Typically, after being accepted by the leadership of a coven, a person studies for a year and a day before even being considered for initiation into the coven.
That depends upon the specific coven. In general, what happens is:
- An appointment with the public face of the coven. This may, but need not be, the coven leaders;
- If they decide that the individual is acceptable, then the study begins;
- If they decide that the individual is unacceptable, that is the end;
- After a year and a day of study, the individual is initiated into the coven;
- The leadership accepts the individual, after their initiation into the coven;
- A person can study for a year and a day, and be refused initiation. Usually, the potential candidate will be warned of this, long before the time is up. If they don’t correct the issues, they won’t be initiated;
Some covens have “public” study sessions. One still has to go through the application process, but the rules are less stringent. If the coven has both “public” and “private” study sessions, the potential candidate might be told that they can attend the “public” study sessions, but not the “private” study sessions. Six to nine months later, the individual might be privately reconsidered for acceptance into the “private” study sessions.
Each coven has its own policies on who can attend a specific ritual. The safest assumption is that attendance at a ritual is allowed, only when specifically invited. Gate-crashing is never acceptable.
One other point: When one changes Trads, covens will still require the individual to go through the year and a day of study, prior to initiation, regardless of how long they were in their previous Trads.
Trads: Tradition. The lineage that one has. Alexandrian Wicca is a Trad within Traditional British Wicca. Gardnerian Wicca is a different Trad within Traditional British Wicca. Most other trads are either direct offshoots of one of those two, or else reconstructions based upon the material written by Gardner, or Alexander. During the sixties and seventies, several trads were created, claiming lineages back to the neolithic era. Invariably, the true history is that they were created no earlier than 1965.
I don’t know when the concept that one could be a solitary Wiccan arose. Probably in the mid-sixties, when everything was being invented, and claimed to date back aeons. There are lineages of solitary Wiccans.
Even after initiation, a coven member is still expected to grow spiritually independent of the coven,
The learning prior to initiation is a basic foundation. A very rough analogy for Catholics, would be spending a year studying
The Baltimore Catechism, prior to a Catholic baptism.
as well as keep secret any oathbound material that they have learned in their course of study.
For most covens, that prohibition includes providing the name of the High God and High Goddess to those outside of the coven.
The precise parameters of the oath, depend upon the specific coven, and, to a lesser extent, the individual. The oversimplified version is: “
No discussion under any circumstances.” In extreme cases, that means leaving the room when the topic comes up in casual conversation. The more nuanced version is “
Discuss with others, once you have a complete and full understanding of the specific topic”.
and even then, you’re allowed to call in sick if you need to.
There are rites that can be done solitary. If you can’t attend the group ritual, you are expected to do the solitary form. Solitary Wiccans almost always do the ritual on their own, at the season of the Moon, and at the season of the Sun.
British Traditional Wicca pretty much insists of group participation for the seasons. The coven can be as small as two individuals. Ideally, a new coven has between five and eight members.
Amber