, but just as he doesn’t know the average biblical IQ of Catholic parishoners, you don’t know the piety and obedience levels of said parishoners either? :confused:

Bringing up the sex abuse scandal is pointless. It’s a painful, sad, depressing, and tragic blot on the history of this great Church. I’m ashamed and sickened by the clergy that did these things. The Church is full of fallible men. And these men were monsters. I personally think the cardinals, bishops, pastors, and even the last two popes did not do enough to prevent or stop this nightmare. I’m very disappointed at the payouts, the cover-ups, and the lies, and the emails that have come out. I’m disappointed at the slow pace with which it was dealt as well. It took the media and a lot of $$$ and angry folks to wake up the Vatican.

But this has nothing to do with this thread—female clergy. It only serves to hurt Catholics and deliver a low blow. We can’t control some of our sinful clergy anymore than you can yours in the Anglican realm, and yes there are molestors there as well, sadly. They are everywhere. Catholicism has been forced to take a hard look at this and make changes. And finally Benedict XVI is doing something about it and getting aggressive.

Pray for the Catholic Church and all churches that face these trying issues and pray that we can all not have such child predators. But reminding Catholics about it constantly and using it as a tactic to de-legitimize the Church isn’t beneficial IMO.
My reference to abuse was in the context of the excuse, “Protestants, and public officials do it too” , a ‘defense’ that even the dioceses don’t use (ref to notable statement by Milwaukee archbishop recently).

Of course, not all Catholics are ‘rogues’–your word, not mine. There are just an awful lot of dissidents, marginal observers and marginal supporters among them. Evidence? The CARA stats re active participation. About 22% go to mass every week, in a church which* requires it.* Contraception is a sin, a mortal sin (unconfessed, you go to hell), but the Catholic birth stats do not significantly differ from the contraceptors. The financial support of the RCC. Compare them with, say, the tithing Southern Baptists, with huge churches and olympic-size facilities on every corner. Ditto the megachurches, pentecostals and Assembly of God folks. Big bankrolls from people that don’t necessarily have a lot of money.

Re the Biblical-knowledge thing, the poster alleged that Protestant converts converted after they studied the Bible and that typically converts are well-versed in Biblical studies, which led them to the RCC. I am sure that there are examples of this. But I doubt that it is generalized. First of all, it is my observation that no one knows the Bible like the evangelical Protestants–who stay what they are. Second, It is not in the tradition of the RCC to push scriptural knowledge. The RCC fought translation into the vernacular for centuries, burning Tynedale along the way, and has never encouraged “Bible class”. In my day it was also about “authority” and the “oral tradition”, rather than the literal Word of God. (As an aside, this has worked to the advantage of the RCC regarding evolution.) For every Protestant New Testament scholar who converts, there are hundreds who stay at home, and an occasional who becomes an atheist.

As another aside, I realize that you, in your many posts, have revealed that you, tho’ a faithful converted Catholic, remain conflicted. I made a remark earlier that I feel that one might, as a Christian, choose that form of observance most likely to foster his (her) prayer life, happiness, and relationship with Christ.
 
Every church has its posers and nominals. Catholicism is such a mammoth-sized religion that in the mix there are bound to be large numbers of people who don’t follow the faith. We’ve seen such numbers from Protestant large denominations as well. Mormons have a small amount of actual active parishoners who attend their worship each week and who play a role in their community. I do agree with your “well other churches do it (molest) too!” frustration. It’s a weak argument indeed. When I was a kid, I would do something wrong and when my dad or mom jumped on me for it, I’d try the “hey, but Steve and Rich did it, too!” and that didn’t fly. “I don’t care about Steve and Rich, I’m concerned with you, buddy!” that was the reply. And it applies to religion also. Pointing out other people’s stumblings and bumblings doesn’t excuse our own failures. You’re right on that one. And I for one am actually GLAD that the news media and lawyers and everyone jumped on the Church to kick 'em in the head and wake 'em up! This stuff was and is revolting and needs to stop, period.

I won’t lie to you. You’re right. I remain conflicted in many ways. At this point I’m choosing to just trust in Mother Church and realize, like I did as a small child, that perhaps my parents know better than I do. We’ll see. Only time will tell. I’m asking the Holy Spirit to guide me and it takes a lot out of me.

There are Catholics who are very adept at Scripture, some who don’t know it from Adam. I always thought Protestants were Bible scholars all. When I went Anglican I found that I, at that time a “former” Catholic, knew Scripture 50 times better than every single parishoner there. My rector enjoyed talking to me because I was the only parishoner out of hundreds that knew Scripture, the Fathers, traditions, and theology. If you could see what these folks DIDN’T know at bible studies?! :eek: Oh man…All churches have a mix I’d say. But I do think God is bringing evangelicals into the Catholic Church to bring an even deeper knowledge and insight to the Church just as He brough pagans like Augustine into the faith to use new and fresh thinking and awareness to enrich the Church at a crucial time.

God bless.
My reference to abuse was in the context of the excuse, “Protestants, and public officials do it too” , a ‘defense’ that even the dioceses don’t use (ref to notable statement by Milwaukee archbishop recently).

Of course, not all Catholics are ‘rogues’–your word, not mine. There are just an awful lot of dissidents, marginal observers and marginal supporters among them. Evidence? The CARA stats re active participation. About 22% go to mass every week, in a church which* requires it.* Contraception is a sin, a mortal sin (unconfessed, you go to hell), but the Catholic birth stats do not significantly differ from the contraceptors. The financial support of the RCC. Compare them with, say, the tithing Southern Baptists, with huge churches and olympic-size facilities on every corner. Ditto the megachurches, pentecostals and Assembly of God folks. Big bankrolls from people that don’t necessarily have a lot of money.

Re the Biblical-knowledge thing, the poster alleged that Protestant converts converted after they studied the Bible and that typically converts are well-versed in Biblical studies, which led them to the RCC. I am sure that there are examples of this. But I doubt that it is generalized. First of all, it is my observation that no one knows the Bible like the evangelical Protestants–who stay what they are. Second, It is not in the tradition of the RCC to push scriptural knowledge. The RCC fought translation into the vernacular for centuries, burning Tynedale along the way, and has never encouraged “Bible class”. In my day it was also about “authority” and the “oral tradition”, rather than the literal Word of God. (As an aside, this has worked to the advantage of the RCC regarding evolution.) For every Protestant New Testament scholar who converts, there are hundreds who stay at home, and an occasional who becomes an atheist.

As another aside, I realize that you, in your many posts, have revealed that you, tho’ a faithful converted Catholic, remain conflicted. I made a remark earlier that I feel that one might, as a Christian, choose that form of observance most likely to foster his (her) prayer life, happiness, and relationship with Christ.
 
Every church has its posers and nominals. Catholicism is such a mammoth-sized religion that in the mix there are bound to be large numbers of people who don’t follow the faith. We’ve seen such numbers from Protestant large denominations as well. Mormons have a small amount of actual active parishioners who attend their worship each week and who play a role in their community. I do agree with your “well other churches do it (molest) too!” frustration. It’s a weak argument indeed. When I was a kid, I would do something wrong and when my dad or mom jumped on me for it, I’d try the “hey, but Steve and Rich did it, too!” and that didn’t fly. “I don’t care about Steve and Rich, I’m concerned with you, buddy!” that was the reply. And it applies to religion also. Pointing out other people’s stumblings and bumblings doesn’t excuse our own failures. You’re right on that one. And I for one am actually GLAD that the news media and lawyers and everyone jumped on the Church to kick 'em in the head and wake 'em up! This stuff was and is revolting and needs to stop, period.

I won’t lie to you. You’re right. I remain conflicted in many ways. At this point I’m choosing to just trust in Mother Church and realize, like I did as a small child, that perhaps my parents know better than I do. We’ll see. Only time will tell. I’m asking the Holy Spirit to guide me and it takes a lot out of me.

There are Catholics who are very adept at Scripture, some who don’t know it from Adam. I always thought Protestants were Bible scholars all. When I went Anglican I found that I, at that time a “former” Catholic, knew Scripture 50 times better than every single parishioner there. My rector enjoyed talking to me because I was the only parishioner out of hundreds that knew Scripture, the Fathers, traditions, and theology. If you could see what these folks DIDN’T know at bible studies?! :eek: Oh man…All churches have a mix I’d say. But I do think God is bringing evangelicals into the Catholic Church to bring an even deeper knowledge and insight to the Church just as He brough pagans like Augustine into the faith to use new and fresh thinking and awareness to enrich the Church at a crucial time.

God bless.
As a white flag wave, I would mention that the Catholic Church* is* much more interested in supporting scholarly New Testament studies than in the past (as recently as my past), and that I believe that popes have formally stated their support for the fruits of science, not only in scholarly Biblical study, but also in general. This, of course, contrasts with the attitudes of some non-Catholic denominations. As an aside, I would suspect that your knowledge of the OT, NT, Fathers, theology and down the line, would be greater than many ACs and RCs alike. You take these things seriously.
 
dzheremi;
For myself, when I converted to the Catholic Church I certainly did learn more of the Bible than I had known as a Protestant.


When I became a personal believer in Christ, then I started to read and understand Scripture, whereas before I had not met Him personally and my eyes were not opened yet by His grace. Studying Scripture with a heart guided by the Holy Spirit is by Grace, not by denomination or church. There are Protestants who have a firmer grasp on some passages in Scripture than most Catholics and vice versa.
I’ve seen Evangelicals gettin alot further, practically, with what they understand than some scolars and príests in the Catholic flock who proudly state we have the Fullness of Truth.

**Back on track: Female “clergy” are truly an abomination, as the original Latin abominari apparently means “shunned as an ill omen” (source), which is no doubt the best to put what we see happening in those errant churches that “ordain” women. Who can claim otherwise? Has the ordaining of women actually been a boon to any church, or has it caused splits, rifts, and weakening everywhere it has been accepted? **

I believe that every soul that God called to work in his vinyard has the capacity to bear good fruit. Now if a woman falsely ordained herself priest in the Catholic Church that would be an illusive anointing for sure, but as for vocations and ministries in other churches I hope you’d become more humble.

**Ordaining women to a clerical position in the church is like broadcasting a shorthand message to the world: “My church doesn’t know the first thing about Christianity, nor do we care to. We are frivolous. Please come invade us with every heresy imaginable, but for the love of the gods, don’t take away our good time and happy feelings.” **

You speak from a standpoint of faith in an authority, namely the authority of Rome to interpret Scripture and tradition. That is your faith, not that of certain others. In my country people greatly respect women pastors, as do I too, although I am no longer Protestant. And believe me, the problem in my former church is not women-pastors, but a generel lack of faith which is exactly like what I experience in many Catholic parishes… and tell me, what are WE doing wrong since many congregations are thinning out? Or could it be that the decline among us have the same causes as in the assemblies of our brothers and sisters? Oh yes, there is one difference… they have made a fool of themselves by blessing homosexual marriages, while we have become uncredible in the eyes of the world by the sexual abuse at the hands of our clergy.
Now, I have spoken to people of many faiths who tried to attack Christianity, but none of them mentioned women ministers as a sign of ludicrisy. That belongs to you proud Catholic brother who just want’s to sound like and deal superficially with the mystery of the sincere service to God in other churches while your other brothers here cheer for your fast and simple statements.

I do not take joy in another’s ruin (especially since I know that many people who support women’s ordination really do not understand how utterly anti-Christian it is, and hence are not being purposely defiant), but neither am I terribly surprised when these churches collapse under the weight of the many concessions they have made to the world. It is a sad story, really.
It really makes me wonder if they have any convictions at all about anything


I think the Church loosing most followers at this time is not the Protestant one but the Catholic Church… so it is, here in Europe anyway.
Now there is one branch of Christianity that seems to grow and bear fruit all over the world and that’s Pentecostalism… It’s the fastest growing, and they have women preachers too… Just saying that, God seems to bless them inspite of how anti-christian you think they are… and by the way, please don’t use that word, you have no right to say someone is anti- Christian just because they believe that the gender that brought Christ into the world and stood at the Cross/the greatest Alter are worthy to serve equally at that alter.
 
Roy knows that there’s no ‘conversing’ with this crowd.
We’ve all been at dinner parties or family gatherings and had the misfortune of sitting next to Uncle Ponty (the Pontificator). No matter what the topic (and especially if it’s of the religious sort) he will loudly and interminably provide an expository of his own thoughts and treat us to his wise hermeneutics.

Unfortunately, if someone wants to dialogue and say, “Uncle Ponty, I think that what you are saying–” will either be ignored or will be met with an even louder, “Well, when I was a chaplain in the army in Nigeria…” :ehh:
 
I made no argument that celibacy is the root of the abuse. I simply pointed out that abuse is much less common among Protestant clergy.
No 1234, that’s not what you said. You said
**The all don’t endorse a celibate clergy either, especially now that they see the potential consequences. **
Why remains an open question.
Well not according to what you wrote.
Sexual abuse does happen among Protestants but is much, much less common. And regarding ways to avoid abuse, don’t put words into my mouth. I said nothing about ways to avoid abuse.
Then perhaps you should be careful of what you write and maybe when you reply re-check what you have written.
Believe me, the seminaries are exploring every option and have been doing so for some time. And most of the abuse also involved* pre-adolescent boys* in whom it did the most damage, not just adolescents,
Yes it did. And if you are trying to establish causality again here, do you think men who are interested in children will not meddle with children because they have wives? Do you think adult women would be their thing? :rolleyes:
 
My reference to abuse was in the context of the excuse, “Protestants, and public officials do it too” , a ‘defense’ that even the dioceses don’t use (ref to notable statement by Milwaukee archbishop recently).
Aah but 1234 I wasn’t using it as an excuse. You really ought to read what I wrote better.

My point was that if Protestants and public officials do it too and they ARE MARRIED, then obviously it is not celibacy that has to be the cause of the abuse.
 
hen I became a personal believer in Christ, then I started to read and understand Scripture, whereas before I had not met Him personally and my eyes were not opened yet by His grace. Studying Scripture with a heart guided by the Holy Spirit is by Grace, not by denomination or church. There are Protestants who have a firmer grasp on some passages in Scripture than most Catholics and vice versa.

I’ve seen Evangelicals gettin alot further, practically, with what they understand than some scolars and príests in the Catholic flock who proudly state we have the Fullness of Truth.
But what sort of understanding? I am currently in an email debate with someone and all he keeps bringing up is St Paul’s epistles and when I mention the gospels he just throws some more un-related verses from St Paul because he cannot reconcile the “seeming” contradiction between what the gospels says and what St Paul has written. So if an outsider would think that somehow Paul is contradicting the gospels and the other NT writers.
I believe that every soul that God called to work in his vinyard has the capacity to bear good fruit. Now if a woman falsely ordained herself priest in the Catholic Church that would be an illusive anointing for sure, but as for vocations and ministries in other churches I hope you’d become more humble.
But Marlene what has Dhezeremi’s humiility or lack thereof has to do with this? Either Christ willed for there to be only male priests of He did not? It is that simple.

Since Christ clearly chose only male priests, then really, it should be the female clergy who needs to find deep in their heart some kind of humility for truly it is only pride that makes them insist on being in a role that God Himself willed only for men.
You speak from a standpoint of faith in an authority, namely the authority of Rome to interpret Scripture and tradition. That is your faith, not that of certain others. In my country people greatly respect women pastors, as do I too, although I am no longer Protestant.
But Marlene don’t you see how much of a hogwash you’ve just said? Don’t you think that considering that since the Catholic Church was the Church built by Christ she is the one who has a right to interpret her own book and her own tradition? And you go on again about your faith and my faith as if Truth is relative. Either you know and believe that your faith is true or there is no point in being in your faith because truly one must seek truth. If you think that it is all relative then why choose one over the other. Because of the singing? Because of the moral leeway that it gives one? Seriously.
And believe me, the problem in my former church is not women-pastors, but a generel lack of faith which is exactly like what I experience in many Catholic parishes… and tell me, what are WE doing wrong since many congregations are thinning out?
I would land this fairly and squarely on the post Vatican II attempts of many to bow to modernism. It is the push to allow the world to evangelize the Church rather than the Church evangelizing the world that came from many quarters and priestesses are one of these theological innovations that have been the cause of the ruin of many parishes.

Thank goodness that is changing.
 
We’ve all been at dinner parties or family gatherings and had the misfortune of sitting next to Uncle Ponty (the Pontificator). No matter what the topic (and especially if it’s of the religious sort) he will loudly and interminably provide an expository of his own thoughts and treat us to his wise hermeneutics.

Unfortunately, if someone wants to dialogue and say, “Uncle Ponty, I think that what you are saying–” will either be ignored or will be met with an even louder, “Well, when I was a chaplain in the army in Nigeria…” :ehh:
Is that the point when you spike Uncle Ponty’s drink to send him snoring in 2 seconds 😃

But in a situation like that you can still make Uncle Ponty address the point because he is not going anywhere.

In these forums, it is so easy to dump and disappear.

They’re like provocteurs who get everyone in a mad scramble to explain but they are just not interested in explanations .
 
Is that the point when you spike Uncle Ponty’s drink to send him snoring in 2 seconds 😃
Would that it would work! Instead, it seems that this “liquid courage” only fuels Uncle Ponty’s pontifications. :sad_yes:
In these forums, it is so easy to dump and disappear.
Indeed. That is one of my pet peeves on the CAFs. Actually, I have 2.

-the phantom poster who posts and is ne’er to be seen again, or returns 20 pages later to post and fly away again.

-the ex-Catholic (usually with descriptors such as “altar server”, "12 years of Catholic schooling with nuns!’) who are adamantine that some :whacky: belief they’re professing was taught by the CC. And the fact that they’re an ex-Catholic means that, by golly, they’re speaking with authority. :mad:
 
Since I belong to a denomination that was, and, in some instances, still is, Protestant Christian, I would like to reply.

To answer the OP’s original question, no, I am not disturbed by female clergy. Why would I object? According to the last statistics I saw, about half of the UU clergy are female and they do a good job of it.

As it happens, a Universalist congregation was the first Christian church to ordain a women. That was in 1863.

Contrary to what others have posted, this did not lead to the downfall of our churches. Unitarian Universalists are still going strong.

Which begs the question. are those who object most to female ministers more concerned about the messenger than the message?

Seeker
 
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